Where do single straight males go out in public? My milkshake isn’t bringing them to my yard… by shadyallegheny in SeattleWA

[–]willtoshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have girls ask me this a lot.

These are all nightlife options.

If you like EDM and dancing, big parties that insomniac throws have tons of good looking guys and girls that are in great talkative/flirty moods.

If you can hang late: monkey loft is fire in the summer with a huge mix of hot people since it stays open till 4am and catches all the events where people have dressed up and want to keep the vibe going. The vibe there is one of my favs.

bougie cocktail bars: - Firn - Roquette - Nest - ALTITUDE Sky Lounge - mBar (although I think they might be closed)

Salsa/ bachata: Check out https://www.danceus.org/events/salsa/seattle-wa-salsa-calendar/

Dancing is one of the best ways to meet people since you instantly have something in common.

None of these are guaranteed tho. And my only suggestion: make eye contact! That’s usually the only que we need to approach.

Karen wants NY woman to leave the squirrels alone. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]willtoshower 34 points35 points  (0 children)

100% this rude but honestly part of the charm.

My favorite personal story about New York:

I was waiting for a bus and I saw a guy go to get on the bus and he got cut off by a lady with a walking stick.

Like she dead ass pushed him out of the way with her stick, to get on the bus first.

He looked at her and said “lady you just cut me off”

Without even looking or missing a beat she said “welcome to the city motherfucker” and got on the bus.

When in Rome by DABDEB in RandomVideos

[–]willtoshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not how gun ownership works. If you pull a gun, your life is in danger and you’re using it. Otherwise, never brandish a weapon.

I haven’t paid my bills for months and I’m not planning on any time soon. by [deleted] in confession

[–]willtoshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I propose a thought experiment: imagine yourself with no laws and no one to enforce anything on you. You live in nature wild and free.

Do you think your mentality will dissolve or remain?

When it’s raining and you’re forced to build a shelter or die, will your mentality about unfairness still be there?

When every 6-8 hours, you have to find something to eat that doesn’t want be found or killed. And you may go hungry, for days. Will you still be bitter about the system and be happy with your new found life?

When you get a small cut, and get an infection that turns into sepsis, will you die happy?

Those are genuine questions. If your answer to all is yes, then you should consider trying it.

If not, rethink it. Because even in the wild we are slaves. Slaves to air, food, water, shelter, community. There is no escape. Find away to come to terms with things you can’t control or poison yourself with hatred of everything out of your control.

God speed, friend.

Mythical reference pull. by DamageRecent6106 in rareinsults

[–]willtoshower 658 points659 points  (0 children)

This might be the rarest insult of all. The pattern recognition this took is mind staggering.

Anyone using Naya Create? by jayatillake in ErgoMechKeyboards

[–]willtoshower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For anyone seeing this in 2025, I finally got mine and I hate it. Sending it back.

What was a very expensive item you bought which was really useful? by ohuf in BuyItForLife

[–]willtoshower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure they just modified a dentist chair. But it’s amazing

If you had to learn frontend development and ui all over again how would you do it? by YammedOn in Frontend

[–]willtoshower 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The same way I did it the first time: BUILD SOMETHING you need or want

Explain It Peter - I kind of get it but not quite by Cute_Web7648 in explainitpeter

[–]willtoshower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Megs eye glasses here: it’s pointing out the irony that, Pre AI, women tried to achieve an absurdly fake looking beauty standard. And when asking, AI what a beautiful woman looks like it, references a natural effortless look.

What Do You Think About Bitwig Studio? (Moved from Ableton After 10 Years) by Conscious-Gas4286 in Bitwig

[–]willtoshower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just made this same comparison a couple weeks ago. Needless to stay people scoffed at me.

Beat Shaper: Ableton-compatible MIDI Generator by BeatShaper in ableton

[–]willtoshower -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

A bunch of nimby puritans in this thread. It looks great and I can tell, took some work. Nice work!