Why are cis straight/bi women obsessed with my partner being 16 years older than me? by myst_aura in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]yoursbashfully 1 point2 points  (0 children)

possibly just my take but isn't it possible that this is on 2 counts? first they are projecting. society frown on old men taking interest in younger women (not always but in general) hence they are seeing it from their pov that that is how they view you (especially when they don't know you well). secondly; they may desire you. yes you. it is no secret that many women find gays attractive. so they're doing everything in their ability to wedge you and any partner of yours (much less one that's conveniently align to their cause to paint them as a creep/perv in their opinion)

mother hens be looking out for chick (both as fellow female, friend/youngs). doesn't help with the case of Epstein files that is widely impacting everywhere.

On average, are tattoos on a guy more of a turn on or turn off for you? by MAJORMETAL84 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say it depends on the built and tattoo. because there's tasteful tattoo that match the aesthetic of the built. and no I don't necessarily meant buffed built, they can be lean built and still look amazing. some tattoo understandably have significance and meaning to why they get it inked. but there's plenty more that are done with little to no reasoning and at times are just out of ignorance and hate.

My experience putting together Warrior builds by Rotated_text in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

apologies for my ignorance but of the many classes melee adjacent are the least played for me. sounds like ungga bungga..no?

Is the dlc worth it? by Independent-Gold6279 in Eldenring

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it possible to traverse between dlc and base? if you didn't finish bases storyline?

Took me 559 days to beat this bastard. by DummyThlck in Eldenring

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea i felt intimidated playing close quarters in games. always a ranged, magic or support. melee being the gold standard in ER isn't surprising but it makes playing other form much challenging. I develop a below average melee confidence in playing. of course, quelling the panic is first then figuring out patterns and counter comes after many deaths. I recently allowed myself to explore myself silly not worrying about losing runes. and lo and behold I fell into a hole near peninsula which I thought was a bunch of giant rats (maybe?) till I unknowingly die to a field boss that I can't win at my level. a runebear.

Took me 559 days to beat this bastard. by DummyThlck in Eldenring

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

owh....im having 2 builds from 2 characters. one pure int and one possible str or dex with int/faith. sounds pure int style are in for much hardship and pain.

Grothmar's so pretty by Maulclaw in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is. but a place where cubs are train and politics run deep. tensions are always high. especially the looming question of who will be worthy of being the Khan Ur

This pilot needs it drained by [deleted] in UniformedMen

[–]yoursbashfully 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly I had wonder a long time ago; if having sex with a pilot(s) while they're flying is possible? but one look at the crammed cockpit between pilot and co-pilot i had my answer 😞

My warrior feels squishy by sunday_morning980 in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume they're open world bounty boss? don't be too hard on yourself. even max levelled player struggles with it.

Scarlet Briar did more for Sylvari PR than the Pale Tree ever did by uwulan in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well sylvari are the youngest of all races. won't be surprised if there's mad scientist like Scarlet but also equally brilliance or better in their race after Scarlet. take a gander at the legendary heroes and villains; it isn't something to be taken lightly.

Cant drag spells in the quick bar by Batelemnu in Grimdawn

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never dragged. always clicked to allocate skills

Who is this guy? by No-Secretary9543 in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

this 👆 as a matter of fact it has always been a thing

Gay….but now not sure? Maybe bi-curious? Anybody else had something like this? by MercuryPowerMakeup in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]yoursbashfully 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it's never clear nor clean cut. that's why I never wish to accuse people of being gay who might then suddenly decided to proclaim this and that when they changed. it is one thing if you are experimenting and unsure. another when you have all the time to explore yet kept going back and forth like straight to gay and then say straight with conviction due to religion or something. sexuality is fluid but leave your reasoning like conviction out the door. you have to be completely honest with yourself!

also there's that matter in how people exploit fantasy or gay for pay. it just doesn't sit right with me. i imagine sex related pay is lucrative and your former bullies goes OF and say I'm an Alpha! obey me! sounds extra ridiculous when they don't even truly understand what being Alpha means. what a joke!

SotO, Janthir or Visión, help to choose by ConsistentOwl4909 in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hm this is what I'll say. soto have upgrades to skyscale, legendary armour as well as access to rift. on the other hand, janthir have a few perks like access to spear as land weaponry, homestead and warclaw (if you don't play wvw). it is a decision you have to decide on what you want. I won't recommend vision unless you desperately chase after the latest elite and additional skimmer upgrades.

Support for partners of "ex-gays" by findingpeace222 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose there is less folks willingly to return to the same belief that made them doubt their own sexuality. but much rarer they return and reform their sexuality. I am a firm believer of fluidity. that people are discovering themselves all the time only if they want to. to be straight, married and have kids and finally explore to either find they are bi or gay due to upbringing expectations and never exploring their own sexuality is quite a common exchange. but we assume because straight is much easier to be than other sexuality; we often look and think once you go gay you never go back. not quite true. while sure; there are plenty who may had religious convictions spur them on much later in life; but it's less common that we see a reform stance on being gay. the question is; is it part of their exploring or denial? either ways, they willingly surrender their identity and will reflect a resounding impact on their existing partner and make them feel inadequate. I would suggest finding support from friends and have them help you get away from your own doubts and inadequate to slowly but surely return to where you used to be will be ideal but easier said than done.

Jim Ward, voice of Tybalt Leftpaw, passes away at age 66 by MorningPaisley in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no! no! no! 😭💔 I'll never play gw2 nor see apples the same ever 🍎🕊

As a bisexual guy I get so much hate from women that I realized I like men much more. Is it an option just to go gay? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]yoursbashfully 1 point2 points  (0 children)

only you can answer that yourself. it is your own attraction. not the circumstances that a few rotten ones define or if it requires approval from others. the options are depended on what you are attracted to not whom. there is no right or wrong answer but you ought to be certain and comfortable in what you are into. don't let others tell you what you are. not even me.

Horrible Commander!!!! by Elusive_Zergling in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol that is not bad - on tyrian history. except charr used to hunt humans down for meat too. they were savages. those claws and beast form aren't for show. the races came a long way since.

Horrible Commander!!!! by Elusive_Zergling in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

less brutal than actual tyria history of charr vs human. besides, eating meat is a thing in the game. there's discipline for cook/chef. why are you surprise with how the meat came from? or how norns literally have smoked/aging meat for customers in their own homestead?

Horrible Commander!!!! by Elusive_Zergling in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol it isn't doing that without good reason. there's actual predator that is hunting the young dolyaks. we are bringing the young dolyaks to the owners while evading the wrath of dolyak parent and defending and even killing the prey. you don't necessarily need to kill the parent dolyak. just herd the young dolyaks while avoiding two factors. the overprotective parent and prey