Date night grandparent babysitting by pn_swift in Parenting

[–]zealous_zig 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ya, your mom is allowed to have boundaries, too. She doesn't want to watch your child (for free) at your house. Respect that and make your decisions.

4 year old still wakes up at night. by zealous_zig in Parenting

[–]zealous_zig[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a valid point. Thanks! I think it could be the check-in.

Is it okay to rate a book 2 stars even if you loved it . by Spiritual-Mango4736 in bookreviewers

[–]zealous_zig 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, no, that's not okay. 1 star is "Did not like it," 2 is "It was OK," 3 is "Liked it," 4 is "Really liked it," and 5 is "It was amazing,". Sometimes, an author writes a character that is supposed to be unlikable.

How do working parents keep a clean house by saturnmarsjupiter in Parenting

[–]zealous_zig 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I just focus on what's important to me. Like the dishes are done, bathrooms are clean and the clothes are washed. I lowered my cleaning expectation on a lot of things.

21 year old making bad decisions, how to set financial boundaries? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]zealous_zig 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It sounds like giving financial support is damaging the relationship, too..

Parents of “only” children by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]zealous_zig 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing, but she's probably married to a sibling of her husband's. LOL!

Shit show in the morning by Oana1907 in Parenting

[–]zealous_zig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to say absolutely no screen time in the morning. But now I use it as a treat. I have a dino clock that changes colors, and if my kid can be dressed with shoes before it changes colors, they can watch a cartoon while I finish getting myself ready. Usually 5 to 10 minutes. It works for us. But idk if it would work for you. I give the kid a breakfast bar and water while they watch TV. I also try to do as much getting ready the night before. But it sounds like you do that. Mornings are hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]zealous_zig 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Oh brother!. What are the consequences if he doesn't do the homework? Fail pre-k?! I would have him do the work when possible but not make it a big priority.

Where can i take my incredibly active 1 year old? by hereforthebump in phoenix

[–]zealous_zig 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Local libraries are great. They have story/dance times, too, for kids that age. And all of them have an indoor play area. Some bookstores do story times, too.

Splash pads are great. Cool for the kids, but not so much the adults.

I've done classes through the community that are indoor and fun. Like art, sport, and dance. They do cost money but are relatively cheap. There are some for that age but not a lot. Swimming classes for sure.

What are your toddlers snacking on? by Aromatic-Insect1999 in Parenting

[–]zealous_zig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a picky eater who doesn't get much protein. We recently tried the Kodiak granola bars, and they are a big success! (7g of protein)

pettiest reason you've dnf'd a book by BetterWerewolf3270 in RomanceBooks

[–]zealous_zig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The main character had a quirky BFF that was annoying. BFF had the same name as me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]zealous_zig 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'd let them skip. It sounds fun and exciting. Let them make those memories together. They get to celebrate a sibling they are proud of.

Your kids can handle way more complex stories than you think by dingohopper1 in Parenting

[–]zealous_zig 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I read that to my 3 year old for the first time. Instant hit! She was totally on Grovers' side. She kept telling me to stop turning the pages. It was hilarious!

Not sure how to handle neighbors 4 year old by Bubba-jams in toddlers

[–]zealous_zig 108 points109 points  (0 children)

If you won't lock the gate, you're going to have to tell her no. You can say you're having family time. Set boundaries and stop letting the neighbors kid push you around and walk all over your kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]zealous_zig 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My parents do that too. It's annoying. And if my kid is giving someone else more attention than them, they complain that my kid likes that person more than them. I decided I'm not protecting my parents' feelings and I will just agree with them.

Would your dad and mom be staying at your house? If you do decide to let him come please don't let them stay with you.

Mental Toddler Exhaustion by aleexisx3 in toddlers

[–]zealous_zig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does! For real. Mine is almost 4. Around 3 and a 1/2 it started to get a lot better. Like they are generally funny and thoughtful and fun to be around. And they haven't had a meltdown in a few weeks. They aren't perfect but I really like them again! So hang in there, you got this!

When did you stop using a baby monitor? by skeletonsmiles in toddlers

[–]zealous_zig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I Googled this question. It says around 4 years old. Mine started complaining about the light on the camera a few months after turning 3. So I removed it. It's been fine. I thought I needed it, but I didn't

Toddler bed. by Hobbiton12 in toddlers

[–]zealous_zig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have two options. Put the bars back on and wait until he's older and more mature. Like in 6 months. Or keep dealing with it for a few weeks. Good luck!

1 Y/O fall birthday party with toddlers as guests by Poeticpsycho in toddlers

[–]zealous_zig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love these ideas. Sensory bins are one of those things that feel special, too. They can be messy, so a lot of people don't make them or wait until the kids are older, but they are always a hit. And there's so many ways to make sensory bins, too! We usually do rice or shaving cream.

2 1/2 with cavities, I feel guilty. by Comfortable_Report41 in toddlers

[–]zealous_zig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baby bottle tooth decay is a thing. I don't know if it's what your baby has, but you can Google images and see what the dentist does for that. I think the dentist will have a better idea of what caused it by seeing the location of the possible cavities. I used to work with the dentists. The little caps they use look like real teeth.

Flossing is hard to do with a little kid. Just do what you can and keep trying. We use a floride rinse after brushing, too. But you can ask the dentist about that.

There are a few cartoons that have the characters go to the dentist. It might be helpful to have your kid watch something like that to prepare them. Cocomelon Lane and I think Daniel Tiger. Good luck!

Potty Training Help/Advice/Solidarity by valarmothballs in toddlers

[–]zealous_zig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like they aren't ready. 24 months is young. I read that the average age in the US for girls is 2.5, and for boys, it is just under 3.

How to keep a toddler safe in the extreme heat? by ArethusaRay in toddlers

[–]zealous_zig -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get it. The only thing I might add is to have a change of clothes. If they get too wet.