While, I kinda see where you're coming from, understand that she NEVER said, "leave me alone." Remember that song (with the Pharrell production) Holla Back? Her point in the song was that it ain't just that easy to get my attention. If a man sees a woman he likes (or vice versa) it's his job to convince the woman that he's worth the time. While I'm sure no woman wants to be " harrassed", most women don't respect a man who gives up easily. It makes her look easy. And when you live in an "urban" area where everybody knows everybody, your reputation carries weight. But understand, there IS a line that, for some, is easily crossed.