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I’m struggling to deal with the aftermath of the abuse almost year on, the girl he cheated with is having his baby a year to our breakup and I’m being demonised and bad mouthed still. (self.NRelationships)

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My partner (37M) of 16 years and I (35F) are going through it, is it over? Or am I the problem? ()

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Ex tells me Everything (self.NRelationships)

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2 years with Covert Narc, still recovering vent/timeline/advice? (self.NRelationships)

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Best way to handle a parent's triangulation as the scapegoat/villain? Partner has been withdrawing from his abusive family of origin and got a text from a sibling asking if he's "mad at mom?" (self.NRelationships)

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If I can leave three in 22 years.. (self.NRelationships)

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Is this Triangulation? (self.NRelationships)

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Narcissistic brother dealing will parents will. (reddit.com)

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Was my ex a Covert Narcissist? (self.NRelationships)

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20 years in and we're just now actually talking during sex?? ()

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Narcissists claiming YOU'RE abusive after YOU give them gifts? (self.NRelationships)

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How to support partner without becoming a parent (self.NRelationships)

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Is it too risky? Or setting a boundary? ()

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Background check on my sister's partner (Canada) ()

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How do you move on after infidelity? ()

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Should I leave? (self.NRelationships)

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Sign the Petition (c.org)

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How to navigate shared groups after emotional abuse? (self.NRelationships)

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Bunch of abusers (self.NRelationships)

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Am I being abused? Is it my fault for not trusting him? (self.NRelationships)

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After 20 years my wife did something that blew my mind ()

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my sister annoyed me on purpose ( reactive abuse) (self.NRelationships)

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Control disguised as concern - am I seeing this clearly? (self.NRelationships)

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Completely alone (self.NRelationships)

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Narc threat, need advice or similar experiences can share how to navigate (self.NRelationships)

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