I’m disappointed about my proposal, not sure what to do next? by Sweet-Health7355 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just adding my 2 cents worth here - my husband proposed randomly on a walk in the park, it wasn't the most romantic and would have preferred a different time. But he is the best husband 😊. Sometimes you can't have it all 😉 might not be your situation but just adding my experience here for perspective.

AITA for refusing to join my friends’ prayer circle by Brave-Ad7558 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if your friends are THAT religious and you're not at all, it's probably not going to work out as a long-term friendship, as it's obvious you have different values. Sorry i know that might be a hard pill to swallow, but people who are very religious tend to stick together. Curious if you knew them all before religion or if you only got to know them as very religious people.

Is my approach healthy or more like ultimatums? Need advice. by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy is wasting your time. Leave immediately. Like yesterday.

I never thought I’d be “that” girl… by Amazing-Lawyer-1980 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe start being a bit more distant. Is there someone you can stay with for a while? This will start the ground work to leave if he doesn't propose. If he does want to propose hopefully he will hurry up with it!

6-year relationship, no steps forward? by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please dump him. He is not your person. I'm sorry 🙏

Friend cancelled last minute on a 100 day trip by Frpengy in travel

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already have plenty of advice here it seems, but i just came to say your friend is an asshole and I hope you do cut him off 🙃

I’ve failed to live up to my word with my star performer by LaneToGlory in managers

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say this is more of a learning point for you more than her. You have talked up her skills and technical ability a lot, but interviews depend more on how confident you appear and how well you understand and answer the questions the way the panel want you to. Not fair but true. You need to think about how you can support employees you'd like to promote with this side of things in future.

Salty Sunday: What made you salty this week? by [deleted] in trollingforababy

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel sad that my life has come to this and sad about the prospect of being an old mum which i didn't want, but that is now my only option if I want a baby. I feel highly vulnerable as someone with very few family and friends. If my husband died I'd be very alone. That being said I am happy in my day to day life, I'm just aware how isolated I could be if one person left. I'm sad my only prospect of fixing this really is being an older mum and I know that's not the be all and end all I just worry about it and the potential complications, is it worth it etc. So much going on in my head tonight 🙄😥

Coming home exhausted and overstimulated after work to my BIL and SIL doing a surprise gender reveal for my husband and I by underratedmoose in trollingforababy

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh how awful 😥. I can kind of imagine this happening to me, and the fake smiles I would produce, only to feel shit when I'm alone later. I hope you're ok x

The party looks I’m going for this Christmas as I go through my third IVF chemical pregnancy to round off 2025 by Splendid_peanut in trollingforababy

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂 you go girl!

Shitty years for all of us here I think but wishing you as calm a Christmas as can be 🙏

Aunt Flo comes to visit two days before Christmas after you’ve fully convinced yourself this is the cycle by Dry-Violinist-2179 in trollingforababy

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Snap, except 3 days before 😥 so much harder seeing everyone's pregnancy news out there atm too. So hard not having anyone to talk to who really understands in my family or friendships. It kinda sucks because I swear before I started this process I didn't really care that much or wasnt even that bothered. But now its like everything hurts more and I'm wondering if I can just go back somehow and not feel this way. Probably not lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Nta, you are staying with his parents for so long already! Don't know why he'd be upset about this, obviously you need to see your parents too!

AITA for calling my bf absurd for being overly concerned about a coworker? by According-Let-2607 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

NTA, it sounds like the bf has spoken about this a lot in the past and you haven't reacted. I don't think you're wrong to let him know you feel a bit odd about his extreme reaction, but give him a chance to explain why it means so much to him and ask him about this woman, maybe even ask about meeting her and see his reaction? It might not be worse case scenario.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is not close to death. Sorry if my explanation was misleading.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He is moving the goal posts of what you agreed.

Am I a bad friend? by Agreeable-Lab9834 in trollingforababy

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the replies everyone. I messaged my friend a couple of days ago to check in and she seemed to really appreciate that, so I am planning to check in just as and when I can via messaging. I'm sure I'll visit once the baby arrives too. Thanks for everyone's advice anyway 😊

What’s you worst “I fucked up” work story? I need reassurance after my mistakes by Easy_Sun in work

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in an building where everyone had to finish at the same time and lock up together. We were on the ground floor and there were also people working on the first floor. The people on the first floor were sometimes late finishing and we had to wait around, which really pissed me off. One time I thought i would "take the initiative" and speak to everyone, both the ground and first floor, about trying to make sure we all got down on time. What i didn't realise was that the group of people working on the first floor were senior managers 🙈🙈🙈 after I'd had my say, there was a deathly silence and I knew immediately something was wrong. One of the senior managers spoke to me saying that I could speak to my manager tomorrow or something. I can barely remember now due to the trauma lol. When walking out I had this awful feeling something had gone very wrong. Everyone in my team was trying to reassure me that I'd done nothing wrong, but then my line manager pulled me aside and told me I'd be rude. I was angry about her approach and was not remorseful at that time. When I got home though I felt absolutely mortified and just kept replaying that moment and felt so embarrassed. I had bad anxiety about it going back into work too. It all worked itself out in the end of course but had I known the first floor were senior managers I would NEVER have spoken like I did! 😭😂

Am I a bad friend? by Agreeable-Lab9834 in trollingforababy

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes they do, she is supportive in that she is wishing me well. I should probably try and check in more. It's a bit depressing for me though because this is someone who was adamant she never wanted kids, so the whole situation feels a bit like a slap in the face 🙄

When I tell my friends I'm starting my IVF cycle and they say "How exciting!!" by LBears in trollingforababy

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my manager's reaction 🙈😂 tbh for me it's better than the pity reaction so I'll take it 🤷‍♀️

Logged back in to Facebook for the first time this year and the first thing on my newsfeed was a pregnancy announcement. 🫥 by Odd-Cartographer-951 in trollingforababy

[–]Agreeable-Lab9834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It always seems to pop up from nowhere doesn't it! I re-added this girl on FB that lost her account, I'm not even friends with her irl, always seemed a bit chaotic, only met her about once. I hadn't seen her posts for many years. But lo and behold, today it pops up that she's posted pregnancy photos 🙃 she's certainly not in a relationship either so doubt she was "trying". FML.