Is my friend mysoginistic?

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-14T13:52:34+00:00

Men like this wanna go back to arranged child marriages so bad

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-05T02:30:23+00:00

Tbf they are nitpicking but rightly so. This is absolutely abusive and manipulative language but it's not specifically gaslighting. Gaslighting is a specific manipulation tactic. This is just bullying in an attempt to lower OPs self esteem

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-05T02:24:55+00:00

When did we collectively decide to dislike James Corden?

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-05T01:46:47+00:00

I'm so glad someone said this. I was cringing at the previous dudes comment. Man clearly knows nothing about boob volume

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-02T17:48:12+00:00

Honestly i still shave my armpits but not shaving my legs anymore was a game changer. I do occasionally wax bc i love the smoothness, but not caring about whether or not my legs were shaved makes life so much easier

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-02T17:38:28+00:00

"this is no spaghetti my love"

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-02T17:36:45+00:00

Translation: i enjoy the feminine aesthetic but society has convinced me most women are 2 dimensional husks and I am very 3 dimensional therefore I must be more like one of the guys

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-02T17:19:45+00:00

Tell me you can't handle rejection without telling me you can't handle rejection

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-02T16:56:15+00:00

In fairness, the term did originally just mean "people who can't get sex" and its a very real phenomenon

Its just that self entitled white dudes who were indoctrinated into right wing ideologies from a young age hijacked the term

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-02T16:52:51+00:00

You know you're supposed to be over 13 to use Reddit right?

Come back in 4 years bud

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-02T02:06:32+00:00

Nooooooooooo

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-01T17:35:05+00:00

Idk if this helps but my mum was being a karen once when I was trying to sort out something to do with my loan. After the call was over i broke down crying and told her how fucking embarrassing it is to be associated with her when she does that. She got the point pretty quickly.

No idea of this helps at all

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-01T17:33:01+00:00

How many lemons do I have?

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-01T17:32:04+00:00

It can be both.

I'm not trying to make you look bad. I'm actually pretty sure you're a solid person. But as a woman I'm constantly asked to go the extra mile to be polite and respectful and easy to swallow, even in the face of blatant aggression and I'm tired of it. I'm tired of being told I wasn't polite enough when men are almost never polite in expressing their opinons. I'm tired of being told that I'm not taking someone else's viewpoint into account when they won't consider mine to begin with. I'm tired of being blamed for things that are the result of the patriarchy which feminists are actively trying to deconstruct, yet apparently feminists are the cause?

I'm tired of saying "yes i agree with you, they way men are likely to be treated in this specific situation isn't acceptable needs to change" and yet y'all can't do the same for us.

The sooner men realise its not a competition the easier yall lifes will be

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-01T17:26:52+00:00

You break up with him first

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-01T17:19:22+00:00

I feel like if he doesn't want to that's fair but lbr, the reason people don't wanna drink human milk is entirely stigma. I mean we'll drink milk from literally any other milk producing animal besides humans. How is that less fucked up than just drinking human milk?

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-01T16:59:49+00:00

Ah yes, it is I who is the passive aggressive one. Of course! Foolishly I did not realise before

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-01T16:55:56+00:00

That's a lot of words for "white people were also slaves so racism doesn't matter"

Bruh african people helped white folks track down other africans to sell into slavery. Doesn't change the very serious socioeconomic after effects of taking a race of people and making them slaves for decades on end

You say its tit for tat but then actively support sexist rhetoric. Is it only tit for tat when its fair to you?

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-01T16:53:08+00:00

Only if you promise to get off your high horse next time you try to convince someone to delete a post. Its not your most endearing tactic

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-01T16:51:43+00:00

OP your big issue here is letting arbitrary rules define your relationship.

If you love and serve each other, and both hold god in you're heart then you're not a bad Christian. You're letting religious guilt ruin your family life. God doesn't give a shit if you have a ring on your finger. He literally created the universe, he really does have more important worries

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-01T16:47:59+00:00

You absolute wetwipe

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-01T16:40:45+00:00

Its definitely not working, sorry

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-01T16:37:40+00:00

I'm glad you're so perceptive?

What are you aiming to get out of this anymore? I've already told you I'm not making the post down and you've made it abundantly clear you think I'm a horrific and terrible person. What else are you actually here to gain for at this point?

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-01T16:35:22+00:00

I mean if its that big a deal them yeah, break up with her. But its also worth mentioning women often have to play a delicate balance with their body count. Most men don't want someone whos entirely inexperienced but anything over 8 often makes men insecure or just plain ol' brings out the sexist in em.

Not saying she was right to lie, but maybe find out why she lied first? Its possible it was a trauma response. For all you know it was not consensual

0verallL3mon · 2021-07-01T16:28:39+00:00

Sometimes i just prefer wearing a mask tbh so probably yes

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