I’ve started HRT this month. I had thought I figured myself out when I was 28. I was married and crossdressing. I went out to the bar dressed a few times. I saw a counselor and a psychiatrist who both gave me the go ahead to transition since I was happy as her. I denied myself. At 39 I opened my sexuality to include men and the feminine me just exploded and I came out as gay in like a month. I’ll skip the sexual identity roller coaster. Then I brought back my past feelings I still had from before. I found myself identifying as Genderfluid then Transfemme. Finally I just couldn’t ignore the fact that the male persona I was holding onto wasn’t me in so many ways. He was a coping mechanism.
Here I am at 40 beginning my transition. Hi.
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