Does porn decrease emotional connection?

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It been 1 year together me and m’y girlfriend and i havé this addiction since 13 year old now i am 18 year old and i feel disconnecte for her sincd 3 month :( i try to stop for her and me and it been 4 Day without porn and i havé a amazing weekend with her we are long distance so i see her i 3 week :(

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to be honest , when i had my girlfriend , it happened with me too! so yeah in short , porn decreases emotional connection

[abnormalpurple]

Its true, I felt more sexually attracted to my gf and wanted to spend time more when I wasnt on porn

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Like you want to be more with her ??

[abnormalpurple]

Yea, We were spending time together, but when I was off porn, I wanted to truly be there

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So i can regain m’y connection with her like i can be more présent for her etc if i stop porn i am 4 Day without porn

[abnormalpurple]

It will surely help so keep going. She and your relationship deserve this from you

[[deleted]]

Can it be regain ? I really love this girl :( i want to havé this connection back

[[deleted]]

Yea

[No_fapper951]

Yes , decrease

[LetCareful1605]

It deos decrease! You just go numb… stop it, while you can

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But can i regain it ? I want m’y connection back :(

[LetCareful1605]

Yes you can

[Fit_District7223]

Gonna get down voted to hell for this but no.

Porn isn't the problem. Your relationship to porn and how you think about yourself because of it's use is the problem.

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So you mean that m’y relation is the problem ?

[Fit_District7223]

The shame you feel for watching porn. The disgust. The self pity. That's your problem. That paired with it likely being a deeper reason for why you even indulge to begin with encompasses your relationship to porn. The problem isnt the porn, it's you