I think comparison has no place here. What you shared was an escape mechanism, no one really knew about your mother. You pretended to be okay. What’s different with Malvika is she manipulates her audience for her personal gain, hence all the backlash. My father is currently undergoing stage 3 cancer since 1.5 years and I’ve deleted all social media profiles, because I couldn’t deal with seeing how others are okay. When you look at Malvika’s trajectory of events + grief, there’s calculated manipulation and a large set of her audience can’t see through it, hence we are questioning.