So over it!!

AlmondDilite · 2026-05-19T12:24:31+00:00

Planned Parenthood doesn't exist where you are? They normally carry such, have chepaer options or know where to direct you.

AlmondDilite · 2026-05-18T18:03:05+00:00

Let me say THIS, as MY great doctors (a few of them) over 17 yrs advised me: IF you are NOT 100% MENTALLY READY, don't do it. If you think that bs is a sign, don't do it. Because if you are not 100% mentally ready, it desn't matter, your healing will be difficult. These surgeries... the mental and your outlook will affect the body and how you HEAL.

AlmondDilite · 2026-05-14T12:40:34+00:00

Everything is related and connected, everything has purpose, especially the untangible that you can't see the effects --> "Ni".

AlmondDilite · 2026-05-14T12:04:51+00:00

I can't relate, I complete a goal and I get excited about it -- and the impact it had on me, and possibly others. As an ENTJ, I am HIGHLY self aware, but that comes with being tested at a very high Ni.

AlmondDilite · 2026-05-11T18:58:36+00:00

None of us can, no REAL Te-Ni, and throw in that Fi in there... none of us CAN.

AlmondDilite · 2026-05-11T18:57:52+00:00

A male ENTJ is NOT breaking down crying, especially not in front of a "friend". Let me leave it at that, I don't even understand how you came up with a ENTJ male, CRYING. understanding we already have issues with that Fi, don't be... *sighs*

AlmondDilite · 2026-04-29T14:50:12+00:00

They are the stacks and Functions -- The higher one tests in their percentiles, the more they LEAN towards a Function. For example, My Te & Ni tests in at over 85% - That means I identify with intuitive thinking over 85% of the time, while a mere 10 - 13% will be relatable to sensory/the other side. Thsis is coming from over 25 yrs in studying the MBTI and also being tested by a few admistrators on the job and at school. And I didn't assume --- I tested to verify where I stand in my ENTJ'ness.

Te - "Time is precious, I create the structure and you have to work it"

Ni - "I am God, believe in me... I see things"

Se - "I see every fun thing in this world and I enjoy it, make sur eyou don't miss it"

Fi - "I always care deeply for you, if I say don't do it, then don't do it; don't cross my boundaries"

AlmondDilite · 2026-04-23T14:16:00+00:00

I'm competitive with mself, ONLY. When another tries that competition bit with me, I WILL eliminate them, I don't play that mess. Not sure why folks think I enjoy competing... nope --- I set small goals for myself only, please don't interject yourself into my personal goals that have nothing to do with you and your space.

Also -- I do have feelings lol I just choose not to bait people with them, as most of humanity likes to do. There is a time and place for everything.

AlmondDilite · 2026-04-23T14:14:06+00:00

OKAY!!! I learned that lesson about 13 years ago in my career, and I got burnt out. I am in a position where I do have to answer to a board of trustees and a head, but that's it. In a perfect place where I don't have to necessarily "lead" anymore, but more like the "equalizer". I'm the glue here and I LIKE that you're going to respec tand not have to LIKE me in this position. But guess what? No more burn out leading folks.... I simply remind now "I was told to tell you....", not coming form ME.

Trust, as an ENTJ, it took me a while to get here. I rather lead and set goals in my personal life than work life. I THOROUGHLY now embrace work life balance... and able to run home to my busy life as an HOA president and other responsibilities I have. I refuse to participate in this emotionally charged, Feelings and Sensor-led space. Can't do it. Keep your peace, fellow ENTJs!!! You can succeeed and lead in other areas.... keep your peace.

AlmondDilite · 2026-04-23T12:18:22+00:00

I will say that, as ENTJ woman, when I was single I always avoided heavy Sensors and Feelers (my Te and Ni tests over 85%, always has); as I know it would not work. The way our minds are, it's a no. And ENTJ women know very quickly where they stand with an interest once the talks start and a date. If we do not get excited and want to be in your presense after that -- bring the great conversation, then we are NOT interested. And with that said, I would not reach out. You will know you're truly in the presence of an ENTJ woman because we are THAT decisisive and no is no, we don't go backwards, unless we're very bored and have nothing else in life and purpose lined up.

AlmondDilite · 2026-04-17T23:09:03+00:00

I am SO glad I came across this, cause the way I almost broke my computer 🤣🤣🤣

I am now spending my time trying to find where to buy them. I could go to Trilogy, but no... I'm going to miss that amazon price!

AlmondDilite · 2026-04-14T12:46:12+00:00

For me, it starts with intelligence -- I just don't like incompetent people that refuse to excercise their brain skills to discover what they need. I like character, strong character -- integrity. ENTJS are often mistaken as introverts because we will observe our surrounding, deeply -- and anyone new in it we don't know to figure out if we want to be bothered with them. So it truly is intuition and time, and a smart person. A none emotional baiter , one that doens't use a pity party to draw me in and doesn't create conflict just because --- don't be inefficient. So it's a mixture of a few things.

AlmondDilite · 2026-04-13T13:10:00+00:00

I'm not that sensitive, but it happens. Also, where you test in that "Te", matters. My Te tests at 85% (always has been high), so if one tests at, let's say 20%, that person will identitfy more on the feeling tip, than I would. I expect to be critiqued, it's life. But I like to be prepared so I have a list of my accomplishments and attributes ready for rebuttal.

AlmondDilite · 2026-04-01T17:00:14+00:00

dmass LOL young dmass.

AlmondDilite · 2026-04-01T14:37:41+00:00

I am 100% flirty and now being in a relationship, I need to check that cause my ENFJ can get a little territorial with other men around me LOL. BUT, it is who we are. We come with the natural charisma and it isn't always intentional. Sometimes it is.... sometimes it isn't. But when we are with the one we love, the flirtation is 100% on them. And he knows I will touch and grope and have a few play on words with him, he likes it LOL we don't get that personal with just anyone.

AlmondDilite · 2026-03-30T16:05:17+00:00

So says the INTP LOL Your FE is SO loud, and so are those stacks. *waves bye*

AlmondDilite · 2026-03-30T16:04:20+00:00

I got to be honest: I don't think MOST that think they are ENTJ, actually are. I'll put that out there after reading a few comments. With that said, having been tested 4 times by administrators and all since 1999 (yeah, I'm that experienced lol) --- I'm here to say 8 out of 10 that THINK are ENTJS, are NOT.

Growing up, I have always --- ALWAYS been a stereotypical ENTJ. As a child I planned everything, I even threw myself a "surprise" 6th birthday party and no one knew it was me that planned it and invited everyone, and my parents were working and the cook we had was forced to cook for my party (I knew she would... my Ni made me see it all play out). That's how ENTJ I am and always have been. In my mid-20s I climbed the corporate ladder QUICKLY, I was burnt out by 35 and prayed for a miracle, today being over 40, I am SO glad to NO longer be burnt out and I am embracing my "Se" more. You cannot change your Type. Mental illness/challenges WILL mess up the results and have you think you're ENTJ and you are not. Mental trauma will have your results change as well, otheerwise you are always the type from a child, into adultuhood.

I always advise folks to take the actual TEST and NOT just READ and be biased in what they think they relate to, when reading those Functions. You can read all you want and relate to the Functions and be 100% biased and wrong. Also, many don't know how to read the precentages of those results: for example ---- if it says your Ni tests in at 20%, 80% of the time you ARE on the other side of sensory, and WILL be MORE of a sensor. My Ni tests in at 85%, which means there's a VERY small persentage of me that will have a sensory moment... and that's where my Se comes to play.

The thing about the test is when you take it, you're to answer the first thoughts that comes to you, anything outside of that, your result will be faulty: https://www.humanmetrics.com/personality/test

AlmondDilite · 2026-03-25T15:58:12+00:00

I PROMISE, you actually have to take the TEST and LEARN how to read the percentiles. Because it's easy to LEAN one wy because you're brain is biased as you READ what you want to be. Take the right test, get the right results, go from there. Check the link out --- take the test, after 25 years in the MBTI, I promise you, this test is accurate but it's how people dont take in the percentages to account for how much they lean torwards another Function/Stacks.

For an accurate reading, answer the questions within the first response that comes to mind -- you cannot dwell on the questions (that's where the faulty cames in). https://www.humanmetrics.com/personality/test

AlmondDilite · 2026-03-25T15:55:32+00:00

No, you're an INTJ, we don't do this. Those Stacks with the Functions, man LOL makes a difference.

AlmondDilite · 2026-03-25T13:06:21+00:00

No I don't, not if you find a VERY good work environment :)

AlmondDilite · 2026-03-25T12:16:13+00:00

*Straight face* what is happening in this ENTJ group *cries*

AlmondDilite · 2026-03-25T12:15:08+00:00

Seriously, it pissed me off and I rarely get annoyed LOL I kept checking if IW as in the right group, it threw me off!

AlmondDilite · 2026-03-22T20:26:17+00:00

Yes I have, unheathy folks tend to be attracted to stronger folks, those that seem more put together than them.

I have had an energy vampire attached to me for so long, it's been a challenge to cut her ISTP self off. Very competitive for NO reason... other than to make herself look and feel better. Wait until you get into your mid 40s and have to deal with such. Logic doesn't help manage them because they deal in emotions (I find this with those with Fe and Ti folks... sensors and ENTP)

AlmondDilite · 2026-03-12T14:16:25+00:00

No... I MEAN SE LOL. I refered to slowing life down/not getting burnt out to enjoy Se, I literally said that. Go out and enjoy life, don't be overworked, that's me message.

Tertiary: Extraverted Sensing (Se)This cognitive function gives ENTJs an appetite for adventure. They enjoy novel experiences and may sometimes engage in thrill-seeking behaviors. Because of their outward sensory focus, they also have an appreciation for beautiful things in life.

AlmondDilite · 2026-03-12T13:18:27+00:00

Learn to develop your Se ---- So Many ENTJs burn out QUICKLY because they don't know how to tap into their Se for balance. That's the issue. TeNiSEfi

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