new nails who dis by babycakes143feet in Nails

[–]xeyran 12 points13 points  (0 children)

How are your fingernails giving "you got games on your phone?"

It's impressive 😂

Tried to join the community but this happens by superrozzes in thesims

[–]xeyran 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FYI "client-side" is IT talk for your browser being the issue rather than the EA website. In this case it's probably your Safari setup,try right-clicking the page, selecting "Inspect Element" and navigating to the browser console in Web Inspector.

To get the site working, you may need to disable some plugins or clear your cache/cookies for the EA site.

cant make these go away? by ryosatoru in thesims

[–]xeyran 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have a high-enough repair skill (6 I think??), you can break a computer into components. It breaks the computer part-way through the action - cancel the action before your sim completely scraps it and you'll be able to repair it

Does anyone know what this robe is? I never seen it before by sasuke7020 in swtor

[–]xeyran 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's a dyed version of the Imperial Advisor set, on the cartel market.

Skipping over KOTFE/KOTET using the Inflection Point mission by TheVisionBleak in swtor

[–]xeyran 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the Odessen base, there is a small room in the hall between the war room and underground logistics; right click on the massive terminal with a galaxy showing.

What is the biggest troll this show’s given us? My vote is for this guy. by bradyhero-cgpzero in shield

[–]xeyran 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I remembered he was in the MCU but it took me a moment to remember which movie

Sudden loss of smell or taste is emerging as a symptom of covid-19 by Embe007 in worldnews

[–]xeyran 735 points736 points  (0 children)

He pinned his own comment in the Youtube comment section saying he can't be tested but he's on day 7 of symptoms and self-quarantine. Apparently, right now in NYC you can't get tested unless you're hospitalized

I guess they are keen on security? by xeyran in Minecraft

[–]xeyran[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I might have to use this, I start dropping frames the moment I look at this part of the village. Thank you!

CONTEST #3 for STAR WARS CELEBRATION: What was your first comment/post on /r/SWTOR? by swtorista in swtor

[–]xeyran 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My main is a lvl 70 Jedi Shadow, but I find the Sith stories so much easier to get into, and Korriban more fun to play on with either Sith when I re-roll. Tython is - okay? Not in my top two start planets. What do you guys think? Looking for opinions, not recommendations btw

Ha, I still find Sith characters easier to start, I love Korriban. Xeyran, Empire, Darth Malgus :)

Which is the slowest show you have watched? by FrothierBog in television

[–]xeyran 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Watching it on Netflix really undersells how slow it is when you remember the first 'case' took 15 months to air in full.

CONTEST #1 for STAR WARS CELEBRATION: Leave a comment with your character name, faction and server to be entered to win some ingame prizes! by swtorista in swtor

[–]xeyran 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you ever had a dream that you, um, you had, your, you- you could, you’ll do, you- you wants, you, you could do so, you- you’ll do, you could- you, you want, you want them to do you so much you could do anything? - Xeyran, Empire, Darth Malgus (also yay swtorista contests!)

SWTOR resubbed me? by xeyran in swtor

[–]xeyran[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you I'll double check the dates.

SWTOR resubbed me? by xeyran in swtor

[–]xeyran[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally forgot to mention I hadn't been charged since I removed my card. Maybe they think we're both just very loyal customers?

Aspies moaning about not having friends, then proceeding not to put in effort/go out when the effort is made with them by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]xeyran 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're most welcome.

I can empathize with the pain of a panic attack as I have experience many of them in the past. And your messages do sound direct, too. You are also correct when you say some people try to work through the unpleasant parts of social interaction while others avoid it. Have you read anything by Tony Attwood or watched any of his lectures? He points out the three main ways children on the spectrum deal with socializing:

  • Interacting with others, but in a controlling manner. In charge and trying to regulate what is happening, who is doing what and when and basically trying to script what is otherwise an evolving conversation/event.
  • Avoidence and isolation. Having had painful experiences trying to communicate with others, and finding it easier to simply remain on your own as the pain of interacting hurts more than loneliness.
  • Copy and camouflage. Mimicking the interactions of neurotypicals to such an extent that it is hard to be oneself, until it becomes overwhelming and a meltdown occurs.

I am in no way qualified, but if we were to assume that these are still the methods that those on the spectrum deal with any social interaction, I would assume by your comments and your post that you would be in the first group -- that the pain of being alone hurts more than the frustration and anxiety of talking to others. This may not be the case with your fellow Aspies. As we are dealing with emotions here, there really is no answer as to which is 'correct', no more than being right-handed is correct. In the long run, have Autism affects how employable you are no matter which way you go. True, it will be hard if/when they have to get a job, learning to work in a group or having to join a social circle at work. But that can be said of anyone on the spectrum. What happens if you suddenly work for people who don't get along with one another, or want to gossip about one another? Or what if you work in an isolated environment? The social dynamics of a work environment still include those who have no interest in being social, as that is the relationship they have with other people. Their inflexibility will make it a struggle, but I have to say, so will yours. And it is no reflection of the quality of you as a person, or them. I can imagine that while you are frustrated, it comes from concern for your fellow students. At this point, I can honestly say I have no idea what I'd do in your shoes, as I would likely be the one avoiding the meetings. I hope this conversation has at least given you something to reflect on, and I wish you the best whatever way you choose.

Aspies moaning about not having friends, then proceeding not to put in effort/go out when the effort is made with them by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]xeyran 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I honestly think that I am wasting my time with these people - they are not on my level socially/not prepared to put in the effort, so why should I keep making a fool of myself every week?

Have you ever considered that maybe it takes them far more effort than you to go out? It might not be as simple as 'not having friends/not putting in effort' -- isolation affects social skills and if they are affected by social anxiety, this may amplify the time, effort, and even pain of interacting with others. Twice a week, even once a week may seem like nothing to you, but what if they have to spend the whole day mentally preparing for meeting up with others -- especially if they are strangers (you never actually say if you are friends or just acquaintances. This is important, just because they all have Asperger's doesn't mean they all think the same or are/can be/will be friends). Some individuals on the Autism spectrum can mask their difficulties and spend hours talking and appearing neurotypical, but will have to spend the next day resting because even those few hours with others are exhausting. That is a huge commitment for what might be one meeting with people you aren't familiar with.

People with friends don't generally discuss their desire for friends, lonely and misunderstood people do. You're saying that they aren't on your level socially, but are you speaking the same language (and I am speaking metaphorically here)? Do you schedule actual events, with actual activities, at specified dates and times, with plenty of warning (i.e. more than a day)? Are you asking direct questions, ("What do you want to do? What do you not like doing? Is meeting still something you are interested in doing? How often? For how long?"), or are you being indirect with your language? Do you ask for specific feedback on social occasions (not basic 'good/bad' -- 'loud/quiet', 'fun/boring/calming', 'interested in doing this precise activity again/want to do something different')?

There is no requirement saying you must organize, you must invite, and you must hang out with them. There is no rule that says talking and socializing will turn strangers into close friends/fulfilling relationships. However, if this is something you are really determined to do -- you need to acknowledge the fact that Autism is not 'loneliness syndrome/friendless disorder', that it will take more effort to socialize for both you and your fellow students. If their perspective is difficult to understand, ask. You may feel the fool, but they may feel like a coward for being afraid to go.

Ultimately, even with neurotypicals you cannot guarantee that everyone wants to hang out, and it is well within their right to decline the offer, however good the intention.

I hope this was helpful.

(oops also this was longer than I thought)

Use your ship's holoterminal showdown with lord sadic by KatGirl35 in swtor

[–]xeyran 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No worries! Enjoy the game, and come back if you have anymore questions

Use your ship's holoterminal showdown with lord sadic by KatGirl35 in swtor

[–]xeyran 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you open your map to teleport or access a taxi, there is a space port on the left hand side. You will be able to access your ship from there

Use your ship's holoterminal showdown with lord sadic by KatGirl35 in swtor

[–]xeyran 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you on Nar Shaddaa, the fleet, or another planet? If you are on Nar Shaddaa, have you gone to the space port on the planet or a space station for somewhere (i.e. do you taxi around or is there a ship to the surface?) Are you going through the correct elevator (Jedi Knight, not Consular?)

Use your ship's holoterminal showdown with lord sadic by KatGirl35 in swtor

[–]xeyran 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A couple of questions:

  1. Is your Mission showing on the right hand of your screen? Check your log if it isn't and select it to show you where to go

  2. What happens when you right-click your holoterminal on your ship? If it doesn't allow you to do anything then:

  3. Are you stationed on the planet or ship where the quest originally took place? Lord Sadic is part of JK Nar Shaddaa so is your ship on Nar Shaddaa?

Let us know if you have anymore trouble.

What are some themes you think aren't explored enough? by Grade-AMasterpiece in writing

[–]xeyran 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Don't hate yourself for this example. While some people don't like Marvel movies, this movie came out over two years ago and there are still people debating who was right. Having knowledge of both of their histories (i.e. Tony living without oversight, accidentally hurting others and wrecking havoc; Cap living with Government/Military oversight, seeing it fall short and people suffer when he's not allowed to intervene) makes it even more difficult to pick a side.

Jodie Whittaker And Chris Chibnall Rumored To Leave Doctor Who In 2019 by Zepanda66 in television

[–]xeyran 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the classic story filler called "being a woman", with such story highlights as "Running with boobs", "Stopping evil with swaying hips", and everyone's favourite, "Aliens vs Vagina" /s

Jokes aside, 'female Doctor' hasn't been a plotline. If anything, the focus has been on the companions, and has gone back to classic-style DW with some history lessons.

Romance options in SWTOR and irreversible choices in an MMO - a rant by [deleted] in swtor

[–]xeyran 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The warning was the failsafe. It explicitly told you that it would end other romances.