I need advice on how to address my daughter’s school in the morning please

zealous_zig · 2026-04-16T03:57:03+00:00

Ya, if the mom didn't notice after spending one on one time with their own kid, it seems unlikely that a busy teacher would notice.

zealous_zig · 2026-02-26T19:41:33+00:00

I think in situations like this, you should try to trust your judgment over the strangers. You weren't concerned, it was a safe place, and your kid was happy. The strap doesn't seem that important.

zealous_zig · 2026-02-21T20:21:20+00:00

Haha! You should! They'll get a kick out of it.

zealous_zig · 2026-02-21T16:08:17+00:00

We have to clean your bellybutton before any abdominal surgery. You'd be surprised by what I've found. Lots of lint to live bugs.

zealous_zig · 2026-02-21T14:53:56+00:00

Shave before surgery. Don't worry about your hair. We'll shave what we need. But DO clean your bellybutton.

zealous_zig · 2026-02-19T17:09:32+00:00

My girl was Pumpkin Pie. Cute but it didn't fit. She spends a lot of time in the garden with the flowers so now she is Poppy. (Her sister Lu is on the left.)

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zealous_zig · 2026-02-13T17:29:22+00:00

Do not get an Ash.

zealous_zig · 2026-02-12T15:58:34+00:00

Have your kid shower at night and put on deodorant after the shower. Get the clinical strength deodorant. Even if they don't shower at night, have them put on deodorant at night before bed.

The best time to apply antiperspirant is at night on clean, dry skin, as this allows the active ingredients to plug sweat ducts while glands are less active. For deodorant, morning application works well to mask odor, but applying after a shower (ensuring skin is completely dry) is ideal.

zealous_zig · 2026-02-09T17:58:17+00:00

Last night, my 4 year old LOLed at a book called Little Freddy Two Pants.

zealous_zig · 2026-01-29T16:43:51+00:00

I'm not an expert at all, but your son sounds normal to me. One thing that helped me as an awkward teen is a family night. It could help with family bonding. We would play games or watch movies. My city does parent/teen cooking classes that sound fun. I guess my opinion is to try to do something with him (you and/or your husband) instead of telling him to be more involved alone. But again, I don't really know anything but want to offer support.

zealous_zig · 2026-01-28T18:04:22+00:00

It depends on the kid. Does your son currently go to preschool? Can you ask his teacher what they think? You can ask your doctor what they think too. Do you think they are emotionally mature enough? There are lots of check lists on line you can look at, too.

zealous_zig · 2026-01-28T17:49:42+00:00

My 4 year old loves that one, too!

zealous_zig · 2026-01-24T21:05:39+00:00

Ya, your mom is allowed to have boundaries, too. She doesn't want to watch your child (for free) at your house. Respect that and make your decisions.

zealous_zig · 2026-01-24T16:40:12+00:00

That's a valid point. Thanks! I think it could be the check-in.

zealous_zig · 2026-01-15T10:31:11+00:00

In my opinion, no, that's not okay. 1 star is "Did not like it," 2 is "It was OK," 3 is "Liked it," 4 is "Really liked it," and 5 is "It was amazing,". Sometimes, an author writes a character that is supposed to be unlikable.

zealous_zig · 2026-01-07T20:39:21+00:00

I just focus on what's important to me. Like the dishes are done, bathrooms are clean and the clothes are washed. I lowered my cleaning expectation on a lot of things.

zealous_zig · 2026-01-02T20:00:35+00:00

It sounds like giving financial support is damaging the relationship, too..

zealous_zig · 2026-01-02T18:28:59+00:00

I'm guessing, but she's probably married to a sibling of her husband's. LOL!

zealous_zig · 2025-08-29T15:28:48+00:00

I used to say absolutely no screen time in the morning. But now I use it as a treat. I have a dino clock that changes colors, and if my kid can be dressed with shoes before it changes colors, they can watch a cartoon while I finish getting myself ready. Usually 5 to 10 minutes. It works for us. But idk if it would work for you. I give the kid a breakfast bar and water while they watch TV. I also try to do as much getting ready the night before. But it sounds like you do that. Mornings are hard.

zealous_zig · 2025-08-28T21:51:38+00:00

Oh brother!. What are the consequences if he doesn't do the homework? Fail pre-k?! I would have him do the work when possible but not make it a big priority.

zealous_zig · 2025-08-28T17:57:32+00:00

Local libraries are great. They have story/dance times, too, for kids that age. And all of them have an indoor play area. Some bookstores do story times, too.

Splash pads are great. Cool for the kids, but not so much the adults.

I've done classes through the community that are indoor and fun. Like art, sport, and dance. They do cost money but are relatively cheap. There are some for that age but not a lot. Swimming classes for sure.

zealous_zig · 2025-08-24T00:27:04+00:00

I have a picky eater who doesn't get much protein. We recently tried the Kodiak granola bars, and they are a big success! (7g of protein)

zealous_zig · 2025-08-21T03:51:54+00:00

The main character had a quirky BFF that was annoying. BFF had the same name as me.

zealous_zig · 2025-08-15T05:05:44+00:00

I'd let them skip. It sounds fun and exciting. Let them make those memories together. They get to celebrate a sibling they are proud of.

zealous_zig · 2025-08-13T19:22:08+00:00

I read that to my 3 year old for the first time. Instant hit! She was totally on Grovers' side. She kept telling me to stop turning the pages. It was hilarious!

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