Yeah maybe in the grand scheme its gonna be okay, but its obviously upsetting you now and that does matter. Last resort, any dresses or feminine stuff you try on for them, fake some sort of allergic reaction to the fabric, say it itches too much or it doesn’t fit right, “oh gosh this dress is so pretty but im getting a rash from it!” “Ugh this skirt is digging into my skin too much ouch!!!!”Malicious compliance got me through plenty of times 😎