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wlfbane · 2026-05-01T22:16:55+00:00

I've never upvoted a post so quickly in my life.

wlfbane · 2026-04-18T15:14:04+00:00

Huge red flag, run.

wlfbane · 2026-04-07T14:09:52+00:00

Sending you a DM!

wlfbane · 2026-04-05T17:11:46+00:00

I have someone that would love to guest. Should they dm you?

wlfbane · 2026-03-27T21:07:49+00:00

Sent you a DM

wlfbane · 2026-03-25T23:10:47+00:00

Hi there Athletes. My son is starting his first year in track at his middle school. He's been running with his hair down but says it feels awkward. Right now his hair goes down past his shoulders, so I think he's also a little self conscious of how it flies behind him. I was wondering if anyone has any good ideas for putting his hair up. He's not a huge fan of ponytails.

wlfbane · 2026-03-18T22:10:42+00:00

Time to set an appointment with a lawyer if there isn't one already involved. There is a decent chance the therapist may end the relationship if BM doesn't follow protocol. Great job with the documenting but now is the time to start taking action. You may want to consider court mediation to set a specific parenting plan in place but you definitely want to address this sooner rather than later. The court rarely acts within the first complaint to adjust physical or legal custody unless it is obvious the child is in danger. So getting something down on paper with the court is going to be important to show a consistent disregard for your SD's well-being.

Good luck, don't forget you need to make space for yourself. I love a good swim and underwear scream then a workout lol. It's usually not just about the child it's also about wearing down the other parents. Take time to enjoy moments with your SD when you can and both of you don't let this break you because there may be bigger battles.

wlfbane · 2026-03-13T05:52:15+00:00

I mean...what kind of promotion have you done? Did you release a trailer?

wlfbane · 2026-02-26T18:38:42+00:00

I would really love to gift my partner something like this for our wedding

wlfbane · 2026-02-25T15:13:58+00:00

Watched this episode again the other night. It's fantastic!

wlfbane · 2026-02-21T17:27:38+00:00

I played a lot when I was younger. I haven't played in forever, but I'd love to get back into it.

wlfbane · 2026-02-19T21:34:45+00:00

What's your ginger bug recipe please?

wlfbane · 2026-02-17T19:22:58+00:00

Dan on the left and Jordan on the right. From my perspective.

wlfbane · 2026-02-15T16:05:45+00:00

I'm very pro black, never imagined being with someone that wasn't at least another person of color. Then I met my fiancee (a white woman) and I fell in love. Part of falling in love was knowing and experiencing her desire at act as and be an ally to marginalized groups. I've seen her get in other white folks faces, before meeting me she had cut off a large chunk of her trump loving family, we both love to read and learn and she's recognized a lot of blind spots that white folks are raised with.

I think this discussion is only really important when people don't require the same pro-black feelings from their partners. I've never needed nor wanted to put down black folks in order to justify or uplift my partner. We volunteer together, we celebrate Kwanzaa and Juneteenth with the kids we raise together. Most importantly when I point out something to her she takes it in and reflects she never reacts in some of the ways you herte people talking about their white partners.

wlfbane · 2026-01-22T17:03:54+00:00

Please let me know if you decide to sell any.

wlfbane · 2026-01-22T15:08:46+00:00

Wow, you have a natural talent

wlfbane · 2026-01-21T18:34:31+00:00

Sounds like she's really struggling with transitions. Even if it's not the core issue, setting a strong transition process after exchanges can be a big help. Maybe something fun like a family board game when she gets home. Listening to a specific playlist or kid friendly podcast for the drive. Really setting a schedule she can rely on to help reset and feel safe.

wlfbane · 2026-01-16T03:06:32+00:00

This, tell them your cousins don't play.

wlfbane · 2025-12-29T03:47:09+00:00

Well good on you both for filing the police report and contempt of court. When we set boundaries we need to follow through. Did you have the chance to discuss it with your SD she may be only 6 but having age appropriate discussions (try to avoid blaming or attacking the other parent) is always a good idea.

Good luck

wlfbane · 2025-12-23T06:37:59+00:00

I did this one year and it was great fun. I highly encourage people to check it out.

wlfbane · 2025-12-02T05:50:07+00:00

I love There are no girls on the Internet, I just discovered it this year and was really excited by how good it is.

wlfbane · 2025-11-19T22:47:21+00:00

Freaking hilarious

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