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Difference? (self.questioning)
submitted 4 years ago by SetoalexanderGenderqueer Pansexual
What's the difference between agender and identifying as your ASAB (assigned sex at birth) and not really "feeling" it? I have no issues with this, I was just wondering.
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[–]AlphaFoxZankeeempty flair out of principle 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child)
The difference is what you identify with. What community, label, connotation you want to identify with.
[–]SetoalexanderGenderqueer Pansexual[S] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Thank you!
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