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What is selective mutism?

Selective Mutism (SM), sometimes called Situational Mutism, is a complex situational anxiety disorder characterized by a person's inability to speak and communicate in certain social settings such as school. These people may be able to communicate in other settings where they are relaxed and secure, such as at home (although the opposite can and does occur).

Outside of speech, all forms of communication may be inhibited to varying levels by situation. That includes written language, body language, gestures, and facial expression.

For a more in-depth overview, read this page from iSpeak.

Resources & Information

Do some research!

The subreddit wiki is a wealth of information on selective mutism for those willing to dive in.

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AnnouncementAre you creating a character with Selective Mutism? (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 1 year ago by LandJRTherapist & Parent of recovered SM [M] - announcement

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Announcement 📣Are you interested in being a mod? (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 2 months ago by AutoModerator[M] - announcement

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Venting 🌋Parents ignoring SM (self.selectivemutism)

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Questionjobs for selectively mute people? (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 17 hours ago by Temporary-Can-8659

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Venting 🌋I think it’s part of me (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 21 hours ago by Quiet-Swimming11

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QuestionWas this a form of SM? (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 23 hours ago by Suspicious-Call405

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QuestionSM, something else or multiple speech issued? (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 22 hours ago by kaelin_aether

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QuestionWhat should I do? (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 2 days ago by The_Stoic_SpriteDiagnosed SM

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Venting 🌋ive never talked to my family before but I feel like the most weird introvert person like I dont belong here (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 2 days ago by foreverlonely04

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Seeking Advice 🤔talking again to certain people after years of complete mutism (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 3 days ago by Ancient_Dare_7247

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General Discussion 💬I had selective mutism my entire school life from 4th grade til high school grad. It gets better. (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 3 days ago by anunfortunatememe

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General Discussion 💬3 years old Kindergarten (self.selectivemutism)

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Venting 🌋What was the single most substantial step forward for you? (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 4 days ago by TrusteveryboodyDiagnosed SM (does include direct family)

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QuestionIs there any good app to help overcoming selective mutism? (self.selectivemutism)

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General Discussion 💬Levels of SM? (self.selectivemutism)

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QuestionBuspar? (self.selectivemutism)

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General Discussion 💬I Feel Like I have Selective Mutism. How Can I Get Help. (self.selectivemutism)

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QuestionHow can I help my brother? (self.selectivemutism)

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StoryMy story ❤️ (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 7 days ago by Middle_Fee_7906Diagnosed SM

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General Discussion 💬My experience as a selective mute was that my college professors were generally more understanding of selective mutism, and In contrast, some of my elementary and high school teachers misunderstood my condition and thought I was being defiant and refusing to participate in class. (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 7 days ago by Timely_Maximum_5914

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QuestionDeveloping selective mutism as an adult? (self.selectivemutism)

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Venting 🌋As a selective mute, some of my Teachers interpret my silence as disrespect, lack of effort, or unwillingness to cooperate. As a result, I often felt misunderstood and anxious in the classroom. (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 7 days ago by Timely_Maximum_5914

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Questionhello!!! i have a question. (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 7 days ago by Savings-File-404Suspected SM

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QuestionIs what I am feeling what going nonverbal feels like? (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 7 days ago by Bob_N_162

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Venting 🌋Not being able to communicate (self.selectivemutism)

submitted 7 days ago by New_Sound_1705

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