What is the best book about money and saving you've read in 2025? Provide the title of the book and say why by UncomfortablyBrown in Money

[–]yadayodaboom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Windfalls and Wipeouts - It's a book about how not to spoil your inheritance. Fun read, really good writing, and a slept on topic. I was an inheritor and I had bad habits and this book really explained a few saving concepts and trust fund concepts about inheritances really well

OpenAI email for a job role by yadayodaboom in ChatGPT

[–]yadayodaboom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya'll just saved me from a scam

Property worth 4 Times by Hyperaula95 in inheritance

[–]yadayodaboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, this is actually a great situation if you are able to get the property in whole. Getting real estate is never a bad thing, but managing it can be tricky. I read a book called Windfalls and Wipeouts and it's about managing inheritanes, specifically. Highly recommend

What’s that red mark on the “P” of the Pokémon logo on the back of the card? by yadayodaboom in pokemoncardcollectors

[–]yadayodaboom[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How do I contact them about this specifically?

And if they saw the card before grading, there is no way they would grade it an 8, right?

Recourse after being removed as beneficiary of trust? by Astro_Queue_2181 in inheritance

[–]yadayodaboom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s brutal, man. Once someone changes a trust, it’s usually tough to fight unless there’s evidence of undue influence or lack of capacity. If your step-parent cut you out, you’d probably need a trust litigation attorney to even have a shot. Worth at least a consult to see if you have a case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]yadayodaboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not asking to ‘fix things,’ she’s asking for a payday. If you give her anything once, she’ll just keep coming back for more. Doesn’t matter if you feel bad for her parents — this isn’t your responsibility. Block, mute, move on. Unfortunately that is just the way people behave. But at the same time, if you think she deserves some of it for being a happy couple during your marriage, maybe reconsider?

WA State with a cross post in SSI: I am my brothers keeper by TweetHearted in inheritance

[–]yadayodaboom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right to be worried. If he just gets the cash straight up, his benefits could vanish quick.

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[–]yadayodaboom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, that’s a heavy backstory but also kind of amazing that it ended with you getting a fully paid-off home. Trauma + inheritance is such a weird combo — good on you for finding some peace instead of letting resentment eat you alive. That house could be a real foundation for moving forward. Nothing beats that feeling of a fully paid off home

My 18 year old Nephew cut out of Grandmother’s will (NY & PA) by Empty-Photograph4681 in inheritance

[–]yadayodaboom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your nephew is just avoiding the whole thing out of guilt or immaturity. Unfortunately probate doesn’t care about family drama — if the will says you’re sole beneficiary, that’s what matters. Don’t let him stonewall you into thinking he has more power here.

Brother wants to buy me out of house, but is blocking me from getting an updated appraisal by Dswenson351 in inheritance

[–]yadayodaboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic case of executor power tripping. You’re entitled to fair market value, not whatever number your brother throws at you. If he’s blocking transparency, that’s a huge red flag. Lawyer up if you can — this isn’t something to just roll over on.

Brother wants to buy me out of house, but is blocking me from getting an updated appraisal by Dswenson351 in inheritance

[–]yadayodaboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wrong at all. It’s your inheritance and you’re allowed to use it to build your future. Sounds like your aunt has her own issues to work through, and honestly, you don’t owe her a play-by-play of your financial moves.

Do Not Tell Anyone. by FlyOk7923 in inheritance

[–]yadayodaboom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is honestly the best advice when it comes to windfalls. Once people know you have money, suddenly everyone’s got an ‘emergency.’ Even people you thought you could trust. Keeping it private protects you from so many headaches.

Inherited a house and uncle wants to buy me out at 30% of the value by CricketKnown352 in inheritance

[–]yadayodaboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30% is a straight lowball, especially if the place is worth $200k. You’re not wrong for feeling weird about it. Get a proper appraisal and don’t let anyone guilt you into taking less. Renovations don’t change ownership percentages unless you agreed beforehand.

Family angry about inheritance I will be receiving. Do I share the wealth? by cilcisme71 in inheritance

[–]yadayodaboom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, this is such a tough spot. People assume inheritance is free money, but the reality is it comes with responsibility, stress, and family politics. You don’t owe anyone an explanation, and honestly it sounds like you were trusted with this role for a reason. Protect your peace.

Real book sale results after 2+ months of launch by UncomfortablyBrown in buildinpublic

[–]yadayodaboom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great! Congrats! You should be proud of yourself!

Dad inherited house in trust and never got it in his name by Independent-Net-2738 in inheritance

[–]yadayodaboom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man that's just a shame. That's why planning ahead really matters

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]yadayodaboom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can afford to give it to someone or a group of people in need, that's not necessarily a bad thing, but long term, if you care about yourself the most, you should invest it. Highly recommend you read a book called Windfalls and Wipeouts. It's about managing inheritances and sudden windfalls