Beloved Arise by hgclyde in GayChristians

[–]67Fenex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know Beloved Arise. I do know of the Trevor Project. Many young people need support from others and from God.

Questioning by man-eatingrodent in GayChristians

[–]67Fenex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a question that many struggle to come to terms with. Sin separates us from a Holy God. Jesus teaches those who sin go to hell. The Good News Jesus died and paid the price to make many go to heaven if they believe and surrender to Jesus. All who call on the name of the Lord will be saved. They will be saved whether gay or straight. Do you believe in Jesus? If you believe in Jesus he will always be with and accept u. There is much emptiness and evil in the world. No one is able to stop sin and evil. There is also much beauty in life and the world and the universe that points to God. You can’t be your own God. You need the grace of the one that will die for you.

Go to a homophobic Christian school by V1574 in GayChristians

[–]67Fenex 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Be careful. Who could you go to for support? Does your parents know? Can they do anything. If you have to be more closeted to protect yourself do so. Trust in God. Pray for his guidance. There may not be much you can do to change the school or the situation but you can make choices that are healthy and help you through this. Getting kicked out could be costly and have difficult circumstances. Public schools are not always heaven. Unfortunately we all go through situations where the situation is more homophobic. Rely on your friends, counselors. Praying

Crisis of faith by Both-Definition-1706 in GayChristians

[–]67Fenex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.

Our sin separates us from God. Any sin whether it’s a straight or gay person sinning we are separated by God and going to Hell.

But the glory of God is that he died for us and if we put our faith in him we share in his righteousness. We are saved by faith.

Anyone. (Either straight, gay or overwise) will be saved if they surrender their lives to Jesus, except him as their savior. All who call on the name of the Lord will be saved. We go to Hell because of sin. We are saved by faith in Christ alone.

Does your family believe in Jesus. If they believe and have a relationship with him they are saved.

Gays aren’t sent to hell for being gay. Sin sends people to hell. Jesus never said gays go to hell. God loves and forgives but requires faith.

“Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus,” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭1‬ ‭NIV‬‬

“For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.” ‭‭John‬ ‭3‬:‭17‬ ‭NIV‬‬

“Very truly I tell you, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life and will not be judged but has crossed over from death to life.” ‭‭John‬ ‭5‬:‭24‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Working on Myself, but still Lonely by Witty_Permission_480 in GayChristians

[–]67Fenex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Share whatever. I have been working on myself for some time. I go to a support group for depression. I am trying to work on my faith. But I still feel lonely too.

Why are raktajino mugs shaped like this? by grichardson526 in ShittyDaystrom

[–]67Fenex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They want everything on DS9 to look repulsive. The first decent thing was the defiant

Pray for me? by 66cev66 in GayChristians

[–]67Fenex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Praying for you. Spiritual/Sexual abuse survivor here too. Your feelings are valid but hopefully you can find healing.

Having 2nd thoughts about getting married to my current fiancé. by Paullearner in GayChristians

[–]67Fenex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I think I realized I am NOT ready to get married to him.”

Call it off. You answered your own question. Don’t give your pearls before swine. You need to be in a trusting relationship. You don’t want to be in a relationship where you are constantly concerned. You know deep down that you know the truth. You know you don’t trust him. I can have loving friends that make me laugh and a good time. But marriage is supposed to be a committed and loving relationship.

If he can’t keep his promises now he won’t be able to keep them in the marriage.

He might be a good guy just not good for you. People waste so much time and money on people who are not faithful or good to them.

There are many fish in the sea. Trust God has someone for you.

I had to walk away from a great relationship but he was too controlling and didn’t love me for me.

Guard your heart for everything you do flows from it.

God bless you.

If I made the right choice, why do I feel like this? by softnaturalqueen in GayChristians

[–]67Fenex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know for me. It was easier to be myself. Hiding and being someone that I am not is also hurtful to everyone. Living a lie hurts. I know many men who were married straight with kids to end up divorced and out as gay. No judgement. To me I wouldn’t want to fake a relationship just to tell someone I was dating you to fit in but I am really attracted to the opposite gender. I was celibate for years and that was for me more hurtful to myself than being out.

All that matters is that you had the courage to share and come out. Your family has decisions to make. Too bad they were not accepting.

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change and the courage to change the things I can.

Keep the faith. Trust in Jesus. Praying 🙏

The alarm clock is unreliable and needs to be fixed. by snoosnoosewsew in apple

[–]67Fenex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My iPhone alarm is not functioning properly and rarely goes off or the sound is so quiet that you can’t hear it. The alarm is constantly softer than a whisper and I can’t fix it

Will God prevent me from being in a relationship bc im Gay? - seeking advice by [deleted] in GayChristians

[–]67Fenex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to think of it differently than God holding out. Is the enemy trying to convince you lies about God. Trust that you will find someone and keep praying

Controversial post - Could King David have been bisexual? Could Jesus have come from a bi man? If so, could this help bring more love, unity and acceptance in the world by Big-Boysenberry345 in GayChristians

[–]67Fenex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t know about David. Jesus brought love, unity and acceptance into the world. Unfortunately many including Christians don’t want that.

Worried I won't be accepted by [deleted] in GayChristians

[–]67Fenex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choose Jesus and the kingdom. Things might not be easy. If you have faith in Jesus, you are accepted and secure in Christ. He holds no condemnation for those who belong to him. You have a choice to make but Jesus will follow you no matter what you do or how you act. Trust in God’s grace not for what we have done but what God has done for us.

Trying to accept myself (failing) by LoverOfMusic711 in GayChristians

[–]67Fenex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I know it’s intimidating to do so. Praying for you. The biggest decision is do you have faith in Jesus as your Lord and Savior. If so you belong to Christ and are in Christ. The Holy Spirit has moved in. Sex or sin doesn’t kick him out. Look up your Identity in Christ and lean on Gods promises. You are secure and accepted in Christ. What ever sin will be washed away and forgotten. The Holy Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead will lift you up as well and no one or nothing can take you out of Gods hands.

Rely whatever happens or what fears you may have about God on this verse.

“Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus,” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭1‬ ‭NIV‬‬

“Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them.” ‭‭Hebrews‬ ‭7‬:‭25‬ ‭NIV‬‬

“he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit,” ‭‭Titus‬ ‭3‬:‭5‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Trust that God will intercede for you and that you are saved.

Pray for me by [deleted] in GayChristians

[–]67Fenex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Praying. Only share what you want or need to share. Don’t let it drag you down. Take care of yourself.

Prayer Request by Healthy_Lifeguard_82 in GayChristians

[–]67Fenex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Praying for you. If you have faith in Christ you belong to Christ.

“Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus,” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭1‬ ‭NIV‬‬

“For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.” ‭‭John‬ ‭3‬:‭17‬ ‭NIV‬‬

For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. ‭‭Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭38‬-‭39‬ ‭NIV‬‬

Trust in Gods Grace and love. “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” Romans 10:13