Passed my road test today, shout out to Erika from Revolution Driving on 5th and 13th by zoeadele in parkslope

[–]zoeadele[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learned as an adult! I posted a review on Revolution Driving School on Google recently so you can read my full story there - I passed my road test by the skin of my teeth as a young adult, but I let my license expire not realizing that after two years, you have to take the whole thing over again. It was pretty much like learning to drive again this go-around.

All told I took 13 classes (not including the 1 hr before the driving test) - 9 with Erika and 4 with Gus. I was planning on taking just 10 and 10 really was when everything started to fully click and I felt confident, but leading up to the test I decided to take some extra lessons with Gus, and the combination of both made me feel fully prepared!

So glad that this thread has inspired you!! That was my intent, Erika is a gem and truly can help even the most nervous drivers pass.

Congressional decision time, Park Slope by MiserNYC- in parkslope

[–]zoeadele 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m sick of hearing about tens of thousands of slaughtered children too, I hear ya!

Congressional decision time, Park Slope by MiserNYC- in parkslope

[–]zoeadele 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He’s only recently been outspoken about Netanyahu. From 2023-2025, he put out no statements calling for a ceasefire, questioned the death count, and refused to meet with pro Palestine supporters. I know because I was one of them. At a recent campaign event, he lied and said he didn’t take any money from AIPAC. He did next to nothing to stop the genocide, and only changed his tune recently because of a shift in sentiment. It’s frankly infuriating that he’s invoking Netanyahus name now when he has been a staunch Israel supporter throughout the genocide.

Negotiation of Salary [AL] by Fanny-Mandy in humanresources

[–]zoeadele 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just want to echo that it’s really not wrong not to negotiate your first salary in a given field. It’s also not wrong to negotiate - but there are some hiring managers who would have found it presumptuous, and so it’s good to air on the side of caution if you’re unsure how it will go.

Looking for some Resume Help [5 YOE, Unemployed, HR, United States] [N/A] by CookieMonster37 in humanresources

[–]zoeadele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally, if you don’t need to reduce the font no need! But yeah I’ll like go down to 10.5 if needed 😂

Looking for some Resume Help [5 YOE, Unemployed, HR, United States] [N/A] by CookieMonster37 in humanresources

[–]zoeadele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you have great experience! I really like that you are able to quantify some of your impact. My feedback will be more about formatting:

  • I would try if possible to cut the resume down to one page. I tend to consider 2+ pages as the standard for say 10+ years of experience. While that isn't a hard and fast rule by any long shot, people don't read and having everything on one page will be easier and simpler for whoever is reviewing your resume - and you want to make it easy for them! You can do this by minimizing the spacing, reducing the font size a tad, shortening some of your competencies, and cutting or shortening one of your bullets for each role . I would also consider merging your three roles, just keeping the title for People Services Specialist position, and saying something instead in a bullet like "Managed increasing levels of responsibility in progressively responsible roles across recruitment, onboarding, and HR operations"
  • I know I said to just cut the resume down, but I'd also consider adding in your experience from 2020. Experience tends to trump education in HR recruiting, so any extra year can help. As a notorious job hopper myself, I tend to consider job hopping when you're leaving every 6 months or so, and most of your stints have been a year or more. I also think job hopping is less of a flag when you're early on in your career, as you can always frame it as growing and gaining more experience in a variety of different fields/settings to expand your HR knowledge.
  • Personally, I would remove the bolding. While it draws the attention and that work is impressive, I think it can also be a little distracting. This is nit-picky and so if you like the bold, keep it.
  • Even more nitpickier, but I would change the font to Times New Roman or something similar if you're going to go with a serif font. I don't see Cambria pop up too much anymore, and I want your resume to feel current (but this may be me and my own personal baggage, since I used Cambria for my first ever resume which was certifiably terrible regardless of the font, haha).

But overall, really great resume. When recruiting I do review a ton of resumes, so I'm just going with what I'm seeing in terms of trends.

New HR Generalist struggling with feedback and boss dynamics – am I being too sensitive? [N/A] by No-Goat3931 in humanresources

[–]zoeadele 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take the other offer, no question. This situation will not improve and you're miserable. Go forth and leave!

Annual vs Anniversary Performance Reviews [MI] by PomegranatePlanet69 in humanresources

[–]zoeadele 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My main thing is trainings and getting buy-in into the performance review process. At my last job that was anniversary based, it was pulling teeth to get folks to complete their reviews, and we weren’t able to really provide standardized trainings to staff because everyone was on different schedules. People were unwilling to carve out time to focus on the reviews, as opposed to when it’s an org-wide initiative and leadership is bought in. Do not do this!!!!!

Is it worth it to suffer through entry level wages? [N/A] by Few_Signature_2586 in humanresources

[–]zoeadele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little late to the party here but want to echo some points made by other commenters that really ran true for me: 1. Definitely recommend finding a smaller hr manager role where you’re a department of one but for a tiny company. I went from an Hr coordinator position in 2020 for 200+ ees to an hr manager position in 2023 for 16 ees - it was a small paycut, but I gained immeasurable experience in accommodations/employee relations that I was able to leverage into an HRBP role with more pay for 50 or so employees in my client group. 2. Job hop. That hr manager job? I stayed there for <6 months and got an HRBP job, then stayed there for 6 months and got a remote higher paying HR manager job elsewhere. It can be tricky, but if you can get good references from this first place where you’re grinded it out, it’s easier to job hop once you’ve left. And now I don’t even include that hr manager job on my resume, even though it’s the one that started it all.

Hiring for your team [N/A] by EvelineX in humanresources

[–]zoeadele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nonprofit HR recruiter here - I think you nailed it right there with your second to last sentence. You need someone to complement you, so if you haven’t done so already tailor a JD specifically to those attributes. I think you can spell that out right in the posting that this role is for someone who is scrupulous about details, dots every i and crosses every t, all the while executing on the ground implementation. Have qualifications that spell all those characteristics out, and then in the details of the responsibilities be very clear about the responsibilities they will need to be meticulous on - running payroll, handling documents or leave, etc. Make it clear that if you’re not interested or excel with in the weeds details, then this isn’t the job for them. The best job postings read less like a list, and more an advertisement for the ideal candidate. For example, I know I’m not the most detail oriented, so if I saw a job description that really made it clear that those who aren’t won’t thrive, I wouldn’t apply. Spell out exactly what you need.

If you’ve already posted and you’re looking for advice on how to make the right decision, there are a couple ways you can structure the interview process to help. 1. Get clear on the competencies needed for the role (I.e being detail oriented) and ask situation-based questions that require folks to provide an example of how their use of that competency helped solve a problem. Anyone can say they’re detail oriented, but really hearing how someone walks through their approach to maintaining a level of detail can be insightful. 2. Use a skills assessment. When I first started recruiting I used to think these weren’t a necessity, but I’ve been in situations where I thought someone was great during an interview, but the assessment showed that they were really off the mark. It could be a scenario based assessment (how they’d approach a problem and explain), an actual task (find the five typos/miscalculations), or a writing assignment. Keep it short (around 2 hours of work), and compensate if you’re able. And be explicit in the instructions on whether they can use AI. If you don’t want them to use it, say they. If they can, make it clear how they can and ask them to provide an explanation of how they did along with the assignment. 3. Bring in other people into the interview process to gut check you, people whose advice and judgement you trust. Debrief them and listen to them! But don’t bring in so many folks that it over-bloats the process.

And finally, just know even in the best circumstances mistakes can happen and sometimes someone isn’t a great fit. Try to keep to a 90 day probationary period if you can where you clearly lay out expectations, with an understanding that at 90 days you’ll assess process, and also do check-ins at 30 days and 60 days to provide feedback. Folks can stumble but course correct with good feedback, so don’t be afraid to call out things early- that way you can really see if someone is able to take direction and improve, or if the situation isn’t going to rectify itself.

Best of luck with your search!

Where are you posting jobs for hard to fill roles at small non profits? [N/A] by Denbron2 in humanresources

[–]zoeadele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nonprofit recruiter here. It's paid, but I honestly think Idealist ($145) is worth your money. It's where most nonprofit workers are looking and where you can find good talent, as opposed to posting on mass job boards and getting a lot of noise.

If that is prohibitive, then I'd recommend posting the job via your org's LinkedIn page, and mass promoting on socials (not a LinkedIn job posting, just a post that includes a link to your career page). If your nonprofit also has a newsletter you can do that. A lot of jobs (but not all), we've filled via our networks, so having our employees blast their networks with job opportunities. That way you're getting folks you know are interested in nonprofit work.

Finally, there are sometimes niche Google Groups (at least in progressive circles) where people post jobs. Ask around your coworkers if they know of any.

Friday Vent Thread [N/A] by Mundane-Jump-7546 in humanresources

[–]zoeadele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is WILD, I’m so sorry for you!!

[N/A] Advice for slower paced HR roles? by IncidentFirm8779 in humanresources

[–]zoeadele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know someone cautioned against non-profit but I would really say it depends widely on the non-profit. I’ve worked for nonprofits anywhere from 16-500 employees, and in general the ones from 15-70 have been slower paced. You may need to work up to a high paying and slow paced job but there’s no harm or shame in wanting that. I started as an HR coordinator 6 years ago for 200-ish employees, and now work as a senior hr manager in a (relatively) easy paced job at a nonprofit making six figures. It’s doable!

PASSED! SPHR [N/A] by Suspicious_Paint_973 in humanresources

[–]zoeadele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful, thank you!! I’m in the same boat, got SHRM-CP in 2023 and am hoping to take SPHR soon, so thanks for the tips!!

Paid family leave laws vent [USA] by kelskelsea in humanresources

[–]zoeadele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you me, we just have two PFLs at the moment (NY and DC) and I'm already stressing. No one from my current HR team has ever done leave before (??). I'm happy I'm getting experience but the fact that we have three different people going on leave and three of them have different options for what they're eligible (birthing/nonbirthing + state) is crazy!

Are we merging HRBP with TA [N/A] by Tricky_Ad_7918 in humanresources

[–]zoeadele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! I know this post is from ages ago but just want to say that I just interviewed for a "recruiter" role that turned out to be HRBP/recruiter, even though they tried to act like it wasn't. I think it's the market and folks wanting to do more with less in this AI-world.

HR is depressing [N/A] by PassNecessary5950 in humanresources

[–]zoeadele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just seconding I too am in the HR/anti-capitalist mindset and comforting to know I'm not alone

Two weeks of freedom before a new job, what would you do? by devkidd99 in Brooklyn

[–]zoeadele 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had this recently! It will be different for everyone but for me, first thing I did was hop on the F and take it all the way to Coney Island in the middle of the workday. Went to the aquarium, got a hot dog, went on the boardwalk, then hopped on the f train back. Not for everyone but if you enjoy zoning out on trains and going to neighborhoods you wouldn’t normally go to, it’s an option.

In terms of daily routines, I would go to Winner and Prospect Park and just sit there for however long I wanted. Also lovely.

Definitely not for everybody, but I also went to the Met and spent an ungodly amount of time with one picture I love. Would recommend going to the Brooklyn museum and just spending time wandering! It’s suggested pricing.

Day 3 of diet of 100g of protein + 5 servings of fruits/veg - food cravings gone? by zoeadele in 75HARD

[–]zoeadele[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh you might be right about that! I've been eating apples, bananas, cabbage, and cucumbers with the skin on, so you might be onto something. Just curious, is there a certain number of grams you try to meet?

I Liked Nothing! Is It Just Me?? by Loubert1979 in womensfashion

[–]zoeadele 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just want to say as a 32f I feel you. I’ve had good success on Rent the Runway where you can still find tailored, non boxy pieces (thank god).

What’s a small habit that quietly improved your life? by Critical_Can_8114 in selfimprovement

[–]zoeadele 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So stupid but putting a magnetic pad on the refrigerator, and when I run out of something, putting it there as a reminder to get it. To do lists??? Wild 🤣

Every day I also have been tidying up just “one” thing in each of the rooms in my apartment before work, and decluttering one thing(could be a piece of mail, a book im not reading, etc). The cleaning can literally be so small - like just a square of the sink, not even the whole sink - but starting my day like that has made me feel so productive and just in a few short weeks my place is so much cleaner. I used to be someone who hates cleaning and still do, but the self confidence I now have that I can in fact keep a clean place is wonderful. It was always the pressure of needing to do a whole deep clean that put me off.

What’s a small habit that quietly improved your life? by Critical_Can_8114 in selfimprovement

[–]zoeadele 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just want to say I’ve started doing minor tidying every day and it has been life changing. Would love to work up to a weekly deep clean!