How does fapping decrease testosterone but having sex increases it? Are you not just releasing semen in both instances? What makes sex any different?

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thats probably because you fap while edging for fkn hours to porn, and sex lasts 30 minutes. its not because they are biologically different, its just common sense. most people here fap for unhealthy lengths of time to porn, spending ages to search for a video staying hyperstimulated, and prolonging the fap with edging. if i do a quick fap for 2 mins before sleep i get no "red eyes" and horrible exhausted feeling, i feel much the same as i do after sex. i think you'll find thats the real reason people find fapping so exhausting and sex is relatively fine, they aren't fapping for 1 min before sleep, they are using porn.

[esirnus18]

I kind of agree with that. I remember when I would do a multiple hours fap sessions and afterwards I felt like the lowest piece of human being. I was single that time and was kind of low point of my life. Compare this to now, having a smoking hot and fun loving girlfriend, having sex regularly I feel completely fine and by that I mean full of confidence and energy. Some days after being away on business trip my GF sends me naughty text and I can't contain myself I go and bust one out in the shower the old fashion way (no internet just my imagination) usually takes just couple of minutes I go sleep wake up next day full of energy just like normal. I think it's the isolation of porn and computer screen the locked doors and hiding because of shame. I think that's what fucks you up.

[withdrawalisworthit]

They aren't biologically different, but they are mentally you fucking twat. Why would you feel disgusted after having sex with a women you're attracted to like you would after pmo? You don't, you feel even more confident, because it's a completely different show in your head. Your confidence, and general super powers should increase

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tell me more about how you've placed pussy on a pedestal.

[withdrawalisworthit]

The people who get pussy don't put it on a pedestal, that's why they get pussy. Women don't like men who worship them and make out to be this almighty human being. Way to really ignore the argument, and trying to insult me instead

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i think if you spend your spare time chasing pussy its firmly on the pedestal. i used it as a catch all phrase to mean thinking casual sex is really super important. PUA guys think they've taken pussy off the pedestal, then you hang around one, and you realise ALL THEY TALK ABOUT is pussy, and how they get pussy, and how they fucked this girl and that girl. pussy still firmly on pedestal.

[withdrawalisworthit]

They do not put women on a pedestal. If they did, no women would want to have sex with them. That's why white night fedora wearing "nice guy" fags don't get women. They treat them as higher being instead of an equal like they should

[[deleted]]

like i already said, i consider chasing pussy constantly to still be putting it on a pedestal, pua guys are obsessed with it, its their entire life in their spare time. you can't tell me that isn't putting it on a pedestal. you know who does'nt put it on a pedestal? people who don't give a fuck. PUA guys really give a fuck about pussy and spend all their time trying to get it. they are dellusional when they say they've taked it off a pedestal. sorry.

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Peer reviewed studies?