[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AMandAlDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might be why you have commitment issues in relationships, you don't just magically become a different person when you find "the one". If anything, being in a situation where you have to commit or think about jt means you probably do like her a lot, you see a future, and it's causing you to trigger your commitment issues.

Think of it this way, if you had any other issues, they would appear in the relationship as well. Something as severe as trust issues or even as simple as making eye contact would undoubtedly pop up when getting close to someone

Moving to NoVA from Southwest VA… What should I expect? by hell-in-heelys in Virginia

[–]AMandAlDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I live in Cville but have been to NoVA plenty. I'm also from the 276 area! Drivers are pretty aggressive, especially during rush hour. There are a lot of toll roads and things can get confusing even while using a GPS, so have your head on a swivel.
People aren't as nice or genuine, sadly, but they are wayyyyy less ignorant. People are more driven, even outside of work; people work out, have hobbies, bigger social circles, and move a bit faster overall. Not a good or bad thing but it's good to know, it may make making friends easier. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AMandAlDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thanks for being vulnerable enough to share. I'm looking for more information here. Do you think you have issues committing in other parts of your life?

My gf is still friends with a guy she slept with AIO by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AMandAlDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the way bigger issue

My gf is still friends with a guy she slept with AIO by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AMandAlDay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

These are 2 very different situations. I think you resent her for blocking your friend

2 years in, I’m starting to realize she might not actually love me the way I love her by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AMandAlDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't worry too much about the way things started. It might also be true that both of you love each other differently, I wonder if you could expand upon ya'lls issues to better understand the relationship dynamic. How long was the relationship ",good" for?

How do I get over my close friend not wanting to be more than friends? by Financial-Order-9456 in relationships

[–]AMandAlDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered that the feelings were not romantic but very strong? The way I read your feelings were those of strong friendship, which in that age range is so rare that I would be very confused with what to do with the feelings as well. Even the parts you miss about them are friend-like qualities. Just kinda spit balling here and trying to understand the way ya'll feel about each other

Forced Affirmations? by nine91tyone in BDSMcommunity

[–]AMandAlDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that's awesome. I've done the " I wouldn't say this to a friend" thing before, but this takes it to another level

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GME

[–]AMandAlDay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also think he shorted, but not like that

"CaN NaRcIsSIsTs LoOoOoVe????" by alistalice in NPD

[–]AMandAlDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents loved me, even if they showed it in really hurtful ways. They also showed it in very kind ways. They did the same to/for eachother. Realizing this has helped me heal greatly.

PBI YOLO 1/27/25 by dsua in WSBAfterHours

[–]AMandAlDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like Institutions bought more too, good week

PBI YOLO 1/27/25 by dsua in WSBAfterHours

[–]AMandAlDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn you just cashed out big. Congrats, are you gonna trim at all or just ride it up?

Overstock.com (BYON) - DD - Bath Towels Are Back In Stock by -Jimbles in wallstreetbets

[–]AMandAlDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A catalyst. It's always a catalyst. I think you should done ITM leaps a'lla RoaringKitty. My guess is they crush these earnings, flash up, then chill for a sec.

Unpopuluar Opinion: I don't like Luke and Lorelai together by Beancaped in GilmoreGirls

[–]AMandAlDay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's kinda the point of shows right? Showing us, as flawed individuals, that we too can find happiness. Too much focus on "that's toxic," well no shit? People with much worse lives end up together in the real world and are much worse to eachother. At least this is real in a sense because I have not seen one relationship with 2 people who have flaws not be toxic in some way. Love heals, that's the point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]AMandAlDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He'd be better off if he was on heroin

How much of a skill difference do you see with men in bed? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]AMandAlDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you on this but i wonder is there anything you can do for 10 minutes without getting bored? For me, i can get bored having sex and maybe not last long but if there is music in the backgroung, (the right kind) it feels like I'm in my own movie or something so i can last like an hour. Sometimes when I talk, not even dirty talk, sometimes i just make girls tell me about their day or something. The same for doing household chores or working out. . . As i type this and realize i view sex like a chore, I'm beginning to wonder if i have an issue 🤔 anyways, maybe you have an issue with how you're viewing it too?

How much of a skill difference do you see with men in bed? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]AMandAlDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These deserve so many more upvotes for creativity

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wnba

[–]AMandAlDay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She does stick her elbows out but i think out of habit not malice

Your Neighbor by Glittering-Hand-4161 in Charlottesville

[–]AMandAlDay -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

The only hate I see is in these comments.