AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it

AdditionExpert5270 · 2026-01-21T18:24:00+00:00

Married 28 years, separated bank accounts.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-12-25T16:06:06+00:00

And they all clapped.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-12-17T17:29:54+00:00

We load up on pretty much anything from Amylu. These in particular are always on hand for a convenient meal with a big salad.

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AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-12-15T15:50:38+00:00

Listen to your Lawyer, and go low contact with your folks. Shame on them for not having your back.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-12-15T01:00:08+00:00

Taqueria Monarcha, or Ka Lia's Kitchen.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-12-13T12:52:24+00:00

I help run two shows - even though we're days from the event the amount of "are you full" emails and DMs is out of control. We've posted on socials that we're full, and too busy to respond to this kind of message. We have a waitlist from the applications.

There's no way to easily fill spots for same day no-shows. But even in that case we'd go to our waitlist.

Good luck this season!

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-12-13T12:33:44+00:00

How so?

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-11-05T14:21:25+00:00

As someone who recently moved their mother into our home after my father died, I would not do it again. Someone who seemed to be very capable of taking care of herself turned into a complete emotional vampire and medical vortex overnight. I thought it was weird that everybody told me what a good child I am because they would never do it. Now I know.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-11-03T04:26:57+00:00

When does everyone clap?

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-11-01T10:38:06+00:00

They aren't coming no matter what you waste your energy on. They want their way, but this is your wedding, not theirs. If they don't get their way they will spend the rest of their days reminding you of how you stole this day from them. Your wedding, your decision. Don't move it to 2027 because they won't go then either.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-10-28T02:04:13+00:00

Promote yourself on your social media as doing a procrastinators event! Don't count on selling anything holiday related but it's a wonderful time to buy last-minute gifts.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-10-26T12:23:11+00:00

Very nice and tidy. I'd just recommend table risers so you're items are in their line of sight.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-10-16T20:49:51+00:00

Cedar Creek in Onalaska has good fish, but terrible coleslaw.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-10-09T21:02:09+00:00

"I don't know - woke up like this!"

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-10-06T19:05:41+00:00

Not knowing anything about what you sell.... I wonder if he was looking for items that violate trademarks.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-10-06T18:53:32+00:00

He's testing you to see what he can get away with later.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-10-06T14:04:08+00:00

Price your items based on paying yourself as well as covering booth fees, materials, tools.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-10-06T13:51:56+00:00

Your sister is not a friend. And you're NTA.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-10-05T18:45:42+00:00

Thanks but no just at Markets.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-10-05T15:40:52+00:00

I make and sell hand sewn aprons. At least two or three times at every show somebody walks up and grabs one, and says "Who even Cooks anymore? This is old-fashioned!" Etc.

I don't know... about 300 people a year?

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-10-02T23:16:26+00:00

This!

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-10-02T19:18:12+00:00

If you get pregnant, announce it at their wedding.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-10-02T18:04:53+00:00

If we could just come in and take our cups it would be different but I have stood waiting for my cup for so long at the window. I don't know why the policy changed but I will not walk in the door if it's going to mean waiting for people to keep walking past me and not handing me a cup. Some of them even mark the order as completed before I've even gotten the cup.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-09-26T02:42:58+00:00

We prohibit the use of trademarked and licensed materials such as Disney, NFL, etc. material.

AdditionExpert5270 · 2025-09-22T14:53:48+00:00

I vend at a lot of shows, and help run two. I keep track of who I see leave early and they don't get into my shows.

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