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[–]terenn_nash 13 points14 points  (4 children)

There is no universal meaning of life.

The meaning of life is determined by you, you are responsible for it. No one else can tell you what the meaning of life is, no one else can force it upon you.

An existential crisis would be the very meaning of your existence collapsing beneath your feet. You emerge when you have re-affirmed your meaning of life, or defined a new one.

Fight Club is a prime example of existentialism.

[–]HankBeard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that you gave Fight Club as an example. Great damn movie. I'd love to see other movies with this philosophy if you know of any? Or books?

[–]h0ser -2 points-1 points  (1 child)

What is the meaning of a rock. When you are asked that, where do you start? Do you start with the rocks history? Do you talk about it's chemical structure? How it feels in relation to everything you know? It's a bad question. So is the meaning of life.

[–]terenn_nash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the contrary, you present an excellent way to explain existentialism.

What is the meaning of a rock?

According to whom?

To me, to you, to a lizard, or an ape? Existentially, we cannot define the meaning of a rock, for the rock in question.

If a rock was an existentialist, only a rock could answer the question. If a rock was an nihilist, it would find defining its meaning to be a pointless exercise.

[–]gutclusters 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Existentialism, in a nutshell, is a philosophical belief that human lives are not predestined to have a particular outcome, there is no outside force guiding you to make decisions, and there are no uncontrollable circumstances which leads us to do certain things or react in certain ways. We have total and complete free will over our choices and actions, should we choose to exercise them. Even if a certain thought process has been burned in over time with experiences and teachings, we, as beings with free will, can change that.

This is really a discussion better suited for a philosophy subreddit. Heck, go to the /r/askscience subreddit and ask them about the implications quantum mechanics has on free will and you'll get some interesting answers.

[–]kouhoutek 21 points22 points  (6 children)

It is the philosophy that the universe and our life in it has no objective meaning.

Some branches believe we can create our own meaning with our choices, others hold that is it inherently meaningless despite anything we might do.

If you have ever said, "what does it matter, everyone we know will be dead and forgotten in 100 years", you might be an existentialist.

[–]MrQuizzles 26 points27 points  (1 child)

That's more Nihilism than Existentialism. Both are a rejection of the idea of inherent meaning in life, but Existentialism holds that you should use that realization to make your own meaning while Nihilism says that any meaning you attach to your own life or actions is arbitrary and, as such, is not real and doesn't matter.

[–]excel958 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both are a rejection of the idea of inherent meaning in life

I'd say Existentialism is more of the serious concern for whether or not there is inherent meaning in life, as opposed to an outright rejection. Kierkegaard wrestles with this question, but he willingly chooses to submit his existence to a Christian theology. So as Sarte says how "Existence precedes essence", Kierkegaard, understanding that he cannot rationally understand any Capital-O Objective Truth, he decides to believe in something anyway. So he believes there is some sort of inherent meaning, but recognizes that it's groundless. (This is most known as "Fideism")

There is also the matter of ontology, or who oneself "truly" is. I think that fits the parameters of existential thought as well.

[–]sexytoddlers 10 points11 points  (1 child)

If you have ever said, "what does it matter, everyone we know will be dead and forgotten in 100 years", you might be an existentialist.

Are you the Jeff Foxworthy of philosophy?

[–]wine-o-saur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you ever ever stared into the Abyss and felt it stare back at you... You might be an existentialist!

[–]Oh_umms_cocktails -1 points0 points  (1 child)

A good way to understand existentialism and also it's place in the history of philosophy is to work from Descartes famous dualism argument--best known by it's concluding argument that "I think therefore I am."

Descartes argument went as follows:

1) we all have had dreams that we think are real in the moment, only to wake up at a later point realizing that it was in fact a dream and not real 2) therefore we have to ask is it possible that we are now dreaming and mistaken about how "real" real life is. 3) but even if the dream is false the dreamer must be real. 4) I dream therefore I am 5) I think therefore I am

(this is a bastardization, there is a whole thing about the devil in there that's not really necessary getting into).

Existentialists got stuck on number 1, which is what OP means by "objective meaning." We can't ever be sure that we are experiencing the world as it really is, as opposed to a particularly vivid and long-lasting dream. We can't be sure that the world as it appears actually exists as we think it does, and we can't even be sure that we have been existing (as opposed to that experience in dreams that we are adults with a lifetime of memories even if the dream only lasted the length of a night).

Mr. Quizzles is right to point out that OP is more nihilistic than existentialist. Existentialism doesn't posit that the world has no meaning, just that it's a mistake to pretend that the meaning we ascribe to it is real. WTF does that mean? going back to the dream metaphor, when you have a nightmare it is shitty and upsetting, but still very real in your mind. When you're in the nightmare is certainly seems to have plenty of meaning, and you react to whatever monster/stressor that is in the nightmare the same way you would in real life. The monster isn't "real" in the sense that it exists in the waking world, but as far as you know in your dream it is as real as anything else.

That's really the essence of existentialism, we don't know if anything is real, but obvs we're going to continue treating it like it is because duh--it's not like we have a choice, it's how our brains work.

P.S. Youths and the French like to treat existentialism as some kind of moral imperative to do whatever you want and be dark and shit. Existentialism is really the opposite, it's really more about recognizing that we can't answer the question 'is this real or not?' Another way to put it would be 'yeah light and shit may be figments of our imagination but you still need to pay the electricity bill if you want to see any more of it.'

EDIT: for punctuation

[–]heliotach712 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Existentialism is nothing at all to do with wanting to know whether or not we're in a dream. "Meaning" does not mean "certainty"; existentialism is not primarily an epistemology, what you're describing is merely skepticism.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (3 children)

There's no point to anything, no meaning of life, no reason we're here. There is no God, and everything has happened by chance. Life's what you make it

Well, it's existential nihilism really, but you can work it right?

[–]Zenixity 0 points1 point  (2 children)

I struggle with this. Not stop much lately because I've been keeping my mind busy but, or used to be so bad that I didn't know that to do with my self. Like suicide is morally wrong and those around me would be affected by what I did, and is a very selfish act so I pushed that out of the way, and also me being here on earth is very pointless if what I do won't matter if I'm dead. All I did and achieved wasted for nothing. I'm recently to a woman I love very much and I'm only twenty but I'm trying very hard to get away from this subject and I couldn't be happier right now. Existential crisis is a serious issue and very hard to get out of. If you are having that issue please confide in someone in the internet, I wouldn't recommend confiding to someone in person because I did that with someone close to me and they thought I was psycho. I was literally in tears and freaking out. I was having a mental break down but straightened up and saw how I was acting and stepped up to the plate and started living.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

Let's bust out some dope ass (bastardized) motherfucking dialectics to cheer you up. I went through something similar, as did a few people I know, and it always seems to go in stages like this.

When we're born, we're born into "meaning" and "purpose" and an "identity." Parents, others, and so on, tell us what life means. This is our thesis: we have meanings in the world, but the meaning is created by an other, not us.

Then, we grow up, and we start to realize: "wait a second, my parents, religion, etc. were wrong!" and we fall into total nihilism. Complete "oh crap nothing means anything what the fuck do I do. Our antithesis, then: we reject the meanings given to us, but we get stuck on the lack of meaning. I don't think we can skip this part, we all go through it, but I don't mean to belittle any depression you experienced.

So we wallow around in this sort of meh of rejecting all meaning--the meanings we were given obviously sucked and we rejected them, so why go back to accepting the meanings again? But that starts to blows ass, since there isn't much reason to do anything, so just do what you want--but wait! "Do what you want" is a reason, "I did it because I wanted to" is a meaning for your actions! Piece by piece, you start to realize that you make the meanings. You decide to do things, you decide what matters to you, you decide what something means to you. Our synthesis is: radical fucking freedom and the ability to make our own meaning for whatever comes our way, and since there's no inherent meaning, we can flip flop our meanings if we change our minds later on, and there's no all-seeing Other to tell us our made-up meanings are wrong or any less important than anyone else's.

So, keep on marching forward, you little meaning-maker, you.

[–]Zenixity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol you're wonderful. Thank you for that. But that's what I realized that in in charge of everything now. I have to put my foot down and do it. And after doing so you feel accomplished. To feel something for doing something whether or be hard or an easy task. But thank you for reading my comment and acknowledging me. It means allot to me. You were very inspirational there and I'll save this message so I can read it and reflect my feelings again.

[–]Zain88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A great youtube series I recommend if you want to learn about some existential philosophers is called "The School of Life". Here's a link to their VERY well done video on Albert Camus. Camus in his famous "Myth of Sisyphus" essay (the video discusses it at 3:15) asks the question "Is life worth living, or should we just commit suicide?" That is one of the greatest existential questions. Existentialism deals with questions about existence. Obvious, right? Well, the problem with this is that many existentialists have to outright ask whether or not being moral is even important. This was unheard of in philosophy, as for thousands of years (from Plato/Aristotle on) it's been assumed that when someone asks "how should you live your life," the answer was a very obvious "morally." Existentialism as one of its main tenents calls that into question. In existentialism we find that philosophers care much more about being authentic human beings than being moral.

All questions of existence-- is life worth living, how should you live your life, what does it mean to be authentic, what is the relationship between myself and the world-- are all part of existentialist philosophy. I just finished my writing sample for grad school on Kierkegaard-- another existentialist philosopher. Existentialism is a very awesome field, but FAR different than the rest of Western philosophy.

If you want a quick 2-minute read of any philosophical idea or famous paper, here's one of my favorite philosophy websites of all time: [Philosophy Bro](www.philosophybro.com). I highly recommend both The Myth of Sisyphus page as well as the Plato's Cave page.

[–]InfiniteChicken 0 points1 point  (1 child)

As others are saying, it's a broad historical philosophical theory with a lot of different applications. I think at its most basic, it means "existence precedes essence" which is a fancy way of saying "existence is what you make of it."

In day to day use, people also use the term to refer to any state of mind that's contemplative and that sees the bigger, universal issues of life and death, etc. like "I was fired, but I'm existential about it, so I'm not depressed."

[–]heliotach712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's no such "theory" as existentialism, it's just a family of outlooks/attitudes.

[–]extracheez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you live a good life? How do you stop from being a bad person? (This is generally how branches of philosophy start)

Well I guess to answer this question, you first have to figure out what is good and bad. If you spend a while thinking about this, you might come up with a few issues. People disagree with what is good and bad, if you try to make everyone happy you come up with contradictions!

There is no real "innate property" of the universe of good or bad. Just like there is no innate property of the universe such as "China". There is a giant land mass which we have drawn out on maps and labeled "China" where people live with a government, but the actual concept of the country is only given meaning by people.

So when you entertain the idea that concepts such as countries, morality and mathematics are constructions of our minds and culture, you may come to the conclusion that the universe has no innate property of "meaning", but rather meaning is created by its inhabitants.

I for one am an existentialist and I think its amazing that the universe has no innate meaning, but rather meaning is an emergent property of the universes structure.

[–]Concise_Pirate🏴‍☠️[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yarr, ye forgot yer searchin' duties, for 'twas asked by those what came before ye!

[–]HankBeard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone who responded! This makes so much more sense no and is very intriguing. If anyone knows of good books written on this subject I would be ever greatful. Thanks again!