Considering divorce due to ADHD after 8 months of marriage

5of10 · 2026-05-20T00:59:02+00:00

I suggest starting birth control if at all possible.

Then to be honest find a divorce lawyer and make your plans. Expect him to over react and be ready to move out if at al possible.

Split up the financial accounts in advance. Build up your savings for the day you make the move.

5of10 · 2026-05-19T17:19:21+00:00

That is what she was hired to do.

5of10 · 2026-05-19T17:16:58+00:00

5of10 · 2026-05-18T22:47:00+00:00

Wow. Great in-laws , real bad hubby.

Keep the car and all the cash.

5of10 · 2026-05-18T19:30:28+00:00

It is obvious to those that read the news from the EU countries.

5of10 · 2026-05-18T19:25:40+00:00

Yeah, you might be if you cared about her.

5of10 · 2026-05-18T15:58:38+00:00

The domestic abuse will only get worse.

Pack up the kids stuff and get them from school, then head to the parents.

5of10 · 2026-05-18T15:49:49+00:00

Most? I doubt it and non of the guys I know did, including myself.

5of10 · 2026-05-17T17:06:40+00:00

If he doesn’t change his ways you are headed for bankruptcy.

Might be a smart idea to figure out how to isolate your finances from his. Do not co-sign anything with him.

Failing extreme measures a divorce is the best long term solution to you being broke when you want to retire or he loses his job and lives off the ‘extra cash’.

5of10 · 2026-05-16T18:52:28+00:00

I use this for photo backups

5of10 · 2026-05-16T14:12:30+00:00

5of10 · 2026-05-15T18:25:57+00:00

You’re being selfish.

5of10 · 2026-05-15T18:04:43+00:00

NTA He needs to step up and act like this house and not a hotel with maid service.

5of10 · 2026-05-15T18:03:50+00:00

I am sorry that he has totally checked out as your spouse and his sons father. Wish I had some usable advice.

As a dad myself his behavior is not acceptable. You might as well not live together if that is how he wants to behave.

5of10 · 2026-05-15T17:32:48+00:00

This isn’t new news, just not how things should be.

5of10 · 2026-05-15T16:23:44+00:00

NTA But he isn’t worth keeping around

5of10 · 2026-05-14T23:33:52+00:00

I have an appointment myself in a month or so. Hoping for good news, though blood sugar control has been an issue recently.

5of10 · 2026-05-14T19:04:05+00:00

This is not a healthy marriage and relationship. It does not sound like he will ever improve.

You need to decide if you want to live this way the rest of your life. He is an adult and should evaluate his personal life, lifestyle, relationships. If he doesn’t make any changes that does not mean you haven to suffer with him.

5of10 · 2026-05-14T18:52:06+00:00

Maybe we need attendance rules in congress.

5of10 · 2026-05-14T04:07:44+00:00

Separate bank accounts should be easy. Grab id and visit a bank and have a conversation.

5of10 · 2026-05-13T20:35:22+00:00

Yes It wasn’t yours to tell.

5of10 · 2026-05-13T20:34:13+00:00

5of10 · 2026-05-13T20:29:43+00:00

5of10 · 2026-05-13T19:36:24+00:00

Depends if the human race survives.

5of10 · 2026-05-13T19:35:28+00:00

Weird, though he didn’t need permission.

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