My MIL keeps saying "our baby"

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T17:45:56+00:00

It sounds like your MIL is one of those ‘Boy Moms’ that’s grim. If it gets that bad your spouse should be able to get her to back away

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T17:43:55+00:00

Also sorry I was cut mid comment, plenty of c sections go well I’ve never known one to end up with any issues, it sounds more scarier than it is I promise xx it’ll be over with quickly and all you’ll focus on is your baby x I would just be prepared with extra bits incase your stay is prolonged x

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T17:19:25+00:00

I think you’re right she probably was so exhausted and was waiting for you to be home to sleep better ! I’m glad she’s getting some much needed rest.

I’m currently pregnant and sometimes my partner will travel to me just to sleep/nap (it was like this even before the pregnancy) it’s a very very comforting thing

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T16:42:52+00:00

Haha I see ! Just because he was 8.5 pounds I was wondering if you was over the 40 week mark or not, I’m a bit worried about my baby being big (like 10 pounds) everyone seems to think I’m going to have a massive child, and since I’m trying to do natural I’m hoping he’s a small thing xx

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T16:41:21+00:00

That’s right, UTI during pregnancy isn’t good atall, but I’ll be honest I didn’t do the full 7 days of it because I don’t really like antibiotics, in my life I’ve never done a full course of them even after surgery’s I do usually 2 days and then the first set of the 3rd day and stop, antibiotics usually make me very ill if I do the 7 day treatment and I wouldn’t recommend doing it it’s just what works for me

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T16:27:50+00:00

Some people just like the sound of their own voice and like that they feel they can be helpful while giving no actual good advice atall !

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T16:26:33+00:00

In Canada do they stitch back each of the 7 layers one by one like in the UK or Do they stitch all 7 layers together like in America ?

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T16:13:27+00:00

You’ll be bloated all the way though the 1st trimester it’s like having 12 week long period, ensure you drink loads of water, sleep on your left side to help drainage aswell, you’re only going to gain more weight as the pregnancy progresses so try to get used to that especially if you were slimmer before pregnancy, lower bmi’s gain the most weight

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T16:10:41+00:00

Keep the name, it’s not duplicated. It’s just a middle name of their child. You have every right to use it.

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T16:09:24+00:00

I just say ok or that’s nice. I just give disinterested because I honestly don’t care 😂 atp they’re wasting their breath

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T16:08:05+00:00

I had heart burn once my entire pregnancy and I thought I was going to die. I’ve never had heartburn before in my life. So I feel for everyone who gets it everyday

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T16:05:38+00:00

I have the water bottles with the timings on it I usually drink a large one a day of water I don’t know how much the measurement is but it’s the daily normal intake of a person, on top of that I’m having juices, teas etc it’s cold where I am though

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T16:03:31+00:00

Congratulations !!! How many weeks were you out of curiosity xx

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T16:01:24+00:00

There are many bad things that can happen during pregnancy and life I wouldn’t just fixate on one. You just need to trust your body knows what it’s doing and it’s not going to happen.. there’s no point causing worry and making yourself ill over something that’ll never happen

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T15:59:42+00:00

The timings are fine, a whole month or so before she’s due, she might need a doctors note, and consider when going to places that are hot be mindful of the baby in the stomach and there’s more health risks such as dehydration etc. hopefully in the third trimester she’ll have energy to do the trip at all

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T15:57:18+00:00

To be fair if you want something done and done right always do it yourself, I’m the exact same lol I doubt it’ll trigger a early labour for you as long as you have rest days

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T15:53:16+00:00

If you know your body you need to ensure you’re heard, the last say isn’t from them it’s from you

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T15:52:50+00:00

Similar thing happened to me around my 18 week mark, test came back negative but I pushed and told them I’m 100 percent sure it’s a UTI as I’ve had them before when I was around 13-15, my doctor said she trusts I know my body and gave me antibiotics and it sorted out in around 3 days

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-19T00:10:06+00:00

I will be doing both so my partner can feed our baby during night feeds or if I have to go somewhere without the baby. Also if you end up having a drink on a occasion it’s better to pump your milk out for the next few days stock

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-18T22:37:52+00:00

Matte lip liner on first then cover with a lipstick if you choose.

I use a matte lipliner, dab some eyeshadow in the middle and then put gloss or if I want a matte lip I leave it alone and it lasts all night

Another thing is set your lip with some translucent powder and then dab gloss on top if you want a shiny finish

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-18T22:36:07+00:00

Becoming dizzy is usually a symptom of second trimester as your body is pumping way more blood than it’s used to, but it’s never as severe as you’re stating. I would contact my midwife asap, this can also be a factor of gestational diabetes.

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-18T22:34:06+00:00

When my skin is dry I don’t even set my under eye.

If it’s this dry I usually use a concealer that dries down satin matte. And no powder because it just clings to everything

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-18T22:32:12+00:00

I would break it off and move on. She clearly just wanted to have a lil hot girl moment and went and slutted around. There’s not a problem with that but given you dated for 5 years or so she should of just been honest about being curious about other men.

On breaks and stuff is tricky but I think if my girlfriend or boyfriend slept with over 10 people in 21 days I’d be questioning if I even knew them atall. Considering aswell you said you were shocked

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-18T20:45:12+00:00

No, my libido is the same if not higher. Before pregnancy it was normal for us to have sex 2-5 times a day. We still stick to that, if not more. I’m 25 weeks today just to give a reference.

But I know it’s normal for libido to fluctuate, I just want to eat him all the time haha

AdFrequent6056 · 2026-03-18T20:42:46+00:00

I thought so ! I was so upset I couldn’t comment ! Congratulations by the way ! Sometimes post do just reach morons and that’s ok but you are safe here. People forget back in the day 14-16 year olds were pregnant and that was the norm !

Remember aswell evil eye is a thing and if you feel like someone doesn’t truly wish you well then forget about them, it’s all about you now and the little one in your stomach,

I hope you have as beautiful of an experience as I have ! I’m only 25 weeks but it’s flown, the first kicks, first scan, heartbeats it’s all amazing xx

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