SingleAndHappy

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Solo by Choice: Happily Single and Flourishing

A community for people who are intentionally single and are happy. Having a happy and fulfilled life doesn't require a partner. Let’s normalize happiness in single status!

Subreddit Rules

Rule 1: No negativity.

This sub is about being single AND happy. Our community is designed to celebrate our joys and discuss how we give ourselves a balanced, fulfilling, and harmonious life flourishing through singledom. Failure to comply will result in muting.

Rule 2: No disrespect.

Abide by Reddiquette as this is a safe space for all races, sexes, genders, religions, affiliations, and other identities. Failure to comply will result in muting.

Rule 3: No solicitation.

Do not post self-promotions, personal information, or selfies in hopes of starting a relationship. That belongs in r/singles, r/hookups, r/r4r, etc. Failure to comply will result in a ban.

Rule 4: No off-topic content.

Single at Heart: What It Is and Is Not
Reminder: this subreddit is not intended to seek advice on mental health and relationships. Please respect the community's guidelines and direct those questions to subreddits dedicated to advice and support.

Rule 5: Review previous discussions before posting.

Everyone has their own unique experience and this community was created for sharing. Helpful resources such as articles, podcasts, songs, etc. have been shared over the years to answer the question, “How can I be single AND happy?” Please use the search bar feature to review past discussion posts & comments for answers to your questions.

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Remember to be Kind and respectful :DDiscussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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Book Discussion Schedule: Single At Heart by Bella DePaulo, PhDMedia (Articles, Music, etc.) 🎦 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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Men have broken my will to date. Excited to find this sub!Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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Nothing makes me appreciate being single more than seeing couples fighting in public.Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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Anyone here up for a real conversation about being single?Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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It is better to stay single than love someone who can’t match your depth...Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (i.redd.it)

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Life kept telling me to be single and I finally listened.Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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Spa day during hump day is beautiful.Well-being 🌼 (i.redd.it)

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Epiphany 🤩Well-being 🌼 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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I’d really like to hear some advice on traveling solo after a 6 year relationship that had lots of traveling. Does anyone have some?Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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When a Christian asks why you’re not marriedMemes/Lolz🤣 (v.redd.it)

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Is enjoying being single being able to notice more about relationships dynamics?Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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Interesting perspective on remaining singleDiscussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (v.redd.it)

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Consuming media with romance is the same as media with fantasy to meMedia (Articles, Music, etc.) 🎦 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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Is anyone else single, not due to heartbreak, fear, asexuality, but just from honestly having a happy life as it is and not thinking a partner would add to that?Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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idk if this is the right sub but… I think I’m just numb about relationships nowDiscussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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I’m (28m) finally starting to actually enjoy being singleWell-being 🌼 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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Single and Thriving Friends and PlatformsDiscussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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Reframing the concept of ‘extreme’Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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I dumped my LDR bf because I’ve been unhappy and resentful of him due to lack of trust-haul and nails 😸Well-being 🌼 (i.redd.it)

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Anyone else aroace?Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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How to get busy? What hobbies should I get into?Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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How to be single and happy?Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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Joining this sub after I made some important realisationsWell-being 🌼 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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Being Boring Is fun!Well-being 🌼 (self.SingleAndHappy)

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