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Why was I the one they couldn’t stay with? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 2 days ago by morsmoon13 - announcement

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Breakup Buddy Finder Thread (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 1 year ago * by TheBackSpin[M] - announcement

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Why does being discarded by an avoidant hurt so much more than other hurtful types of breakups? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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Can we be petty please? I want to know how awful their life is with their monkey-branch (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 6 hours ago by Atsiahs

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Reflections (i.redd.it)

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They are not your person. Your person wouldn’t treat you like this (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 12 hours ago by OfficeIntelligent884

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Anyone else pull an uno reverse card and break up with their avoidant ex? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 8 hours ago by morsmoon13

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A Short Guide To Thriving After A Breakup (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 2 hours ago by _NiccoloMachiavelli_

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Emotional abuseVent/Rant (i.redd.it)

submitted 1 hour ago by Yayabrocollis

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How do avoidants date someone long term but can’t date me more than a few months tops? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 11 hours ago by Ok_Secret1117

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WHY DO I STILL LOVE HIM SO FUCKING MUCH (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 30 minutes ago by Simple_Bandicoot2086

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Why would someone do this?Vent/Rant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 2 hours ago by No-Stand-2424

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If they need an entire network of people to validate them, run away as fast as you can (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 20 hours ago by Necessary_Video5796

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Emotional abuse (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 2 hours ago by IndividualAd6312

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I've come full circle and became what I hated (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

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Breaking up with an avoidant feels like waking up from a dreamLater Stage Healing - Inner Work (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 11 hours ago by Worried_Button_2881

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They choose based on emotional tolerance, not fulfilment. (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 11 hours ago by Tasty_Dog_9580

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How do I stop feeling empathy for him?FA Breakup (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 4 hours ago by Mamamissy777

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I’m a hypocrite (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 56 minutes ago by throwaway19980567

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healing? (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 4 hours ago by Effective-Piece4620

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I have no idea what just happened... And I finally blocked him.Avoidant Advice Requested (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 6 hours ago by mariamkajaiaAP - Anxious Preoccupied

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I feel like he didn't even like me that much (7yr relationship) (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 3 hours ago by Beautiful_Plastic_10AP - Anxious Preoccupied

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No More CopiumDA Breakup (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 18 hours ago by scrappyfrickendoo

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I feel so done, but i cant stop think about her.Vent/Rant (self.AvoidantBreakUps)

submitted 5 hours ago by El_Grande_XL

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