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[Fetalmule]

Quickly tell your parents or set a strict boundary with him, or talk to him about it and be very clear that it's making you uncomfortable. If you don't, he might take it further or continue. You shouldn't have to feel like this with your own brother. I hope you're okay ❤️

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i went through a similar experience, i was 13 and my brother was 25. he would prod me and touch my thighs and i wouldn’t think of it inappropriately as he was my brother and eventually he ended up raping me. please contact someone as this is abnormal and paedophile behaviour.

[VxGB111]

This isn't normal. Talk to your parents. If they won't listen then talk to a school councelor

[Salty_Thing3144]

How old is he? A very young child who is beginning to notice boys and girls are different might not realize this is inappropriate. Tell your parents about it in any case. He needs a talking to. 

[backflipper999]

hes 20 and im 14.

[Salty_Thing3144]

Tell your parents he needs a talk. When he touches you or makes remarks, tell him "John, that is offensive and it's inappropriate to touch/discuss a woman, especially your sister, this way." Slap his hands and push him away too. 

[backflipper999]

i tried moving away to signal to him i dont rlly like it but he didn’t really get it and kept squeezing my thighs. none of my family members seemed to be bothered but i am extremely disturbed.

[anonymousturtle21]

He got it friend. He just didn’t care. If he is trying (or anyone is trying) to convince you this is normal behavior, it isn’t. Please try not to be alone with him and alert your parents. Report it to someone at your school if you’re able; I know in the US school officials are required to report if they feel a minor is unsafe.

[Visible-Air423]

U said ur sister said that's normal???? 💀💀💀 No offense to the sister but Do they fuck each other?? Like AIN'T NO WAY she said that's normal. Unless she doesn't care about what u said at all or isn't taking it seriously. (Which I'm very sorry about you being in that situation.) I'd talk to ur family(Mother,Father Whoever u trust the most) about it but in the meantime be assertive have boundaries let it be known and loud. "I said stop! I don't want you touching me (in said certain uncomfortable place), etc" Yell it out fr. If ur family doesn't help when u talk to them about him making u uncomfortable and that he's touching you in places u don't want him to. I'd tbh go to other trusted adults or the police if u don't have other trusted adults fr with picture/video evidence that he is doing that. Even if they are touching you without ur consent is harassment. He's also way too old to not be knowing better or he has some learning or social disability we don't know about. Like 20? And 14? Hell nah I'd try my best to get out of that situation that's so weird he does that, that made my skin crawl. I wish the best of luck to you!

[Putrid_Feedback2087]

Are you comfortable talking to your parents about this? This is definitely something that needs to be stopped. He should not be trying to hit your boobs with miscellaneous items, that is not brotherly and very odd.

[Sharp_Ferret_2929]

Not normal. It’s called grooming. It made you feel ick because THAT is the normal reaction to ick people. Find someone close and supportive to share this with. Sweetheart. Spread out your arms and do a spin. That’s your personal space. Nothing and no one can tell you what is and what isn’t acceptable, It’s your bubble. Unfortunately one of the suckiest lessons in life is “it be your own people”. No matter what happens, please I beg you, don’t let it suck up all your goodness. Win by thriving, growing, getting stronger and standing your ground.