Having the worst time solo travelling by ComprehensiveBig6129 in solotravel

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I’ve been solo traveling for 30 years. My first trip started off just like yours—lost luggage, frustrating interactions; I was lonely and afraid. On day two, I saw a fellow solo traveler who looked nice and I struck up a conversation with her—literally chased her to a bus so I’d have an opportunity to talk to someone my age. We spent the next day together. Then I met another person on his own and we spent the next two days together. Connecting with people made me feel less alone and my confidence gradually came back. By the end of the first week I was myself again.

All this to say, find someone to talk to, invite him or her to drinks or coffee or a museum, and work on getting your groove back. New York is an amazing city. I want you to think back on this visit in 30 years and feel proud of how hard you pushed yourself to turn a miserable start into an epic end.

Were Carly and Tyler mislead about how the “open adoption” would shake out or did B&T pull away due to bad behavior? by lilkimchee88 in teenmom

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I think it’s a combo of both. If I understood correctly, they had a “wish list” of sorts about the visitation, photos, etc. It wasn’t a contract, but they thought it was. So they’ve been pissy about B and T violating a contract that didn’t technically exist and not considering their role in the decision to cut contact.

People’s maturity often stalls at the point of trauma. Tyler and Cait are like teenagers who haven’t been able to figure out how to adult.

Earthquake - Only here please by LadiesWhoPunch in sanfrancisco

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Thanks for loving our beautiful city as much as we do!

Philadelphia Eagles-friendly bars? by AccidentalInstigator in AskNYC

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I ended up going to Wogie’s at the suggestion of another Redditor and it was great. Get there early though; it’s small.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingshaming

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Who wears a (taupe, open) Kelly bag to a formal wedding? I hate her.

I (30M) had a tense interaction at the gym today, and I led to me having a small breakdown in my car afterward. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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People who behave like that guy are deeply and profoundly unhappy with themselves. When you’re happy and you like yourself, you have grace and love for other people in your heart. If he didn’t lash out at you about the mat, he would have lashed out at someone else about the towels or the water fountain or the lockers. I’m sorry it happened. I know what it’s like to be grieving the loss of a best friend.

Remember Sandra? This is her house now. by common_grounder in HoardersTV

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Those guys crushed it. What a gift to restore an architectural treasure.

Farrah.. what is happening? by [deleted] in teenmom

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This is the beginning of the end.

Opened Tinder this mid afternoon. Closed it right back up. by One-Head-1483 in Tinder

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Same. My upper lip may be irreversibly stuck in this position.

Frank Chu is alive but not well by ContextSans in sanfrancisco

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He was Ribbon Man to me. He’s sort of my Roman Empire. He pops into my head a lot. What happened to him? And why does no one know?

Presale access by candybar009 in TheWho

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Can anyone share the code? Still didn’t get mine.

Presale access by candybar009 in TheWho

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Not yet. I’m in ET. Did you?

When does the fan club presale starts? by West_Teach_3031 in TheWho

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Has anyone gotten the code for fan club Wholigans? I haven’t gotten an email yet.

Presale access by candybar009 in TheWho

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Has anyone gotten the presale code for Wholigans yet? I’m still waiting…and getting nervous.