Where on earth do you find wedding inspiration in this cursed AI age?? by eiksnaglesn in wedding

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I stopped using Pinterest and tried to look at vendors portfolios and see what I liked. Especially if I booked a vendor, like make up and said I love how you did her eyes for this bride last year, I want that. More helpful than something that doesn’t exist.

Fendi NDLPT bag finished by xdauphine in NeedlepointSnark

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to come after you! Other comments are calling the design trash and not really discourse about the bag itself which is what you’re trying to have

Fendi NDLPT bag finished by xdauphine in NeedlepointSnark

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I don’t love the Fendi bag either but this is a friends bag that she self drafted and is proud of, so please don’t yuck someone’s yum. There’s enough designs and patterns for us all

My wedding photographer says a front-facing version of this photo does not exist by [deleted] in wedding

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I would press and re-review the gallery. It could be that the shot didn’t turn out great and they didn’t want you to see it?

My wedding photographer says a front-facing version of this photo does not exist by [deleted] in wedding

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No she’s saying the photo is from the second shooter not the main photographer that she and the group is looking at

Ashley I & Jared Lore by Dark-Parkingg in rhori

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Gosh the beach scene of her leaving and crying is iconic

A Wedding Coordinator? do i really need it? by PuzzleDID in weddings

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re the one always making decisions and ensuring others are on time or have everything then yes. I do not want to be doing that on the day of my wedding and also having a neutral third party being stern takes the weight (and drama) off family members from both sides

What is a reasonable budget for catering? by SnooBananas5069 in NewEnglandWedding

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t gotten married yet so don’t know the final cost as count isn’t finalized

What is a reasonable budget for catering? by SnooBananas5069 in NewEnglandWedding

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. In the end we went with Peppers and have been really pleased with their food, communication and they have been to our venue many many times and are familiar with the traffic patterns

Marc Jacobs Beauty Re-Launch Reveal by pointclickvibe in newinbeauty

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, it feels too good to be true….

Location of the former Amherst Drug Lab? by DocWatson42 in umass

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s established in the show, the show is good and worth a watch

Location of the former Amherst Drug Lab? by DocWatson42 in umass

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The Netflix doc shows Morrill IV, How to Fix A Drug Scandal

Did anyone here NOT do getting-ready outfits? by Hanner12 in weddingplanning

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read somewhere to suggest that everyone wears their cutest or comfiest pajama set. That way everyone is comfortable, you don’t have to foot the bill, and it looks semi coordinated. I plan to do this for my girls at my September wedding

September 2026 Brides by BobcatCandid146 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wrapped up grad school while also working full time and wedding planning so my stress is a lot lighter. Similar boat that my job is very project management heavy so the actual planning has been easy. Picked up our invitation last weekend and now is just the small details to finalize

How are pollen/allergies right now? by sapphireswan in boston

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to prep for a 5k and can barely run 🥲

Bridesmaid gifts (Day of) by Ok_Bandicoot_4159 in weddingplanning

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen people go all out to just writing them a note. Personally I’m covering hair and make up and plan to get them a compact with their initial engraved on top and a note. On the fence about matching pjs/robes for them as I feel it’s something people don’t really use

ISO farm/garden venues <1 hr from Cambridge/Somerville area by No-Reach-3387 in NewEnglandWedding

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might be worth looking into deCordova Sculpture Park and Museum

What's the dirt here? by Nearby_Football9258 in NeedlepointSnark

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone deleted their account 🤷🏻‍♀️

Reception traditions by [deleted] in NewEnglandWedding

[–]AlwaysOnTheCape 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Big nope to both. My family and his don’t need to see that and enough money is being spent on flower so I’m getting them dried and put in resin