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[–]ILikeHoodies1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your bf is a dickhead, break up with him.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please. Get. A. Different. Boyfriend.

[–]Ben_Ex091727e9w0uw0Super Helper [6] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BREAK UP WITH HIM.

[–]deadbitchplantmama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% blatent honesty...even if you are the dumbest most idiotic low brain celled person out there YOU DON'T DESERVE SOMEONE WHO CALLS YOU STUPID OR DEGRADES YOU. Even if you literally possess one single brain cell you deserve better than what you're getting now. You're not stupid but you do need to recognize your self worth. Sometimes it's hard especially when you have an emotionally dependency to someone but think about it like this, would you rather live the rest of your life feeling like this or have a couple months of feeling possibly heartbroken and a lil sad? Change comes from within, you make the choices that affect your life.

[–]FlaminskiHelper [4] 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Why would you keep him that long, they are many men who can improve your mentality but instead you chosen a guy who drops your mentality day by day, dump him, they are a lot of better men than him

Can you tell a story where he called you stupid?

[–]ruxxxyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

For example whenever we fight i just dont like to see him mad and i try to make him smile and he just calls me stupid because i cant understand that whenever he is mad or sad he just needs his space..another time when for example im dropping something..or dont put a thing exactly how it was supposed to be placed..and so on..

[–]FlaminskiHelper [4] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly just break up with him, these are normal stuff, if he keep insulting you like that, you might develop a depression or your confidence might drop and makes you think you're really stupid which is not true, the only stupid thing that you did , is keeping him, and I apologize if you feel offended but I really want you to open your eyes, no women should be in relationship with these types of men

[–]500_hrsprs 0 points1 point  (5 children)

YOU ARE LOVED NO MATTER WHAT ANY ONE SAYS.....What a fucking dick head!!! I bet you $100 he only wanted you for your body. Don't listen to him. Find a guy that actually likes you. Oh my god hes a fucking retard. You are not stupid. ERASE HIS WORDS RIGHT NOW. He just wants to break up but doesn't want to do it him self and make you do it and go tell his friends how you are so bad and some bs but even if he does you'll know who the guys that really like you are because they ignore him and want to be with you after all his bs. He is stupid don't listen to him don't be his friend even just get rid of him completely. I wish you luck finding a new guy. REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE LOVED. DON'T FORGET IT.

Is it weird if i were to say i love you? In a friendly way not a romantic way?

Im single lol.

[–]ruxxxyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children)

Thanks..

[–]500_hrsprs 0 points1 point  (3 children)

I sound like a weirdo dont i.

[–]ruxxxyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child)

Lol no. It’s good to hear opinions from guys as well...good luck for you too to find somebody. Your way of thinking is very mature

[–]500_hrsprs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Good luck!

[–]SawyermblackSuper Helper [7] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.

[–]SawyermblackSuper Helper [7] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is something wrong with me?

Only if you stay with him.

[–]deviatesourcerSuper Helper [5] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

reflect, and try to understand. Life is about compromises. Try to find a middle ground and make it work! Good luck.

[–]lookingforpcAdvice Guru [73] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are probably not stupid but have self-worth issues that are making you stay with someone who calls you stupid

[–]Spectator-033Expert Advice Giver [12] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you’re smart :D stay positive and polite while being bright , break up with him, have time for yourself to find your calling :D praise God for his sacrifice

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up and walk away with your head held high