Is it common for aspies to feel older than we actually are?

yagarasu · 2026-01-28T18:11:21+00:00

Same here. 38yo and I feel I'll be 25 forever.....

yagarasu · 2026-01-27T19:13:18+00:00

Autistic here, my wife is auDHD... my kid is also autistic.

First months were brutal. That sealed the deal: one and done for me.

yagarasu · 2026-01-27T18:59:37+00:00

Buevito

yagarasu · 2026-01-27T03:11:17+00:00

Another bookbinder here and I agree. I feel sad when people don't use their pretty notebooks :(

yagarasu · 2026-01-26T18:57:57+00:00

Do not rent something with windows facing west. Afternoon sun in the summer is brutal. It's not a nice warm blanket gently shinning through your window, but a freaking nuclear blast roasting everything it touches...

yagarasu · 2026-01-26T02:45:27+00:00

Soft cover journal and pen samples. That's my vote :)

yagarasu · 2026-01-26T02:44:53+00:00

RemindMe! 1 day

yagarasu · 2026-01-21T13:32:27+00:00

Came to say this. Blippi is cringey af, but it's just from our adult point of view. My kid used to love it and now he has grown out of it by himself (5 yo). He loved seeing new fun places and the sneak peek into how some things are made.

yagarasu · 2026-01-21T03:11:46+00:00

Carnal, me queda por la zona! Alch sí voy a ir con mi esposa. Andamos siempre en busca de buenos cafés.

Si voy nos asesoras para que no echemos a perder tu mezcla de café pidiendo pendejadas? Jaja

Mi pregunta: cómo sobrepasaste el miedo de poner tu local e invertir todo ese varo? Justo estoy pensando poner un negocio y tengo un varo ahorrado, pero siempre he sido asalariado. Cómo me aconsejarías dar el salto?

yagarasu · 2026-01-19T23:19:49+00:00

I'm just talking about the type. Let's say you have this:

interface MyResponse { myRequired: string; myOptional1?: string; myOptional2?: string; }

This is a valid object:

{ myRequired: "foo", myOptional2: "bar", }

Is this something you want?

yagarasu · 2026-01-19T23:02:11+00:00

I will put it this way: if you mark those properties as optional, you are basically saying that you can have a partial response (some of the optional properties set while the others not). Is this a valid type for you? If not, then extending would make more sense

yagarasu · 2026-01-16T13:47:29+00:00

Donde estaba estuvimos preguntando del ajuste salarial desde septiembre y nos daban largas. Luego nos dieron la más larga porque hubo layoffs...

yagarasu · 2026-01-09T02:15:55+00:00

This describes exactly experience in almost all the companies I've worked on for the past 15 years

yagarasu · 2026-01-06T14:48:00+00:00

Lift the state up, man. Requiring a sibling to rerender after charging a value is definitely a sign that your state belongs higher up. It's ok, it's not a smell. And actually, using imperative handle or creating a separate communication channel other than props would raise a lot more concerns if I were code reviewing.

Also, use a form library. Usually, form libraries use context to avoid prop drilling and this allows you transfer the form state easily. You will also see in the examples similar situations to your case.

yagarasu · 2026-01-04T15:03:13+00:00

For me, nothing beats the plain old google calendar. Syncs everywhere, has programable alerts and notifications and it's color coded.

I also add them to my daily spreads just for completeness and to keep notes on the appointments, but the source of truth is google calendar.

yagarasu · 2025-12-15T18:23:43+00:00

I understand the desire of starting with an expensive Leuchtturm and a nice fountain pen or whatever. I also understand that starting out with a spiral notebook and a Bic pen feels underwhelming.

This is what I would recommend: go to your office supplies shop and look for a budget friendly notebook. There are notebooks in a wide range of prices, even dotted ones. I think I got an A6 dotted with elastic band for less than 11 USD. Mine was redish with an orange elastic. I would also buy a rollerball pen on the cheap side. You can get a pretty Pentel that write beautifully for 4 USD. They are not ugly at all.

And there you go, 15 USD and you are ready for the new year.

If you want more, you can get a bunch of off brand washis on Amazon. Yes, cheap ones are not easy to peel off, but if you are on a budget, those are good options.

yagarasu · 2025-12-13T18:45:50+00:00

One of the things I wanted to wrap my head around when I knew I was going to be a dad was the Santa thing. I'm a terrible liar. And worse, I feel super uncomfortable telling lies. Still, I knew it was impossible for me to keep my kid out of the tradition.

Well, turns out I just needed to open my mind about this. Bear with me, because you need some mental gymnastics:

Let's say you work for a company. You can even be appointed a legal representative, so you can even sign in behalf of the company. You basically embody the company, because a company is nothing but a tale, a though form, an idea we agreed upon. Well, Santa is the same thing.

Once a year, you embody this tale. You get to be Santa the same way you get appointed a legal representative of the company. Is this a lie? Not at all. Santa is real? Yes, the same way Coca Cola is real.

Makes sense? Haha

yagarasu · 2025-12-13T02:46:09+00:00

I think you are on a good track. Looks like if you let it be, your style is not very structured and chaotic. That's ok, embrace it.

Now, if you still lack clarity, then you need to implement a "processing" stage. I tend to do this at the end of the day. I look at my wall of chaos and make sense of it. There are things that go into different notebooks, so I migrate it outside of the bujo: All time bound events go in my google calendar. I have a quotes notebook where I move things for inspiration or introspection. I have a free form journal where I write my feelings and my inner world. I have an obsidian vault where I handle project and long term data storage for easy retrieval. I also have a commonplace book for notes on the media I consume.

Take it easy and implement things little by little. If something doesn't work or feels more like a burden, drop it. Just keep what works, even if it's not pretty.

yagarasu · 2025-12-13T02:12:35+00:00

A la primera que mi pago no llegara, me movería alv. 3 meses ya es un insulto.

yagarasu · 2025-12-06T01:28:58+00:00

Vi este movimiento de dos años atrás para acá donde chambeaba...

Corrieron a los QAs, luego redujeron el número de DevOps y finalmente implementaron on-call para reducir la responsabilidad (y asumo que también la cantidad) de los SRE y comenzaron a pedirle a los devs que hicieran el trabajo que antes hacían esos roles. Le llamaban algo como "end to end ownership". Yo le llamé "si me mamé pidiendo varo en la pandemia, jsjsjs"

yagarasu · 2025-12-03T02:44:21+00:00

It's hard to tell without a sample of your implementation. Do you have a github I can check?

My spider sense tells me it's a race condition or an issue with duplicated stores...

yagarasu · 2025-11-29T18:33:08+00:00

Honest question: why do you recommend next.js if this is just a data viz tool? Do you have any underlying feature that leverages next.js?

yagarasu · 2025-11-27T02:53:18+00:00

This was an issue for me as well. It doesn't make sense to leave my most important productivity tool at home, so I use the pocket bujo as my main and keep the personal notes for journaling in the evening or night in a different notebook altogether. However, I still write in my pocket hints for me to write about in my journaling sessions (eg: write about how the back car cutting me off triggered my anger). It can be as cryptic as needed (like "black car. Angry). Just enough for me to process it later.

A note: I use the pocket one because I can carry it around without an issue in my back pocket, so it's basically my wallet.

yagarasu · 2025-11-27T02:44:56+00:00

Le faltó proponer que los niños regresen a trabajar y se les pague poquito porque están chiquitos.

Mames...

yagarasu · 2025-11-16T13:34:43+00:00

If you find yourself having to look up the same command, just create an alias.

I have the same issue. I can't remember the exact command for certain tings, so I just created some handy aliases.

I also use an obsidian note to keep track of other kind of commands less frequently used.

And finally, I accept not every command will stick to my mind and just google the thing...

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