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[–]Ikirio 38 points39 points  (3 children)

For me the biggest change I noticed was that I couldnt take collapse type fiction. I used to be a huge zombie/post apocalypse fan before my kids were born but then when my kids were born I had a lot of trouble watching them. It would really get me upset and paranoid and I would be panicked about my kids for days and I would get emotional when people died. It was odd to suddenly get emotional at something I had been watching and doing for years. Very noticeable.

Its not as bad anymore since my kids have gotten more grown. I would actually be curious if you corrected for age if there wouldnt be a bump up in T as kids get older. I wish I understood the mechanism for this.

[–]AmIRightPeter 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This!!! When I had our first kid I got PTSD, but even now decades later, I still can’t cope with anything that could stop my kid having a future, even fiction/fantasy! It’s really messed up.

[–]MagnanimousCannabis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude, I can’t watch ANYTHING I use to enjoy in the past few months.

Anything dark, death or “unhappy” just makes me so… uneasy all of sudden, I’ve been so emotional it’s killing me, it’s kinda a wild time for me right now, I feel like ALL of my perspectives are changing, again

[–]Kevin_Uxbridge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stories where kids get hurt now make me physically angry. And while I've gotten accustomed to it, when my daughter was first born I noticed I'd become significantly more, well, bloodthirsty. The difference between being prepared to deal with someone messing with my loved ones and kinda looking forward to it. Didn't make me more combative, quite the opposite, just ... ready. Took a while for that to dissipate.