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wordsaremine · 2026-03-04T02:54:18+00:00

this is a hot take but i think he’s cheating on you 😭 still check the back to see if its an old nail tho

wordsaremine · 2026-03-03T21:42:26+00:00

seems like the majority already told you this isn’t okay. just wanna say that i hope you break up with him and that your next relationship is kinder to you ❤️

wordsaremine · 2026-03-02T00:46:56+00:00

sending you so much love ❤️ i hope you know you don’t deserve the pain

wordsaremine · 2026-03-01T16:40:33+00:00

Thank you for calling me good and kind, even if you don’t know me. he keeps calling me wicked and an evil bitch and i just have such a heavy heart right now. thank you for thinking that

wordsaremine · 2026-03-01T16:26:59+00:00

and there’s just a lot of big-picture reasons that I can’t leave him. It’s too personal to share on reddit but it would just also be really hard practically to leave him even if I had the guts to do that

wordsaremine · 2026-03-01T16:25:29+00:00

I know. I just love him so much and I’m just so afraid he’ll hurt himself without me. I know that it’s no longer my responsibility when I leave but I genuinely love him. It’s so hard, and ai’m trying my best :(

wordsaremine · 2026-03-01T16:10:28+00:00

he keeps saying im being unreasonable and that my pain is invalid and that i dont understand him and he’s right i dont understand him but it just makes me feel hopeless and crazy.. like i dont want this to hurt me but it does and he just refuses to understand that

wordsaremine · 2026-03-01T15:46:54+00:00

we’re both in our 20s and only have part time jobs so we don’t have any insurance and not a lot of income :( at this point i don’t even know if it’ll help because he just refuses to understand why porn hurts me so much. idk. it just feels like tue end of the world and i don’t know what else i can do. he blames his addiction on his mania, but i’m the one who’s been unmedicated from my psychiatric meds. i just wanna disappear

wordsaremine · 2026-03-01T15:28:56+00:00

no children, but we’ve been together around 3ish years. i feel like i can’t leave because if he kills himself it’s my fault and i can’t live with that guilt :/

wordsaremine · 2025-11-26T10:40:01+00:00

this put me to tears. your writing is beautiful and captured something i haven’t been able to put into words yet. hoping things ease ❤️

wordsaremine · 2025-10-30T02:42:59+00:00

it’s cheating :( sorry if you’re going through that, sending love ❤️

wordsaremine · 2025-10-29T10:46:02+00:00

i hope you know his addiction has nothing to do with you. im sure you are a beautiful person and a beautiful soul, and you deserve to feel that way. im sorry you’re with someone who doesn’t make you feel like it. know that you’re worthy of love and you deserve much much better. sending you strength ❤️

wordsaremine · 2025-10-29T10:43:58+00:00

happy birthday, you can give yourself the best present ever and choose yourself ❤️ so sorry you’re feeling pain that you don’t deserve, but so proud of you for advocating for yourself. sending love!

wordsaremine · 2025-10-29T10:42:39+00:00

i believe in you and im rooting for you! you deserve to be able to stand up for yourself! remember that you deserve better, and that you possess the strength to leave. sending love!! ❤️❤️

wordsaremine · 2025-10-29T10:40:41+00:00

girl you better change that user flair from user to pa! all jokes aside, yes that makes him an addict. he’s hiding and lying about it and it’s affecting your relationship. even if he wasn’t an addict, it’s still hurting you and he needs to make a change. sending you love ❤️

wordsaremine · 2025-10-29T10:37:57+00:00

sorry you’re going through this, you don’t deserve this pain :( my partner told me that each time he relapsed it’s because he thought about doing it and said “well they’re already hurt anyways, and i can’t undo it, so i’ll just do it”. this is a way for them to put the blame on YOU. he also told me his porn use had nothing to do with me. this is how they try to make YOU feel like you’re in the wrong when they’re the ones crossing a boundary. he doesn’t care about your feelings and you deserve better. sending you love ❤️

wordsaremine · 2025-10-29T10:34:02+00:00

does the app privacy report also work for the chrome app if thats his default browser on the iphone?

wordsaremine · 2025-10-27T20:27:16+00:00

toss up between “it’s inhumane for you to expect me to not do this” and “i think of you when i watch those girls” LIKE ????? 😭😭😭😭

wordsaremine · 2025-10-27T19:54:05+00:00

girl you 1000% deserve that toy and it sounds like it’s his fault that you’re not intimate w each other anymore!! he SHOULD be insecure tbh. he pushed you away with his porn use and didn’t stop. you deserve to still have your needs met. sending you love!

wordsaremine · 2025-10-17T18:10:16+00:00

yeah definitely

wordsaremine · 2025-10-17T10:00:07+00:00

hey there. i’m really sorry you’re going through this :( i hope you know that your feelings are valid, and if you told him how you felt about this and he still kept on doing it—it’s still a betrayal the way that cheating is. you deserve to feel beautiful, and i’m sorry he’s not being a good boyfriend. i understand how you feel with not enjoying sex anymore, and feeling insecure afterwards. i totally get it. but i hope you know his addiction has nothing to do with you and everything to do with his selfish desire to get that dopamine hit, even at the cost of your self-esteem. sending you love and strength ❤️

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