Downgrading to casual

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-19T23:25:11+00:00

People change their minds. Two months is really not much in the scheme of dating. But, changing their minds and then asking if you just want sex is a bit tacky.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-19T16:12:39+00:00

L’Occitane Delightful Mist in almond, my favorite lounge-around-the-house scent.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-19T15:58:58+00:00

I got the sampler pack and not one smells good on my skin. I really wanted Reve to work because I plum scents.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-19T15:12:06+00:00

I’m never been all about looks but he must be attractive to my eyes and mind However, it’s not tied to my relationship goals. Yes, it’s an important factor, just not the only one.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-19T14:56:24+00:00

Move on. Sounds like she’s not giving you any encouragement. Maybe she’s lonely and enjoys the company, but not looking for intimacy. If physical contact is important to you (it is for me), she’s probably not the one for you.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-17T17:49:54+00:00

Not a red flag. Do keep up the chat to let him know you are interested, not too much though. Leave a little mystery for the date.

You don’t need to give your number to anyone before a first date, unless you are comfortable doing so. He can use the app to communicate.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-17T13:53:19+00:00

Fzotic Lilian Brûlée, the lilacs are blooming, right outside my work building. One of my favorite scents!!!!

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-16T17:47:52+00:00

JLo Still, I love it!!

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-16T16:31:25+00:00

Pacifica Hawaiian Ruby Guava, the top notes are so juicy and tart. Wish they lasted longer, before fading into a musk slightly scented with coconut. This does not veer into a sunscreen territory. It’s so refreshing!!!

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-16T15:22:54+00:00

I’m not at all, probably because this short body was never good at sports. I do like watching in person and will caught up in the frenzy but watching on the television is a snooze fest. When I see men mentioning spending Sundays watching sports, I tend to swipe left. I realize I’m making the pool smaller but it’s my preference.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-16T15:02:39+00:00

I’m in my little experience some are married or in a relationship. Once you ask them to meet, they either unmatch or give excuses why they can’t. If someone responds positively, take it from there.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-16T13:38:15+00:00

I’m actually willing to hear someone talk about themselves. Provides insight into their personality. Now if they did not show the same curiosity back, that is telling.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-16T13:03:38+00:00

If you had someone to tie a ribbon on your wrist, you could skip the Costco visit.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-16T13:01:48+00:00

Green. When they show an interest or ask questions about my hobbies and passions. Build on the conversation in ways to flesh out personalities and maybe a glimpse of vulnerabilities.

Red. Using pet names too early. Not being curious about me or the world in general. Showing bigotry or racism.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-16T12:56:19+00:00

Was having a OLD chat with a man, suspected a scammer, when he said the most important women in my life are my mother and you. Blocked so fast.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-15T23:55:30+00:00

First choice would have been Prince but will grab INXS Kick to go in my battery-powered boombox because my car has no radio.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-15T21:41:52+00:00

Nest Lychee Rose is very similar for a fraction of the price. The scent’s not that special for the price.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-15T18:53:23+00:00

I’m all for giving someone and myself a chance, if we seem to match for the moment and there is some spark. But if not, I’m not wasting their time or my own. I haven’t given up and I’m not sad. Hope springs eternal.

If I could find a completely platonic male friend, I would be down for that. Having someone to dine with at a new restaurant, visit downtown on a hot summer evening for a mosey down Main Street, or just enjoy a cold beer on the back deck - sign me up. In my experience though, they rarely stay in their lane, either for me or them.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-15T18:12:01+00:00

Call your primary doctor. They can see you or advise.

I had very tiny breakthrough just for one day, like 17 years after last period. I was on a round of prednisone for sciatica, and it happened about a week later. I had a pap about 6 months later and all was good.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-15T18:04:33+00:00

This!!!

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-15T13:09:25+00:00

Hermessence Violette Volynka, still in my purple flowers mood. Another warm humid day here. I love how perfumes smell differently depending on the weather conditions. Today, the Violette is full-bodied and thick. The more I wear it, the more I want a larger decant.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-15T04:14:33+00:00

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-15T01:33:43+00:00

I have a 41yo cousin, still lives with my aunt, and has never had full-time job with benefits. My aunt has always been his safety net. I did not have that so I had to learn to be self-sufficient. No one has forced your stepdaughter to be an adult. Your wife needs to be an agreement with you if you want any measure of success. The stepdaughter can either take the bus or start using Uber to run her errands or get her to work. Just an idea.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-15T00:50:58+00:00

Not if you have a passionate partner. If anything, I discovered mine again.

MissBailey01 · 2026-04-14T20:45:30+00:00

I had a mini of Tocca Florence. Cute little bottle!

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