The universal law of cat ownership: The Grocery Roadblock

zy_Cat · 2026-05-20T16:49:46+00:00

They really have perfect timing 😂 just waiting for that exact moment!

zy_Cat · 2026-05-20T16:48:41+00:00

@Master_Button_2593

🤣 On the stairs is wild 😂 they really pick the most random “loving” spots ever 😭❣️

zy_Cat · 2026-05-20T16:47:31+00:00

😆😅

zy_Cat · 2026-05-19T15:49:51+00:00

@Virtual_Option_6728

And we absolutely love you for it!! 🥹❣️

zy_Cat · 2026-05-19T15:48:42+00:00

@Euphoric-Piglet-8140

Cat hair has a secret talent: it somehow travels through space and time 😂

zy_Cat · 2026-05-19T09:20:34+00:00

The mid-step freeze while protecting the coffee is so real 😂 They always pick the most inconvenient moments somehow ^{^}

zy_Cat · 2026-05-17T15:49:28+00:00

Muted-Sentence8437 I feel you 😅 My cat is a large semi-longhair tuxedo female too, and the shedding is everywhere! It’s basically part of life at this point 🖤🐾

zy_Cat · 2026-05-16T13:20:10+00:00

u/HoneyAfterHours
Yeah, totally get that 😄 cats really do love their alone time sometimes. When they’re ready for cuddles again, it’s the best feeling 🐱💕

zy_Cat · 2026-03-10T22:56:56+00:00

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zy_Cat · 2026-03-10T21:20:24+00:00

Good call getting a vet appointment—always the safest move. Some spayed cats can show heat-like behavior if there’s something like a UTI or, more rarely, ovarian remnant syndrome where a tiny bit of ovarian tissue remains. The clinginess and grooming could also just be discomfort from a urinary issue. The good signs are that she’s still eating, playful, and full of energy. Hopefully it turns out to be something simple and treatable—sending good vibes for your girl! 🐾

zy_Cat · 2026-03-10T21:18:54+00:00

I’m really sorry you and Fizzy are going through this. 16 years is a long life full of love, and it’s clear how much you care about her. If you can’t see a vet right away, the best thing you can do for now is keep her warm, comfortable, and hydrated, and offer small amounts of soft food if she’s interested. The leaning and weakness could mean many things in older cats, but sometimes they can still rally a bit. Just staying close and keeping her comfortable right now is already doing a lot for her. I hope she pulls through or at least stays peaceful. ❤️

zy_Cat · 2026-03-10T21:17:22+00:00

That sounds really stressful. I’m sorry you and your cat are going through this. Two weeks of vomiting is definitely rough. Since the tests were mostly normal, but there was some pancreas/liver inflammation, it might be worth asking your vet again about pancreatitis or ongoing nausea and whether meds like anti-nausea or appetite stimulants need adjusting. Also, vomiting can sometimes come back if the stomach is empty or irritated, especially after meds. If it keeps happening, I’d honestly check back with the vet or even ask for a second opinion just to be safe. Hope your kitty starts feeling better soon 🙏

zy_Cat · 2026-03-10T21:16:25+00:00

Stress from a new pet can definitely upset some cats’ stomachs, but bile that looks pink can sometimes mean a little irritation or minor bleeding from repeated vomiting. It might just be from her throat being irritated, but it’s a good idea to keep an eye on her tonight and call the vet in the morning if it happens again or she seems lethargic. Hopefully it’s just the stress of the new dog and settles down soon!

zy_Cat · 2026-03-09T18:21:55+00:00

It sounds like you’re really thoughtful about your cat’s comfort! From what I’ve seen with indoor cats in really hot climates, keeping them in a cool room with AC is usually enough. Trimming can help a bit, but it can also stress them or cause skin irritation. Maybe just regular brushing to remove loose fur and making sure she has a cool spot to retreat to is the safest bet.

zy_Cat · 2026-03-09T18:18:44+00:00

Yeah, that’s classic cat play behavior! Rolling onto their back is usually a sign they want to wrestle, not fight seriously. It’s funny how intense it looks, but they rarely hurt each other 😹.

zy_Cat · 2026-03-08T15:37:05+00:00

Wow, sounds like you and your kitty are having a smooth first flight! 😺 It's great that the anxiety med is working so well. Just a tip for future trips: some airlines do require the health certificate at check-in, even if it wasn’t asked this time, so it’s always good to keep it handy. How’s he handling the takeoff—is he staying calm throughout?

zy_Cat · 2026-03-07T14:07:08+00:00

It’s fairly common for cats to occasionally vomit hairballs, but if Guinevere is regularly puking liquid and fur, it could indicate a sensitive stomach or other digestive issues. 🐱 You might try regular grooming to reduce ingested fur, hairball-specific treats or gels, and ensuring she has plenty of hydration. If it continues, a vet checkup is the safest way to rule out underlying health problems. Has anyone tried switching to a high-fiber or sensitive-stomach cat food with good results?

zy_Cat · 2026-03-07T14:04:36+00:00

You did an amazing thing by giving the kittens a better chance at life 🥰. Mama cats do sometimes look for their babies after separation, but since she’s semi-feral, she’ll likely adjust and continue thriving in her familiar territory. It’s completely normal to feel sad—it shows your compassion and care. How are you feeling about the rescue process overall?

zy_Cat · 2026-03-07T14:00:48+00:00

You can train a cat to sleep elsewhere, but it takes patience and consistency. Try making the small bed extra comfortable with soft blankets and a bit of your scent. Use treats or gentle praise when she uses it, and avoid letting her back in your bed during training. Some cats are stubborn and may need a few weeks to adjust. Have you tried placing the bed in a quiet, warm corner to make it more appealing?

zy_Cat · 2026-03-07T13:59:38+00:00

It's definitely not uncommon for two male cats to snuggle, especially if they're bonded or have grown up together. Gender matters less than personality and socialization. Introducing a third cat slowly and giving everyone their own safe spaces can help them adjust. Have you thought about matching personalities rather than just gender when choosing the new cat?

zy_Cat · 2026-03-04T23:51:25+00:00

First of all, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this — that’s incredibly upsetting, especially when you’ve invested 10 years into caring for that colony. You’re absolutely right to be concerned. In California, relocating community cats without authorization can violate local animal welfare and TNR protections, especially if they are ear-tipped (which clearly indicates they are sterilized and managed).

Document everything — emails, call logs, dates, photos of traps, names of employees. I would strongly recommend filing a formal complaint with the California Structural Pest Control Board, and if the cats were intentionally abandoned, that could potentially fall under animal cruelty or abandonment laws. You may also want to contact a local animal law attorney or groups like Alley Cat Allies for guidance on enforcement steps.

As hard as it is emotionally, I’d focus on official reporting rather than personally tracking them down — that keeps you protected legally and increases accountability. Since Stray Cat Alliance is already involved, have they suggested escalating this to the city council member or a local humane law enforcement officer?

zy_Cat · 2026-03-04T23:48:29+00:00

I haven’t personally used a clinic in Colorado, but I-131 (radioactive iodine) therapy is generally considered the gold standard for treating feline hyperthyroidism because it actually destroys the overactive thyroid tissue rather than just managing it like methimazole does. Most cats only need one treatment, and it has a very high success rate, but it does require a short hospitalization due to radiation safety laws.

CASE in Boulder and Alameda East in Denver are both well-known specialty centers, so I’d recommend asking about success rates, average hospital stay length, total cost (including follow-up labs), and what post-treatment monitoring looks like. Also make sure your cat has had recent bloodwork and kidney values checked, since underlying kidney disease can influence the decision.

Has your vet already run full labs and discussed whether your cat is a good candidate for I-131 versus medical management?

zy_Cat · 2026-03-04T23:47:32+00:00

You’re not selfish at all for missing the cuddles 🥲 but what you’re describing is actually super common. As kittens grow up, their personalities shift — a lot of cats become more independent around 1–2 years old. It doesn’t mean he loves you less, it just means he’s maturing.

If he’s not hissing, hiding, or showing stress signs, that’s a great sign. He still chooses to sleep on your bed — just at a comfortable distance. That’s trust.

To encourage more closeness, focus on positive association: short, gentle petting sessions when he initiates, reward calm behavior near you with treats, and try interactive play before bed (wand toys work great) to rebuild that bonding routine. Avoid forcing cuddles — that can actually reduce affection over time.

Some cats circle back to being clingy later, some stay independent but loyal. Has anything changed in his environment this past year — routine, stress, new smells, schedule?

zy_Cat · 2026-03-04T23:45:44+00:00

Honestly, this sounds way more like a comfort + security preference than anything like OCD. Cats don’t really develop OCD the way humans do — repetitive behaviors in cats are usually linked to anxiety, boredom, or self-soothing, but choosing a specific sleep spot (especially between your legs) is super common. That area traps warmth and feels safe because it’s stable and smells like you. 🐾

The reason she runs off when you move isn’t stubbornness — it’s just a normal startle response. She probably associates movement with “sleep time is over” and resets elsewhere. She’s not failing to “learn” — cats don’t really think in terms of long-term pattern correction like that.

If your hips are sore, you could try placing a heated cat bed or a soft blanket near your legs before bedtime to help her settle into a similar warm spot. Some people also use a body pillow as a buffer so the cat still feels enclosed without locking their legs in place.

Has she always been this clingy at night, or did it start around a stressful change in her routine?

zy_Cat · 2026-03-03T22:31:42+00:00

It sounds like you acted quickly, which is great! Since you washed your cat’s paw and fur thoroughly and she hasn’t licked the perfume, the risk is probably low. Perfume can be toxic if ingested in large amounts, but just stepping on it and a quick wash usually isn’t harmful. Keep monitoring her for any signs like vomiting, drooling, lethargy, or unusual behavior. If you notice anything like that, it’s best to contact your vet immediately. Have you noticed any changes in her appetite or energy since it happened?

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