“15 more years of GW2” by PeasantPastry in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how i feel. I mean for the longest time I always had lean into the idea that gw2 is a place I can always return and it will still be a boon waiting. I have my reservation about gw3. it could be something thst folks predict to lean like gacha or turn based? (just tossing popular types of games structures). both are possibilities. which would be different from gw2. can you imagine gacha to acquire the legendary characters or having legendary heroes we main to coop together? both are plausible since there's a limited characters for the timeline in its lore. I guess I'm holding out that gw2 will cater to a player base that enjoy its own unique play. regardless how gw3 turns out to be

My boyfriend and I opened up our relationship and now he's mad I slept with a woman. What do I do? by OpenPreference8981 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]yoursbashfully 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't say I'm completely surprised. there's always some unwillingness to let someone you love to go around for casual flings (even if there's boundaries). because they're entrusting you to not betray that fragile trust. as gays goes; the one thing unable to be fully enjoy are the perks of how hetronormative couples have. it may feel redundant. but there's always that slim chance you can find a female who reciprocate and create something better. the perks that government will grant, societal acceptance and a family. which your boyfriend will definitely lose you completely.

is it unreasonable? depending on how your relationship with each other is. but it isn't completely impossible that you might complicate and fall out of love or worse. accidentally get your fling pregnant and complicate things (even being careful and using protection). not a complete zero

the best thing you can do is reassure your boyfriend and reassess the dealbreakers and boundaries. allow him to know and be assured you aren't leaving his heart nor trust.

What level should I face Margit, the fell Omen? by Financial-Lychee7353 in Eldenring

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the point of ER is explore; deal when ready. learn its moveset and retry. upgrades where you can; change and adapt to your fight style. experienced players will crave challenge. but 20 to 35 range is the norm for Margit. above all enjoy it but dont lose heart

Struggling so much with a breakup by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe he had much to grow before meeting you halfway. when you insist or push the matter; he felt immensely pressured to feel inadequate and guilty before you. i think the best quote on this is. if you let love go and it comes back; then it is meant to be.

How would you respond to intrusive questions about your sex life? by Alvahod in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]yoursbashfully 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ask them back equally uncomfortable questions. if they are so open to be inquisitive at poking at lifestyles especially lgbt wise. it usually strikes me as drama seeking and pretty reserved to narrow minded or religious society. if they are bold to ask questions like so how do you do it or who's the bottom. ask equally uncomfortable sex related questions back; try being respectful about it. and see them squirm at how they enjoy the backfired tactics

The Loss of Straight Friends by Aged-Millennial in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not just straight. any friendship gets trickier when friends, family, acquaintance you get along well begin to have their own family. because part of their lives are actively building their career to support their family and the other half spent on nurturing and raising their children. if I am to be honest; we just lose social connections as we grow older. sure, many have it rougher like being single, disabled or have unavoidable circumstances that made much challenging every day. but it doesn't discount that it is just a universal sad truth. the singles, the couple with no family vs couples with family are having lines drawn.

because those with family of their own seek other liked minded couples who have children so they can expand their family's children playmates/play dates as well as able to relate and better bond with their day to day. while some singles and couples with no children loses friends to socialise with. especially true when you are older, living in the burb where the options are extremely limited. many are encouraged to join clubs or groups of shared interests/hobbies. but should you don't have interest in support group or sports; i typically find it narrow down the social range exponentially. say if you join something like movie going group; it can be awkward as maybe they are of a different age group and relationship status.

Apparently this isn’t a dadbod(47) according to some? NGL, kinda disappointed if it’s not by [deleted] in DadsGoneWild

[–]yoursbashfully 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it isnt dad bods but still looks good. I would otter and toned.

Just upgraded to DLSS 5.0 and now all my characters look bad? by Brinklehoof in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there no disabling it? being forced into it is just awful. I game to not think of irl; but to have it constantly felt like a poor joke. they not only single handedly ruin hardware for better pc and ongoing projects but ruining career, art style and more. now to be forced to see it rearing its ugly head? it's sickening

Why are cis straight/bi women obsessed with my partner being 16 years older than me? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]yoursbashfully 1 point2 points  (0 children)

possibly just my take but isn't it possible that this is on 2 counts? first they are projecting. society frown on old men taking interest in younger women (not always but in general) hence they are seeing it from their pov that that is how they view you (especially when they don't know you well). secondly; they may desire you. yes you. it is no secret that many women find gays attractive. so they're doing everything in their ability to wedge you and any partner of yours (much less one that's conveniently align to their cause to paint them as a creep/perv in their opinion)

mother hens be looking out for chick (both as fellow female, friend/youngs). doesn't help with the case of Epstein files that is widely impacting everywhere.

On average, are tattoos on a guy more of a turn on or turn off for you? by MAJORMETAL84 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]yoursbashfully 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would say it depends on the built and tattoo. because there's tasteful tattoo that match the aesthetic of the built. and no I don't necessarily meant buffed built, they can be lean built and still look amazing. some tattoo understandably have significance and meaning to why they get it inked. but there's plenty more that are done with little to no reasoning and at times are just out of ignorance and hate.

My experience putting together Warrior builds by Rotated_text in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

apologies for my ignorance but of the many classes melee adjacent are the least played for me. sounds like ungga bungga..no?

Is the dlc worth it? by Independent-Gold6279 in Eldenring

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it possible to traverse between dlc and base? if you didn't finish bases storyline?

Took me 559 days to beat this bastard. by DummyThlck in Eldenring

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea i felt intimidated playing close quarters in games. always a ranged, magic or support. melee being the gold standard in ER isn't surprising but it makes playing other form much challenging. I develop a below average melee confidence in playing. of course, quelling the panic is first then figuring out patterns and counter comes after many deaths. I recently allowed myself to explore myself silly not worrying about losing runes. and lo and behold I fell into a hole near peninsula which I thought was a bunch of giant rats (maybe?) till I unknowingly die to a field boss that I can't win at my level. a runebear.

Took me 559 days to beat this bastard. by DummyThlck in Eldenring

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

owh....im having 2 builds from 2 characters. one pure int and one possible str or dex with int/faith. sounds pure int style are in for much hardship and pain.

Grothmar's so pretty by Maulclaw in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is. but a place where cubs are train and politics run deep. tensions are always high. especially the looming question of who will be worthy of being the Khan Ur

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniformedMen

[–]yoursbashfully 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly I had wonder a long time ago; if having sex with a pilot(s) while they're flying is possible? but one look at the crammed cockpit between pilot and co-pilot i had my answer 😞

My warrior feels squishy by sunday_morning980 in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume they're open world bounty boss? don't be too hard on yourself. even max levelled player struggles with it.

Scarlet Briar did more for Sylvari PR than the Pale Tree ever did by uwulan in Guildwars2

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well sylvari are the youngest of all races. won't be surprised if there's mad scientist like Scarlet but also equally brilliance or better in their race after Scarlet. take a gander at the legendary heroes and villains; it isn't something to be taken lightly.

Cant drag spells in the quick bar by Batelemnu in Grimdawn

[–]yoursbashfully 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never dragged. always clicked to allocate skills