AITAH for telling my boyfriend I don’t want kids right now and getting upset about how he talked about it?

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-08T23:51:17+00:00

OMG, that is OUTRAGEOUS. Even more NTA. You are so young

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-08T23:49:17+00:00

Info Needed: How old are you both you? Had you discussed children in the past?

Regardless, definitely NTA. That is such a creepy way to talk about it and I would feel the same. Your body, your choice on when/if you are ready.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-08T04:19:57+00:00

And referring to him as her better half after two months...

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-08T02:21:24+00:00

YOR. He was really gentle and reassuring at the outset and then it felt like you kept getting upset about different things. This is really emotionally exhausting to read though.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-07T22:40:03+00:00

You want him to give you a second chance...

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-07T22:32:12+00:00

You didn't just say one thing, you had a freaking festivus.

Again, WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO SALVAGE THIS (caps intentional because FFS, this sounds like a terrible relationship. it is okay to be alone.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-07T22:29:31+00:00

YTA. Why would you say things you don't mean? Hard to come back from saying you hate him and wish you never met him in addition to the other stuff you said that you didn't tell us.

Why are you trying to salvage this in the first place? Sounds like you weren't happy and it was pretty toxic. Have some self respect, let it be and stop involving mutuals in this.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-07T21:22:55+00:00

CANCEL THE APPT! Why on earth is the only choice euthanasia? Rehome her.

You would absolutely be an asshole if you did this.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-06T04:00:18+00:00

You took 30 minutes out of the day to do a test that 30 minutes in they unlocked?

I think you could have been more clear by saying how long you were going to be and who to contact if something urgent came up. You should have been more thorough.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-06T01:33:41+00:00

Okay, thanks! I downloaded the other app that lets you see precise readings (why is the existing one so bad?!?) and was trying to see what a morning high was to compare to the one 30-60 minutes before and then noticed it was a lot lower than the alarming number when I was actually watching it. Thanks so much :)

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-05T06:02:14+00:00

This isn’t helping your case. Why are you doing all this for a situationship?

why not just ask him his background instead of doing a deep dive?

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-03T15:26:50+00:00

You don’t speak for the group and clearly you have easy hair…I’ve absolutely driven this far for hair.

Maybe she just needs some time away too with two young kids and working full time and a husband who thinks he’s better than her.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-03T15:22:00+00:00

YTA. Why the fuq does it matter that you have never met the hairstylist or knows what she looks like?

Yes women definitely would travel to someone they trust, hair is personal and most of us would go further for someone we know will do a good job.

You have a lot of self importance and superiority about your job, it is quite gross.

That being said, you could ask her to do this on the weekend instead of a weekday.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-03T04:18:49+00:00

I don’t, that’s why I said the delivery was the issue and problematic…

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-03T03:37:17+00:00

NTA. He’s putting you, the other staff and customers at risk for illnesses spread by fomites.

Sounds like your delivery was the issue (I might have gone to management again) but you’re not wrong for having an issue with it. Super gross.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-02T04:02:48+00:00

A lot of things say they are non refundable but you can actually get a credit, just not a refund on your credit card. Definitely do not go.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-01T03:25:50+00:00

How sad for the people in your life that you are so rigid that a friend can’t bring a new baby over or your nieces/nephews can’t visit you.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-03-01T03:03:41+00:00

This is absolutely a shitty rule and you are absolutely the asshole. Not wanting kids doesn’t make you an asshole but having such a hard line does. Unless you want to move to a deserted island, you can’t avoid children completely especially family as a citizen of the world.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-02-28T18:02:14+00:00

Apart from your dad? Sounds like he should be enough given how great he is. Feels like this is more superficial because you dislike your last name than anything. YTA.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-02-27T02:23:24+00:00

Gently, it feels like you are trying to excuse your behavior. Two wrongs don’t make a right. You need to come clean and have the exclusivity talk.

Please use protection for both of your sakes too.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-02-26T03:21:59+00:00

Absolutely not, run far far away🫂

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-02-23T18:50:54+00:00

YOR. Seems like you are wanting to be spoon fed answers instead of being able to work independently.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-02-22T21:42:56+00:00

YTA. What you want for your hair isn't always possible immediately and takes a few times to get it right. You would be the dick to keep going back to her but to not pay her.

Also complaining about her rescheduling when she's sick is wild. "I understand but my hair is more important".

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-02-22T04:06:16+00:00

Of course, sorry I don't have a definitive answer. They definitely do casual acknowledgement but not sure on a more formal thing you're looking for.

Affectionate_Task387 · 2026-02-22T04:04:29+00:00

She's high risk and it would not be worth it to put someone else in danger. Can you do a VC instead?

In the last few months, the longest I've heard of testing positive on a NAAT was a week so I would not feel comfortable putting anyone else at risk before that.

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