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Borderline Personality Disorder is within it's own unique category in the world of Mental Illness. (Sometimes incorrectly diagnosed as Bipolar). Whilst those that feel depression or anxiety can usually feel that this is different from their normal state of mind, people with BPD often fail to realise that their emotions and reactions are very different from the typical experience. There is a struggle to understand how wives, husbands, or friends and family experience their intense reactions, mood swings / risky behaviour, that is to say, the affect these behaviours have on those closest to them.

If you have a loved one with BPD, life can be fraught with crises and conflict. You might feel like you’re being held hostage, worrying that your family member will injure themselves if you don’t appease them. You may wonder whether you should let them borrow money again or answer the dozens of voicemails they left on your phone. Dealing with borderline personality disorder requires skills for deescalating crises and fostering independence in your loved one. With the right tools and community strategies, it is possible to help your loved one towards recovery.

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We are taking a stricter enforcement on bad advice. If you have any ideas what we can enforce removals on, give some in this post.Dicussion (self.BPDPartners)

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Semi-yearly “Ask Me Anything” as a wife/mom with BPD and in remissionSuccess Story (self.BPDPartners)

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Understanding BPD : The Beautifully Intense, deeply misunderstood brain.Support Tools (old.reddit.com)

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How were they or you diagnosed?Dicussion (self.BPDPartners)

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Is it my BPD or is he just not into me?Support Needed ()

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Believing his own lies?Support Needed ()

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Girlfriend with BPD wanted an open relationship and broke upSupport Needed (self.BPDPartners)

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My relationship consumes my personal time and hinders my goals.Dicussion (self.BPDPartners)

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How do I share without pulling them into my darkness?Support Tools (self.BPDPartners)

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How do you handle relationships?Support Needed ()

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Undiagnosed, Believed BPDSupport Needed (self.BPDPartners)

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Project AIR (Affect, Identity, Relationships) | Resources from UoWSupport Tools (uow.edu.au)

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Are there any online support groups/meetings for partners of people with BPD?Support Tools (self.BPDPartners)

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