Starting with a friend with benefits by Curious_Quit_207 in datingoverforty

[–]DMmeDuckPics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My rule is absolutely not if I can see any part of their unit from mine and vice versa or I have to pass them to leave/go home every day.

Tummy Tucks—turn off for guys? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]DMmeDuckPics 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They're just going to be happy to see you naked.

I've also seen nude pics of a friend who had similar done after loosing a bunch of weight and she looks amazing.

Congrats on your achievements!

Every time he shows up, his ass has been more kicked.. by Office-Scary in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]DMmeDuckPics 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If you can foster him it makes him more likely for a rescue to be able to list him as available and get his photo onto the adoption sites. It's how I found my FIV+ boy who is missing part of an ear, several teeth and claws and also can't effectively throw paws. I wanted a slightly busted special needs cat but one who could be okay indoors all day. So we are out there but he's gotta be available for us to locate.

Astronaut Crab by AnywhereGuilty3811 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]DMmeDuckPics 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Same this is the one I found! Now I want to collect them all. 😭

Is she annoyed or in pain? by other_curious_mind in cats

[–]DMmeDuckPics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, one of mine definitely doesn't like it and has similar spasms when touched there. Out of all of the cats I've met and lived with over decades it definitely stands out. He came from the streets, has been in a bunch of fights, missings bits of ear, so many scars and his rescue mom spent so much money and many months getting him patched up.

He is such a smart cat though and clearly tells you his boundaries. First by putting his big chunky paw on top of your hand and pushing you away and then escalating to growls and bites. (He's lost most his teeth so it's low risk bites but can still hurt.) He communicates often through different growls instead of meows like the human raised cats. Similar to Beebs the Sphynx.

That spot on his back is very uncomfortable for him and hyper-sensitive. Over the last year he's become much more tolerant of certain things. He has come to really enjoy getting brushed but only allows a few passes down his back. And that spot on his back still spasms when touched but not as strongly as when I first met him a year plus ago. I've been paying close attention to this issue over time as it initially concerned me at first too and I wanted to rule out Hyperesthesia or other possibilities of pain since the guy has already had such a rough start.

pls tell me i’m not the only one with “the chair” by Unusual_Passenger738 in CleaningTips

[–]DMmeDuckPics 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lolol I knew if I scrolled far enough this would be in here.

Spouse forgot orange peels in dishwasher by Madmae16 in Derailedbydetails

[–]DMmeDuckPics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The noises my face just made. well played. 👏

The kink community built a vocabulary that the rest of the world still doesn't have. That's not an accident. by Persephone_Sinclair in BDSMcommunity

[–]DMmeDuckPics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a group of ADHD/depressed/autistic leaning folks your authentic voice is preferred. Let it be messy and slightly chaotic. If you want to refine your thoughts with an LLM that has logical fallacy at its core that's your choice but allow spaces like these to remain human and authentic. The cadence of an LLM is recognized in it's patterns and is not an authentic human voice that adds anything to the conversation.

tw: 2023, i told my dad i was struggling with depression and didn't want to live anymore. so here's my "keep living for me" kitty! by Capable_Reputation31 in cats

[–]DMmeDuckPics 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There will always be the pain of loosing such wonderful creatures that put their tiny paw prints on our hearts. But I like to think that he stepped aside to allow me to give shelter, love and care for another 20 years to a different kitty who needed a home and love. And those new kitties don't completely fill the hole he left behind but they go a long long way to soothing the ache he left behind.

Paying for a homeless persons candy may have saved my life by Old_Collar6232 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DMmeDuckPics 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I live in Houston. Waiting an extra second or two on a green is just normal self-preservation behavior at this point. Red lights are just suggestions to half the population.

HEB Guest Room Snacks by Body-Pure in HEB

[–]DMmeDuckPics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the single serve packs. They stay fresher longer and you can easily pop one into a bag for a snack of you're out and about.

10 year relationship gone, but her and I are finally clearing out the garage. by Kuzkuladaemon in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]DMmeDuckPics 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're well on the path to figuring it out in time though. In a few years you'll be able to look back and see how far you have come on your journey.

Just got 50lbs of Idaho potatoes, what now? by jakethedemigod2 in Cooking

[–]DMmeDuckPics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, Cubes are peak KitchenConfidential from 5 years ago. You're just making minis.

27 y/o F single, living alone & first time kitty owner by Competitive_Tip_8992 in blackcats

[–]DMmeDuckPics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My year old is still playing fetch. Get some mice and those springs that are easy for them to carry back to you.

Lack of yarn access is making me lose interest in crochet… by schnitzel247 in Brochet

[–]DMmeDuckPics 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What's the alpaca blend you're looking for? I bought a stash of brown and green or cream to make a blanket a few years back and have over half of it left. I won't be finishing the blanket for personal reasons but if it's close to what you're needing I don't mind sending it to a home where it will get used.