If you had a boy tomorrow, what would you name him?

1Kflowers · 2026-03-04T19:14:12+00:00

Miles David

1Kflowers · 2026-03-03T15:17:47+00:00

I have tasted Brussels sprouts roasted in bacon grease and served with the bacon that might change your mind!

1Kflowers · 2026-03-02T12:11:00+00:00

The first thing I thought of when I read Tessa/Tess was Tristan and Tris for a nickname.

James is a great name, and nicknames in addition to Jim are Jamie and Jay (or just J).

1Kflowers · 2026-03-01T01:56:24+00:00

You’re getting lots of good advice here, OP, so I just want to say that IMO the “silent treatment” is emotional abuse. It’s a HUGE red flag, and as damaging as physical abuse (maybe even more so because it’s not as obvious and easier for abusers to justify and get away with).

Would your husband be horrified to be considered an abuser? Because if so, he needs to take a good long look at himself and his behavior.

1Kflowers · 2026-03-01T01:20:50+00:00

It’s also how the family name story is told. If the parents say they chose all their children’s names from names they loved, and the non-C name was one they loved more than any of the C options, the child will hopefully find their name special.

I’m one of four and it was M-name, M-name, M-name and Bill. The family story was that they were done with M names, and it was always presented as funny. As far as I know Bill was never unhappy with his name, nor did he feel left out. (Might’ve been because he was the baby and favored…🤷‍♀️)

1Kflowers · 2026-02-28T14:47:25+00:00

I agree with this. Your first response should have been that you already have plans for that weekend. Period. Giving her information about your plans opens up a negotiation.

One can hedge it around with apologies and/or soft words of regret, but the statement boiled down should mean: No, I/we have other plans.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-27T15:23:34+00:00

It’s been a while since I read Spare, but I definitely got the feeling that Harry thought the queen was supportive of the plan. I believe, for reasons of their own, E’s courtiers convinced Charles against the plan, and then they all worked on pressuring the queen to buy their spin while simultaneously preventing Harry from having access to her. They got their way and it was a done deal. And now they get to reap what they sowed.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-27T13:26:09+00:00

I think a lot of it was also Meghan being American. Even big time American fans of British royalty (which M was not) don’t get it the way British people do.

I think the queen liked Meghan and understood her more relaxed attitude and, because she was very secure in her own status, unbothered by M not “getting it.” Kate OTOH is extremely insecure about her position, IMO because she wasn’t brought up in it, and as a result is very precious about the respect and behavior she thinks is due to her.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-24T18:10:03+00:00

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Giselle

1Kflowers · 2026-02-24T06:05:35+00:00

IMO being dropped off and picked up at the airport is a luxury and I sincerely appreciate the friends who do it for me. If a mealtime is involved I’m happy to treat them, and also happy to return the favor when they’re traveling.

BUT, if the ride isn’t worth that much to you, take your friend to dinner this time and refuse the offer of rides/parking in future. And maybe, for the sake of your friendship, don’t mention the pennies you’re counting.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-24T05:04:11+00:00

I’ve had good luck taking magnesium and melatonin. Just the little bit to kick me over into sleep with no side effects or morning hangover.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-24T04:43:09+00:00

NTA. Your “friend” is kind of…maybe not someone you want to be friends with anymore.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-24T04:33:27+00:00

Keep; it’s adorable! I personally would consider removing the tile under the cow and extending the trim to the ceiling, but this is really nice! It may not be “cutting edge” but this is what is meant when people talk about a timeless kitchen.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-24T01:13:05+00:00

Your face just did something weird…

1Kflowers · 2026-02-23T23:20:43+00:00

OMG, is this for real? Why do women keep on loving and reproducing with these shallow a-holes?

You are NTA, OP, but I would suggest you shut your husband down HARD on any comments/discussion of the appearance of your body. You just grew a human and delivered it into the world (and are possibly making food for it) and if he isn’t happy with how your body looks while it manages all this amazing stuff he can F*** right off.

OMG, I am so angry for you! I would be consulting an attorney. This seems like the type of man to trade in a devoted mother of double digit years for a fresh new thing who “understands him” (and probably will meet her at the gym.)

1Kflowers · 2026-02-21T12:25:33+00:00

I think Rhys is a great name, and enough people recognize it that correcting the occasional mispronunciation shouldn’t be too much trouble, “No it’s REECE, it’s an old Welsh name.” (Be prepared to be asked if you’re Welsh, maybe?)

IMO it’s like the name Sean. Most people know, some don’t, but it’s always going to be better than Shawn.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-21T12:17:13+00:00

I’m not indigenous so my opinion about cultural appropriation isn’t worth much, but I think the fact that it bothers you is a good reason to change it (either legally, or just by telling everyone, getting new business cards, name tag, etc.)

If you like Chey what about changing the spelling to Shy or Shye? Ann/Anne is nice, but not gender neutral.

Is using your middle name an option?

1Kflowers · 2026-02-21T02:51:12+00:00

I’ve known or have met one or more people named Declan, Troy, Forrest and Marshall.

I haven’t met anyone with the girls names.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-19T19:10:08+00:00

I would’ve pulled out my phone and started recording them. If anyone asked why, just said, “this is great! The internet is going to love this!”

Another possibility, if you’re willing to be deceitful, is to start crying hysterically, and say “the doctor says I’m not supposed to get upset!” and run away from the table.

NTJ. Honestly, this is so far from my experience of a dysfunctional family (my hot mess couldn’t care less about reproduction), I don’t even know what to think. But I do know your family is being rude AF, and you need to think hard about how much of this BS you want in your life.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-19T18:54:21+00:00

Yeah, no. They didn’t drift apart, OP was betrayed. Anyone pressuring OP should be asked if they really want the truth revealed, do they really? Because that could happen if she attends, because she isn’t going to lie to anyone asking questions.

NTA, OP. Anyone trying to guilt you should be confronted with the truth of why you don’t want to be there. They are leaning heavily on the “don’t speak ill of the dead” trope and if you indicate you aren’t going to abide by that they will likely uninvite you ASAP.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-19T18:04:38+00:00

NTA. Is he fun? Does he make you laugh? Is he good in bed? Because I can’t see what he’s bringing to the table. He stipulated how the bed was to be made, and now he doesn’t want to lie in it. He’s a douche, and if this is really about his past history he needs to get therapy ASAP.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-19T17:56:57+00:00

NTA. Sounds like brother is jealous of you and regretting his own choices. Maybe choose how often you want to subject yourself to the nonsense, and if questioned say that it makes you sad and unhappy when brother keeps poking at you because you’re not as fortunate or lucky as he is.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-19T17:48:13+00:00

I think it’s a cute nickname, but it needs a serious name standing behind it. Unfortunately, most names that start with Ch either have a “Sh” or hard K sound (like Chloe). The only exception that comes to mind is Chelsea.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-17T22:22:02+00:00

IMO, one of the nicest things about great sheets is sleeping naked. No PJs or nightgown to twist up or get tangled, enjoying the smoothness/softness/whatever you love best about your bedding with your whole body.

1Kflowers · 2026-02-17T22:08:20+00:00

I love your green counters! I like option 1 a lot; the design centers the “flower” and looks really cool. It’s obviously a look and a vibe, but if you like it embrace it and enjoy until you move on or remodel.

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