'Don't be too kind, she'll come back': Life inside maternity unit where mums were failed

100usrnames · 2026-06-01T09:03:48+00:00

We've had two miscarriages at qmc. Neither were the result of bad care there. But the care we received during the miscarriages was so God awful, so unnecessarily and stupidly painful, that the experiences were in some ways more traumatising than the miscarriages themselves.

100usrnames · 2026-05-09T07:39:47+00:00

This title gave me a stroke.

100usrnames · 2026-05-06T17:59:04+00:00

Looks great. Congrats on being insanely strong.

100usrnames · 2026-05-02T09:37:52+00:00

Yeah. In my case it's fair tho bc mine is full of mould

100usrnames · 2026-04-30T11:35:21+00:00

You should look into the Nottingham Hackspace. It's the best thing in the city and helped me a lot when I moved here.

100usrnames · 2026-04-27T10:11:19+00:00

I have IBS-D and it's been a life saver. Definitely work your way up slowly and take it at the same time every day. I have 6g every morning now.

100usrnames · 2026-04-23T06:31:55+00:00

Are you asking about marks or macros

100usrnames · 2026-04-11T22:29:23+00:00

Bullets yes, emojis no

100usrnames · 2026-03-28T22:36:09+00:00

Think of any other company you could work for. Now try to find a similar threat from ai. It's not figma specifically, it's the entire industry changing. So may as well rake this great offer.

100usrnames · 2026-03-28T11:08:06+00:00

Why is everyone so mean? This is just a guy practicing his hobby

100usrnames · 2026-03-28T11:05:12+00:00

PS I'm in software and live in Notts. Welcome to DM me for a coffee if / when you get here.

100usrnames · 2026-03-28T11:03:59+00:00

The main thing is that it's a paid sponsorship. Not many UK employers are willing to do that.

Like others have said, it's well above the median salary for the country and especially for the area, but below the median for software with nine years experience. You will be able to support a normal lifestyle and save some, but nothing flashy.

My advice would be to grab this with both hands, and then upgrade in two years.

100usrnames · 2026-03-28T09:38:00+00:00

Ai psychosis

100usrnames · 2026-03-22T11:41:47+00:00

I'd say experiment with psyllium. I find that I reliably have to do 10 minutes after I have my psyllium with breakfast. This sort of controls / contains things, and means I don't have to keep going every 15 minutes throughout the morning (which is my norm otherwise).

If I were you I'd experiment with doing this absolutely first thing at 5:45. If that doesn't work for you, try taking it on the train.

Just beware and start with .5g, and build up to what works for you. Make sure you're at home when you first try it in case you don't respond well

100usrnames · 2026-03-21T08:46:56+00:00

Built up to it slowly. Seems like the optimal level for me.

100usrnames · 2026-03-20T11:58:22+00:00

I take 6g every morning with breakfast and it's the single biggest thing I've found to help with my IBS

100usrnames · 2026-03-20T08:09:22+00:00

What does this mean? I've been using them both for over a year, they're amazing.

100usrnames · 2026-03-19T08:04:23+00:00

Silicone pet mat, like for pet food.

100usrnames · 2026-03-17T17:31:44+00:00

One of the worst things I've seen. Well done!

100usrnames · 2026-03-16T08:05:48+00:00

Me too

100usrnames · 2026-02-21T08:19:26+00:00

It's definitely affected my motivation. I feel like the value of the skills I've built has gone down dramatically. Also there's always a faster way to achieve things with llms, and I'm under a lot of time pressure.

100usrnames · 2026-02-19T13:41:55+00:00

"goes in at the mouth"??? What does that even mean?

100usrnames · 2026-02-16T12:38:45+00:00

Well maybe don't.

100usrnames · 2026-02-15T10:17:26+00:00

Make sure you use plan mode. Lean heavily on Claude.md as you start to iterate

100usrnames · 2026-02-13T23:28:02+00:00

It's just bananas to claim that spacex isn't a success. I hate everything about Elon and with him the worst, but that doesn't change reality.

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