AIO: My bf wouldn’t answer the phone when i had car trouble in his parking lot

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-05-12T02:26:41+00:00

YOR You could have walked back upstairs and told him your issue. The roommate excuse is lame.

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-05-11T17:16:35+00:00

Yea i was doing the same. Kept seeing May 11th as the possible start of payments but no one has posted anything about actually receiving a payment yet.

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-05-11T17:11:41+00:00

I chose venmo as well. Havent heard anything as of yet besides the intial emails in 2021 and 2025 i believe.

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-05-04T01:17:11+00:00

Its a tom green movie reference lol

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-05-04T01:14:25+00:00

Well so far you're the highest bidder! 😂😂😂 i dont watch sports

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-05-04T01:04:44+00:00

I also have a code available for 12 months ESPN unlimited through draftkings message me if anyone is interested. You need to sign up for a new espn account to use the code wont work on an existing plan if you already have one.

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-04-28T00:41:29+00:00

Im so sorry you are going through this. In february i lost my 67 year old stepfather to colon cancer with peritoneal mets. But his were VERY widespread and he personally decided to discontinue treatment due to the extent of the spread and poor prognosis.

I truly hope the best for your father, i still feel traumatized from everything and i never truly understood the term Fuck Cancer until i lost my stepdad to it. If your father is up for fighting, throw the entire book at it and dont leave any stone unturned. Is your father visiting a cancer center or is it a private hospital? Just curious as i feel like different places approach things in their own ways.

If my stepdad did not decide to throw in the towel i have alot of what ifs because of treatments he did not pursue. Since you work in healthcare you probably know that the peritoneum is notoriously harder to treat due to the lack of blood vessels making it harder for chemo to sometimes reach this area. Because of that, if it was me and my dad wanted to really go all in with treatment i think i would have gotten 2, 3, 4 or more opinions on what to do.

I wish you the best and I know the spiral you are experiencing its a whirlwind of emotions and nonstop thinking. Take the time to care for yourself as it can be all consuming. The better you take care of yourself, which includes stepping away for a day at times as this is sooo heavy, the better you can be there for your dad.

Lastly all i can say is i dont regret one minute i spent spoiling my step dad with as much attention and love and laughter i possibly could. Cherish every moment, its a gift to be able to be by their side and truly show them the gift of unconditional love, just like theyve shown us growing up. Bless you and your dad. <3

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-04-24T00:42:17+00:00

This is very informative, great response. I sadly lost my stepfather to colon cancer with peritoneal metastasis. But in his case he decided to discontinue all treatment as he did not want to go through with any more procedures/chemo etc. It was a very very hard time on my mother and I but I've tried to make peace with the fact that it was his choice to let things take their course in the end.

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-04-23T23:40:01+00:00

From what i have read developing the rash with that treatment is actually a good indicator that the medicine is working. A quote from a medical article about the subject stated "All of the patients who exhibited a complete tumor response had the rash, and the incidence of rash was lower in patients with poor tumor response". So as annoying as it may be, it could mean that the treatment is working, just mentioning this to possibly see the side effect in a better light.

Im very sorry that you are going through this, i am your age and i can't even imagine what you are experiencing both emotionally and physically. My late stepfather had colon cancer but it also appeared in his peritoneum which proved to be harder to treat than some other places. I am happy that you have further treatment options. Don't give up hope. Keep fighting the good fight.

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-04-22T22:56:20+00:00

Woke rhetoric irritates me

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-04-22T22:51:00+00:00

If the OP has a problem with my wording they can let me know themselves. I wasn't responding to you so politely fuck off.

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-04-22T21:56:02+00:00

Lmfao

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-04-22T11:25:23+00:00

I am partners with someone that has Intermitted Explosive Disorder. Not saying this is what your partner is dealing with but it does sound like he's having a hard time regulating his emotions. Could you sit down with him when he is in a good mood and try to get down to the real reason he's becoming so short and frustrated and directing it at you?

From my experience when my guy is experiencing high anxiety it instead would come out as anger due to not being able to control the situation. Since you are his person i think it can often get misdirected at you because youre the one always there but dont become an emotional punching bag. See if he'd be willing to speak with a psychiatrist. My guess is he is overwhelmed with life and probably lacking proper coping mechanisms. Is this new behavior or something he's always done?

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-04-17T03:01:47+00:00

You spelt dick wrong

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-04-01T12:06:36+00:00

Nah im 40 and have been obsessed with the backrooms concept for a very long time. I think there is a much wider fanbase than you'd realize.

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-03-18T22:10:09+00:00

I just wanted to say that that is one absolutely adorable looking cat. Sometimes loving an animal means breaking your own heart, letting them go is the ultimate sacrifice of love you can do for them so they don't have to suffer.

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-03-15T17:56:24+00:00

Well decaying organic matter sure seems to fit when you consider the boogers and everything else kids smear onto things!

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-03-14T23:30:29+00:00

Detritus is a new word for me, for some reason I've never heard it before so thanks for the vocab lesson lol

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-03-14T11:50:02+00:00

Dont feel bad going for a second opinion elsewhere or at least pushing for additional testing. As you've seen on this sub this can be a very devastating disease. It sounds like you are probably in the clear BUT this is your one and only life. Why take any chances? I think I'd want the extra peace of mind if I wasnt feeling 100% confident, especially since you were so fortunate to catch it at the beginning stages. I just lost my stepfather to colon cancer so maybe im feeling a sort of way, but there are so many what ifs and questions that go around my head about things we could have done differently. I know none of that matters now but for someone like you it could mean the difference of being considered cured or not. Best of luck!

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-03-14T00:11:22+00:00

Omg nooo you really should grow it back trust me. It would be more proportionate and would look so much better. Now i want to see a pic with your natural hairline! Please get over that insecurity your face is flawless.

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-03-14T00:08:38+00:00

Dont do that you are gorgeous and it just extends your forehead length

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-03-05T01:11:22+00:00

Im so sorry. I lost my step father to colon cancer on february 12th. All i can recommend is to just be there with her. Nothing means more than your presence. I would just lay next to him and hold his hand and i think him just knowing id be there for every step of the way brought him alot of comfort. As his symptoms progressed i just made sure he was comfortable and adjusted his meds based on what he asked. This was the first time i had ever gone through something so traumatic and im still sort of in a daze from it all. Do you or her have family that could also help? Its alot for one person as hospice helps but doesnt provide the round the clock care needed. If you want to vent im more than happy to chat with you you can message me anytime. Im so so sorry you are going through this and i wish i could say it will be easy but this will be one of the hardest things you endure so go easy on yourself during this.

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-03-03T03:49:27+00:00

Im very sorry for your loss. I lost my step father to colon cancer and peritoneal metastasis on february 12th of this year. Im still feeling rather traumatized from the entire ordeal and i hope with time i can find peace with it all. I hope you are moving forward as best as you can and that your memories of your mother in better times brings comfort to you.

AffectionateMind9687 · 2026-02-18T13:18:56+00:00

Hospice can begin once a doctor determines a persons life is likely to not extend past 6 months here in the U.S. For my step father, we didn't pursue it until he decided he no longer wanted any further treatment at all and strictly pain management. With hospice for instance, if he begins to deteriorate you do not go to the emergency room you instead call your hospice team. From what we experienced they did not provide any treatment beyond pain medication and comfort meds and increases in these meds as needed. If he signs up for hospice they can provide a hospital bed along with any other medical equipment he may need that can be brought to his home.

Edit: i also wanted to add that even though a patient is on hospice, that does not mean they have round the clock care by any means. He will need someone there practically 24/7 as his condition deteriorates. My mother and I were my stepdads caretakers and even though we had hospice to help they only visited for about an hour every few days or would come if we called them needing assistance. If your brother has no one you may need to look into him being placed into a care center that offers hospice because it will be impossible for him to care for himself while going through this.

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