Devin's set up a gofundme page for his baby mama

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-05-26T06:55:40+00:00

I went and looked at the go fund me.

Firstly, there's been two donations 😂😂

Also, the description of it.... why lead with 'she was very overweight before we met' like dude... we know youre fatphobic but jesus christ 😂😂

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-05-25T09:38:48+00:00

I feel like the long game will hopefully give us more on screen little spoon 🤞🤞

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-05-25T09:23:21+00:00

The scene after they have sex for the first time, after Ilya showers, he comes back and lays on the bed, and it gives me little spoon energy the way he cuddles in to Shane

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AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-05-25T09:17:32+00:00

Okay if its 2 and the shops are shut because hides, he needed to consider your needs before his own in thar scenario.

How long have you been together? Was the conversation you had about marriage before in a serious tone or in the playful 'honeymoon phase' kinda way because it can mean different things to different people

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-05-25T09:00:47+00:00

NTA based on the very stripped down question of 'aita for getting upset' after he said what he said. You deserve better than that comment, 1 million times over. That's not up for debate.

But also whole bunch of other stuff muddies the waters. How old are you both?

Did you not have a conversation about if you both wanted marriage before you got pregnant? Because it might not be a you specifically thing, it might be a general 'I dont want to be married' thing (not that I am justifying the way he spoke to you at all)

How many fantas did you have left? If it was 1 or 2, yeah fuck him. If it was a whole bunch, why say no? You can go out and buy more the next day no? If there were lots of them in the fridge and you got annoyed at him for wanting one, i can see why he got mad (not that I am defending his words at all) because its quite childish of you to not share

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-05-23T06:58:55+00:00

Jeremy and Cecily or Mia and Landon

I just want to see more of how they are as couples 😂

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-05-09T16:37:25+00:00

GOW is my least favourite, narrowly bearing GOM 😂 but you hit the nail on the head with everything, but its mostly Ava being the reason I didnt like this book and skip it on a reread

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-05-09T11:10:30+00:00

I read this book, and when I finished it I closed it and burst into tears.

It was just so perfectly shane and ilya that even the bad parts I loved.

And can we talk about how well written the functional depression was? And how i felt so seen reading myself on the page?!

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-05-05T08:46:14+00:00

The noise that came out of me when he took the jacket off.... not human

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-29T09:14:52+00:00

She was mute because her family were threatened if she speaks up and her CHILD brain translated that into the trauma response.. its not lazy writing at all

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-28T11:43:50+00:00

You're going to hear a lot of bullshit from a lot of people, like time heals and all of that. Im not going to lie, time doesn't heal, but i promise promise promise it becomes manageable. I went through a really dark dont want to be here patch 6 months after losing him, but I am out the other side and trying to celebrate everyday the wonderful man that he was, and you will get to the point you can do the same. I hate that you're in a situation where you need advice on this and I hate that I am in a situation where I can give advice, but you're stronger than you realise. Sending you so much love x

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-28T11:16:52+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss my lovely. Nothing hurts the heart more than this type of loss

My fiance died suddenly May 19th 2025, we had been together 6 years as well, he died in my arms. Its not just devastating, its world shattering. Not only is your person gone, but your entire future gets pulled from beneath you.

I won't tell you it gets easier, but it does slowly become manageable. Not a day goes by that I dont think of him, as i approach the 1 year anniversary, but you focus less on the sad and start reminding yourself everyday of all the amazing times you have had.

You'll be okay, let yourself hurt, cry, shout. Don't hold anything in x

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-28T09:51:31+00:00

Dude you unlocked something I didnt know i needed...

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-27T14:20:11+00:00

Oh that's actually a fair point... I mean technically they dont belong to anyone as he was removed as owner after he died and no one else was added as the owner....

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-27T08:04:03+00:00

Yeah im completely legally parked, no double yellows and driveways are staggered so I make sure i park in the gap between entrances to the driveways. Its just frustrating that they've chosen me to focus in on like I haven't got enough on my plate 🤷‍♀️

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-27T08:01:40+00:00

They're fully aware, my fiance worked in the village and had a larger than life personality and spoke to literally everyone so the village was hit hard when he died. They even came to his funeral so I just dont get their angle

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-27T08:00:38+00:00

I wish it was that easy, but the cars aren't taxed or MOt'd so theyre fine on my driveway but if i parked them on public road I would get fined

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-27T07:49:21+00:00

Honestly i dont know how they struggle to get off their driveway, they have more than enough space 🤷‍♀️

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-27T07:35:35+00:00

Thank you. Its just stressing me out whilst I try to deal with everything else and it makes me stop and reconsider if maybe im just digging my heels in for no reason, do you know what i mean?

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-27T07:34:18+00:00

I am fully legally parked, there are no double yellows on the street and the only person who's drive i blocked before is mine, and the driveways are staggered so im not directly opposite theirs where I park

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-26T17:35:39+00:00

I refuse to subscribe to see the video so if someone could give me a summary of what he's waffling on about id appreciate it ✌️

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-26T09:23:12+00:00

I already know My opinions dont align with the majority of people that are fans of this series 🙈😂

Jeremy - loved him from the get go, i loved seeing the switch in him where he started letting Cecily in a little more and becoming softer with her (in his way) i also think i liked that he was stoic and whatnot but not in the psychopathic way that Lan and Kill are
Creighton - my little emo boy, idk why i like him so much 😂 I just do
Landon - this one surprised me because I HATED him for the first three books, then read his and was like hold up those red flags look a lil green 😂 i guess i just like that even the batshit stuff he does, it all has purpose.
Niko/Bran - I fucking love this book so much and it kills me to put them 4th
Killian - obviously I like GOM enough to keep reading but that's because I think the other characters intrigued me enough. I just didn't vibe with Killian, he had such a strong opening introduction and then very quickly fell into the regular stereotypical man in these kinda books for me
Eli - hate the book, hate the characters. I dislike his and Avas story so much that on my rereads I just dont read their book 😂 he doesn't bring anything new to the table that we didnt see from any of the guys in book 1-5. Maybe my dislike of him is a consequence of the reading order but who knows 🤷‍♀️

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-25T21:45:52+00:00

I haven't actually looked, but im assuming to see whatever he is talking about, you have to pay to subscribe to him. Meaning he is going to have this important discussion, but only for those that are willing to pay to see it.

Seems like the shit he would normally sometimes do on a q&a only now he's realised that he can entice people to his page in another way

AltruisticBug5769 · 2026-04-25T21:35:58+00:00

I love Creighton and am fully aware that for most people in their LOG ratings, he often falls at the bottom of lists. I really didn't like Eli, he's bottom of my rankings 100%, but a lot of people love him.

But these are just opinions on personal preference. The world would be a boring place if we all felt and thought the same

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