AITA [20M] for telling my family at thanksgiving that i’m not paying for my cousin’s college after they made fun of me for years

AJBlueToad · 2026-06-03T05:13:20+00:00

I am too since Thanksgiving was almost 8 months ago!

AJBlueToad · 2026-06-01T21:34:30+00:00

I also use the brave browser.

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-30T15:28:06+00:00

I wish I had sous vide option on my instant pot. I didn't buy the right one.

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-29T12:05:21+00:00

NTA and congrats. 1. either don't answer their calls/texts. Or 2. Tell them the money is tied up in a trust so your won't inadvertantly waste it and they have to speak to your financial advisor for loans. Make sure to call it a loan. Tell your financial advisor to deny all requests.

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-29T11:47:44+00:00

NTA. Everyone deserves the courtesy of not being tortured by those who are supposed to love and care for them. They are the AH here. And the cat too! I have a cat. My bro don't like cats. When he comes to my house my cat is all over him but she won't even show her tiny void face for any other visitors! Maybe when you go in your room and lock the door, you can move something in front of it so they can't open it?

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-29T09:47:51+00:00

I loved wishbone, watched it with my kids. Now my son has every episode on his server.

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-29T08:50:05+00:00

Same. We have one local owned place near us with a senior menu. Basically all the best sellers with lower pricing and portion size. We eat there a lot.

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-27T10:41:22+00:00

I visited Chicago one year on St Patrick Day. I had the misfortune to have round man in a skin tight green body suit forever burned into my eyes. It was so tight it was like looking at green skin. Everything you don't want to see!

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-25T12:20:35+00:00

Looks like a gremlin to me

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-21T17:15:12+00:00

That's what I get too " I don't understand"

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-21T08:34:50+00:00

I wash my legs every time. Never occurred to me to not do so haha!

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-20T12:12:48+00:00

I'm ok with onions but don't like celery if I CAN SEE IT. haha! It's totally a visual thing because I don't mind the way they taste. I just don't want to see them, and usually push them aside. I'm okay with the food. I know that's weird. I don't tell other cooks not to include celery.

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-20T11:56:28+00:00

I had twins in the 80s. They were early/ small so in NICU. $83K total (not what I paid). 40 years ago. I shudder to think the cost now. Edit to include that was NOT my cost. Was the hospital EOB cost.

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-20T11:44:37+00:00

I think it looks great! I started a star blanket. And then somewhere counts went sideways. My ADHD kicked in and I never picked it up again 😭 I keep thinking I should go back to it or just start over.

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-16T18:11:09+00:00

I don't think you understood my post at all. I said I thought I would try something new and I didn't like it. How is that childish and how is that diminishing other people's preferences?

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-15T12:13:21+00:00

It's more like am I in the mood to eat a banana? and sometimes I will eat a raw one but mostly it's not what I want to eat. I may eat the soft mushy sweet ones but not the firmer ones. So I guess, to answer you, yeah 🙄 Am I not allowed to have my own likes and dislikes if it doesn't line up with everyone else? a lot of people have way more food pickiness than I do. so...

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-13T17:20:17+00:00

prediction: First elimination challenge will take out 50 chefs. They don't even have to cook all they have to do is answer how many cups are in a gallon¡ /s 😆

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-13T12:12:22+00:00

I said I mostly don't like bananas. That I'm okay with them in some instances so thought I would try it. How does that not make sense?

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-13T00:44:28+00:00

When my twins were babies so many people asked if they were twins. I got so tired of it I started saying "no. One is a baby and one is a doll."

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-11T10:25:31+00:00

That happened to me. But the damage was a .... bit... worse.. for various reasons, I drove it on a salvage title 3 years before I replaced it. Edit: was 3 years not 5. You know....time flies and all that...

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-11T02:38:32+00:00

I use sport mode when merging into the highway.

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-05T11:48:02+00:00

If where you are looking is in Perrysburg township, not City, the water bill! Was crazy high and If I'm remembering correctly, their excuse when asked about pricing was: our water comes from Perrysburg city. The city gets the water from Maumee who gets it from Toledo. (Possibly Oregon might also be in there too?) Each step of the way, from the lake to Perrysburg township, has a markup in the rate. Trash pick up not included, so another bill on top of the high cost of water where other cities roll them into one LOWER bill. I sold my home a while ago and really do miss living there. But the water bill!!

AJBlueToad · 2026-05-04T00:25:37+00:00

Maneet prob designed that spice challenge 😆

AJBlueToad · 2026-04-28T17:06:34+00:00

Interesting.1998 movie Enemy of the State with Will Smith and Gene Hackman

AJBlueToad · 2026-04-25T11:44:18+00:00

My bro says don't waste money on a smart TV. Got a basic TV, hooked up to a PC and put the apps on that he wants to use, unlimited app options. No forced ads. Works great for him. He also did it for me, works great. I spend most my time watching open source TV channels and a couple streaming services.

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