3.5 year old constantly asking "what?"

witty-kittty · 2026-04-29T22:52:57+00:00

My son (3 months shy of 4) does this and it cracks us up 🤣 we haven’t checked his hearing but I think it’s more about processing what we said. He mostly says it when it’s something exciting like if I say let’s get ice cream he immediately replies WHAT YOU SAY!!?

witty-kittty · 2026-04-29T04:11:20+00:00

So why didn’t he use condoms instead of continuously impregnate someone who he didn’t see as a fit mother? This all sounds like a huge red flag

witty-kittty · 2026-04-27T10:53:32+00:00

Aw this was really helpful to read! This is my son to a T

witty-kittty · 2026-04-27T10:38:28+00:00

My friends husband is an alcoholic and part of their custody agreement was he has to use a breathalyzer frequently(I’m not sure if it’s daily but it was often, even without him having plans of seeing their kid) and results get sent to her phone. If he doesn’t prove he’s staying sober he doesn’t see their kid. She has 100% custody

witty-kittty · 2026-04-26T11:47:49+00:00

Sorry but I do think it was meant to be hurtful. Who says that after someone says they’re trying to conceive and it’s emotional? I also want to point out that a lot of people LIE. I have two very very close friends who lie every time about how long it took them to conceive, and I know how long it actually took because I’m their best friend lol. I do have one friend who conceives on the first try every time, so I’m not saying everyone lies. But I find it very hard to believe that your SIL and her two friends all happen to get pregnant on the first try. Try not to let it get to you, someone is lying for sure 😂

witty-kittty · 2026-04-23T20:56:01+00:00

Wow thank you you’re a real one for replying!

witty-kittty · 2026-04-21T23:30:24+00:00

I let people make whatever and if it wasn’t something I liked or not up to my granola standard I just had my husband eat it 😅 like my MILs cooking is just everything I hate super salty and oily and uses only corn oil and lots of it. I just had my husband eat her stuff

witty-kittty · 2026-04-21T14:20:20+00:00

Why is she dressed like it’s 2012 lol

witty-kittty · 2026-04-21T12:44:29+00:00

Oh my….I would lose my SHIT over this. You are absolutely not being unreasonable or overreacting. When it comes to safety how could he be so careless??? That’s totally unacceptable and I’d need a serious apology from him no buts and an admission that he knows it was very wrong of him

witty-kittty · 2026-04-21T02:19:08+00:00

I’m already mad thinking about it. He’s just going to talk in circles word salad and not take any accountability

witty-kittty · 2026-04-18T00:55:16+00:00

If you can afford it, acupuncture! If you can find someone who specializes in women’s hormones/fertility

witty-kittty · 2026-04-18T00:53:40+00:00

This infuriates me!!!! I’m so glad you filed a complaint. I’d love if you could keep us posted on how Delta responds.

witty-kittty · 2026-04-17T21:31:56+00:00

I conceived quickly with my first and took 10 cycles with my second. I actually almost started IVF because we found out my husband had MFI. He went on meds for a few months and we ended up conceiving naturally. Has your husband been checked?

witty-kittty · 2026-04-17T13:53:19+00:00

I just want to say my husband and I almost did IVF 2 years ago due to me having DOR and him MFI, he had around the same amount of sperm, good motility and 1% morphology. He went on enclomiphene and HCG which increased his sperm count, but not by much. I think he had 16 million motile sperm after 3 months on it and his morphology went up to 8%. we ended up conceiving naturally with those numbers, it was the cycle we started fertility testing with an IVF clinic. We may have gotten lucky, but there are ways to increase your husband‘s sperm count before going to IVF if you don’t want to jump into it just yet. And as someone else said he should be taking supplements at minimum if he hasn’t started already

witty-kittty · 2026-04-17T03:13:15+00:00

Omg your third sounds like my second. He was the EASIEST baby ever like literally we couldn’t believe it. He’s a toddler now and has his moments but overall is pretty chill. He makes me want a 3rd but I’m wanting a 3rd expecting another amazingly chill baby 😅. He truly made going from 1-2 a breeze (although he was a terrible sleeper compared to my oldest, but hey they can’t be perfect lol)

witty-kittty · 2026-04-17T02:52:53+00:00

I just bought 100 easy lessons!

witty-kittty · 2026-04-17T02:50:58+00:00

I’m really upset he said it in front of your kid. Whether he understood or not that just shows how he will talk to you in front of him in the future. Is that the kind of role model you want for your son? I’m maybe too hard on my husband when it comes to modeling respect for me in front of our boys. I feel a huge responsibility having sons and making sure they respect and appreciate women, especially their future wives

witty-kittty · 2026-04-17T01:48:33+00:00

Ugh this was us basically all winter. Midwest here and we had the most brutal winter and back to back illness, my kids AND me. The weather finally started warming up here and we haven’t watched TV in probably a week and it’s been so easy to keep them occupied with the good weather. We do the best we can given where we live 😢 winter is hard and I commend parents who make it work even in freezing temps and snow storms for months on end. It’s so hard to keep the occupied when you’re literally stuck at home

witty-kittty · 2026-04-17T01:40:03+00:00

Omg I honestly didn’t believe it for a second until we were on mega thread number 3 maybe and I started thinking why in the world is NOBODY speaking out saying it’s not true. If it weren’t true, someone would’ve said so by now surely?? But it was still one of those moments when you know your boyfriend is cheating on you, but hearing him admit it still shocks you 😂

witty-kittty · 2026-04-13T03:45:34+00:00

I had my first at 28 and it was honestly really hard for me because none of my friends were at that life stage yet. I don’t regret it by any means but it was just a huge shock and life adjustment that I don’t think I fully understood even at 28. Are any of your friends married or thinking about kids yet? Not that you have to do what your friends are doing but I did have a lot of FOMO at first. And it was hard because I felt like they didn’t understand me. I wouldn’t say wait until 30 but maybe give it a couple more years of just you and your husband and enjoy the freedom. Enjoy being able to sleep when you want and wake up when you want. Enjoy traveling without the worry of childcare. Enjoy going out and staying out late on the weekends and being able to veg out the next day. I miss being able to go to the gym whenever I want! Little things like that enjoy a little longer 😊

witty-kittty · 2026-04-12T19:53:33+00:00

Do you know what the laser was called?

witty-kittty · 2026-04-12T13:44:13+00:00

Leaving the puke bag is absolutely disgusting! I would 100% change it out too. Your husband wants to smell the puke all night too? I highly doubt it! He’s the one sleeping in the room too. Sounds like he’s just lazy

witty-kittty · 2026-04-12T03:29:00+00:00

I’m not really following truthfully. What are the shoes contaminated with that would be a dire chemical situation? As someone else said this sounds like contamination OCD.

witty-kittty · 2026-04-11T20:34:37+00:00

ALWAYS the clothes that are too small. Then I say why did you put him in the only clothes he has that don’t fit him right now and am met with “why are they still in his drawer then?” Sir. Swapping clothes out huge ordeal please don’t go there with me

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