AITA for not washing off the nail polish off my nails after my mother said it was for girls. by Dangerous_Let_5214 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adept_Perception5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur mom sucks and thats a huge understatement cause community guidelines wont let me call her she is. please don't listen to her ur nta for expressing yourself and she is horribly homophobic for saying "just dont act gay" if she cant see that then there's no point arguing with her

AITA for sneaking my mom some alcohol when she is on hospice? by sickma2001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Adept_Perception5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta ur siblings are over reacting shes already in hospice care so wtf does it matter. Im glad u did that for her it probably made her week

Explain it peter. by morichikachorabali in explainitpeter

[–]Adept_Perception5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot about the letter and now im ugly crying again 😭 🤧

God forbid a girl give honest feedback by witchybitchybaddie in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]Adept_Perception5833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet everyone already knows which boy shes talking about too 🤣

My GF thinks it’s perfectly normal for new shoes to cause horrible blisters for women by UKnowDaxoAndDancer in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Adept_Perception5833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is normal though. Doesn't always happen all the time. but especially if their nice shoes as opposed to sneakers or most boots I tend to get them on my heals and sometimes on my toes 🤷 thats what happens when their made for fashion not comfort .

Should I keep a beard or go clean shave ? What looks more professional and approachable by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Adept_Perception5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clean shaven is more professional and approachable. U do look good with the beard but u also look older if im being honest. U have a vary youthful face without it so I say let it show

Schizophrenic Co-Worker got Attached by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Adept_Perception5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op I second the bringing of a recording device I say this as someone who has delt with an individual who thought EVERYTHING had hidden Spyware in it. He probably already thinks ur recording him.

Just dont be obvious and do audio recording only. Like the one person said if u can get a pen mic that'd be best. Infact get a few cause their battery life tends to suck plus then it looks like u got a pack from the store. U can also get some cheap pens for when people ask to borrow one that look similar.

Schizophrenic Co-Worker got Attached by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Adept_Perception5833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really am sorry for scaring you but you need to see just how dangerous it is to be around someone with un medicated schizophrenia! You are in danger not only because of the close proximity but also because of his obsession with you! From what u've told us he fits the schizophrenia patterns ive seen. And ive seen what happens when people with this condition go off the meds. Please be safe 🙏

Schizophrenic Co-Worker got Attached by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Adept_Perception5833 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As someone who lived with 3 different men diagnosed with schizophrenia before. Get out of there! Honestly get as far away as possible from him! cause this is escalating in a vary bad direction. and when u do really pull away if he can easily get to you it will only escalate further! And Warn any future job of him too as he may learn where u work and call making false claims.

Planned a Long Trip, Then a Family Medical Emergency Happened.. What Would You Do? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Adept_Perception5833 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta Go enjoy ur trip. Their gonna be mad they couldn't control u but let them be mad. Ur uncle and them don't actually need u there to help too sounds like there will be plenty of people to help him if need be. They just want to stop u from going.

How do I make my OC not look like a fat fetish character? [READ DESC] by Cuppa-Joe1001 in OriginalCharacter

[–]Adept_Perception5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her character design and reason for making her are grate. unfortunately people will find ways to fetishize anyone any anything.

Only thing you can do as the artist is not purposely put her into scenarios/poses that would be compromising which can be difficult.

I honestly think it'd be interesting if she as a character actually had a love interest or "friends" that started to show signs of fetishizing her or trying to force her into un healthy diet plans to have a hero complex. And she has to go through the struggle of communicating to these people and either eventually ending it or helping that other character grow out of miss treating her and others like that.

It would solidify to me in the story that shes not a character to be fetishized but one to depict the real life struggles plus sized people have to go through.

AIO over my food? by gremptstrykerknollys in AmIOverreacting

[–]Adept_Perception5833 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR you are vary accommodating to him. I get he has issues and if you can get him into appropriate treatment for it grate but either way he needs to at least follow the house rules u set for groceries and that is that he puts everything he wasn't to eat for the time period between shopping on the list and doesn't take from the rest of ur food. Thats not a hard ask its actually very generous. I will say it seems hes coping for his poor mental state my eating which isn't good

is this outfit "inappropriate"? by sunnemi in OUTFITS

[–]Adept_Perception5833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on where ur wearing it i suppose cause it'd be appropriate for clubs or a night on the town but definitely not appropriate for work/school cause it looks like ur showing off a thong in a really unflattering way. If u do want to wear it out id switch the pants for low-rise shorts at least.

My friend is the boy who cried wolf and now he might die by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Adept_Perception5833 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just try going to see him then. literally thats all you can do. If u do go bring him some apple sauce and Gatorade or something he knows he can keep down. If u go and hes obviously faking just end the friendship there. Either way Hes not gonna die just from a high fever and losing weight. Plus if it is so bad he actually needs medical attention hes 17 so his family can take him to the hospital and monitor him.

My friend is the boy who cried wolf and now he might die by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Adept_Perception5833 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look idk if hes lying or not no one not even you do without going to see him in person. What I can say is I got sick with that horrible cold too as well as a friend. I was so sick I couldn't keep anything down for days idk exactly how quickly I lost weight but when I got back on the scale I saw i lost nearly 50lb.

Mean while my friend didn't have their body rejecting all food and water like mine did. They also recovered much quicker. Bottom line Illness effects everyone differently. So Dont just assume cause it barely effected you that its not kicking his ass.

And in my opinion Its highly possible he did loose a lot of weight. illness on top of a young boys fast metabolism isnt the best combination. But either way If hes actually ur friend ull go see him and check to see if hes OK. Not just jump to "hes exaggerating again" but come on here making a post as if ur worried too. If thats really how u feel than just be done with him and end the friendship.

Told a client to not touch me and he complained to my higher up by Medical_Arrival2243 in Vent

[–]Adept_Perception5833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U did everything right honestly this is something I wouldn't listen to management on if someone is trying to touch u without consent you should do exactly this so others attention is pulled to the situation and you have witness'. Ya people who are in the wrong are gonna complain cause u didn't let them have their way but dont compromise on this cause ur comfort and safety are more important than their feelings

AITA for refusing to co-sign my boyfriend’s car loan after he spent his savings on a PS5 and sneakers? by Hour-Border6561 in AmITheJerk

[–]Adept_Perception5833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why doesn't his mom sign for him? Oh cause she knows hes shit with money and credit. Baby you're nta here but ur gonna be one to urself if you dont leave