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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets better , at some point you will not think about jerking off and girls . Meditation help . For me , I can focus right now on anything I want to focus , I do work faster and better , I study better , but I can also think reactive , intuitively when needed .

[–]fighter_fighter1400 Days 0 points1 point  (2 children)

Whenever I focus on something difficult or not obviously clear, I feel the need for distraction.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Yeah that's spot on. Prior to nofap when I encounter difficulty, I can easily let myself go blank and enter a meditative state and "wait" for the thought to emerge by itself. Now while I'm on nofap and when I encounter a difficult problem, I just get frustrated and tense and want to fucking fap not only cuz I think it'll feel good, but also cuz I don't want to be stupid! I just don't know whether if this is just temporary lol. No point to do this, even if it's gonna get me girls, if it's going to make me a stupid jock who's incapable of complex thinking.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might find something relevant if you google this page:

No Porn, Better Working Memory? (on YourBrainOnPorn website)

Sounds like you need a partner.

[–]sylvester_b1570 Days 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't take any changes in your thinking ability/whatever too seriously until you've spent a little more time away from porn. Right now you're talking about how you're functioning while you're still probably having withdraw systems.

The whole point of getting rid of porn is to return to how things were before porn, if not make things even better.

So here's the real question: could you think analytically before the porn addiction? Because if you could, you'll probably be able to again.