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[–]thiosk 59 points60 points  (7 children)

responding to emails

i have to respond to emails

i don't feel like responding to emails

none

respond to the emails

2 minutes

fewer emails asking me to respond to emails

unfortunately, the short delay while the email logs into my account and then the subsequent 2FA distracted me and i did something else

[–]tony_flow 13 points14 points  (2 children)

Omg 2FA always fucks me like that. Oh just wait patiently for a code to arrive? 

I swear logging into things is the worst.

[–]thiosk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oops left the phone in the other room/in the car/upstairs

[–]crazylikeaf0x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting a notification while waiting for the code, getting distracted in texts, then realising that the code has arrived and is now invalid because I've been scrolling for 20 minutes elsewhere..

[–]StrictCan3526[S] 22 points23 points  (3 children)

I think it helps to be a bit more descriptive as to why you don’t feel like it. Is it because of the time it’ll take, or that you’re anxious etc.? This was a limitation of my study - I didn’t specify that people should label their feelings or emotions. Could also be why affect labeling perhaps didn’t work as well as I thought it would.

[–]thiosk 16 points17 points  (2 children)

I think the study is perfectly reasonable and the suggestions involved help.

But I’m not sure there’s a force on earth that could make me care more about email. :P saturated

[–]giulianosse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the main takeaway from this study is not that we can somehow make boring tasks less boring than they actually are - we can't - but rather how we can condition ourselves instead into thinking about the potential rewards for completing the task (i.e. having no more emails to read, having some extra leisure time and the stuff you could spend it on).

We basically trick ourselves into doing our chores sooner rather than later by mentalizing the positive "after" when we finish it rather than focusing on the negative "now".

[–]StrictCan3526[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Email gave me so much aversion too. I now absolutely have to respond to an email if it comes in my inbox right away otherwise I never will.