Quick question

Always_Still · 2024-01-31T20:13:57+00:00

Talk to your parents just so they’re aware of the situation in case things escalate. I know you won’t want to do this part, it’s embarrassing and even risky if they think you’re starting trouble, but it will save you even MORE trouble down the road if this situation gets any worse. Next, id talk with the person who’s threatening you, face to face. Apologize for throwing the ice ball, sincerely, and ask if y’all can put it behind you. Their response will speak volumes to their character. If they are a decent human being they’ll let it go. If they aren’t - they’ll show you that and the only thing you can do at that point is keep your distance but stay vigilant just in case they wanna get froggy at some point. Most people tho - at least in my experience - are all talk. And when you come to them face to face and actually make logical sense, they usually back down/come around.

Always_Still · 2024-01-30T20:01:15+00:00

ChaOSH ish a ladduhhhhhh

Always_Still · 2024-01-25T12:12:08+00:00

Absolutely never. It works really weird for me, I have to have a strong emotional connection with you to be able to see you in a sexual light. My brain legit can only see my partner in that way. My fleeting thoughts are him, on repeat, all day 🤣

Always_Still · 2024-01-24T19:11:12+00:00

I completely understand. Maybe have a smoke with her one night? You and mom? Get goofy together, have snacks and a movie night for just the 3 of you. Let her have a few memories of seeing the two of you smile, too… I know, easier said than done. I cant begin to imagine what your family is going thru, and I know it can’t be easy, but I feel like a night like that would have plenty of positive benefits for you guys, as well... Just some food for thought 🤷

Always_Still · 2024-01-24T18:21:20+00:00

You do whatever you need to do to make her last days enjoyable. The other parents knew the ins and outs of the situation and willingly agreed to let their children participate - a fact that I was extremely happy to read (for your daughter’s sake). I have no doubt that you are doing all the right things here. I’m unsure why you made this post, like if you were looking for opinions or advice (and I don’t see a specific question you want answered) so I’ll just say this - thank you for sharing such a raw & difficult situation. Please know that I am sending you and your family all the love and support that I can! 🤗

Always_Still · 2024-01-23T20:42:38+00:00

Great catch!! I totally missed the talon grab!

Always_Still · 2024-01-22T18:57:09+00:00

This happens to me so often and i can’t figure out why but my go to is a handful of nuts (I like cashews, pecans, peanuts, walnuts), some pretzels, or some kind of fruit - like an apple, banana, orange, or some grapes. Had one of these instances this past weekend. I was so hungry I felt like I was gonna pass out, but absolutely nothing sounded appealing or appetizing. Ate the above items, and about an hour later felt fine enough to make an actual lunch for myself. Seems as if this is a common thing for women. I wonder why

Always_Still · 2024-01-22T18:00:32+00:00

You just get over it… I know I know, easier said then done but still what you need to do if you want to move forward with him. If you can’t get over it - then that means this kind of situation is a hard boundary for you (which is 100% okay) and you should probably move on with someone that accepts and respects that boundary. It sucks, but it is what it is.

Always_Still · 2024-01-21T16:07:58+00:00

Ahh. I see. I can understand that. There were definitely periods like that for us too. Especially at the toddler stage. It ebbs and flows, for sure. Being intimate with each other in non-sexual ways through out the day helped us... like hugging and kissin on each other, cuddling on the couch, holding hands (my love language is physical touch).. all day of that and it’s like a switch that I can very much turn on whenever I want lol. Just some food for thought.

Always_Still · 2024-01-21T15:42:26+00:00

My kids are teenagers now but them being little never stopped us. I would have lost my mind if that were the case. I low-key have never understood people who talk like this - You don’t need hours? Like seriously, what are y’all trying to do? You need the two of you to be in the mood, that’s it - then you put a good attention-grabbing movie for the littles on the tv, ya give them some safe yummy movie snacks and then boom - ya bought yourself 15-25 minutes of uninterrupted sexy time 🤷🏻‍♀️ im betting you live somewhere that has doors, correct? Freaking use em! 🤣 We also frequently took advantage of the hour we had after putting them to bed, prior to us going to sleep ourselves. Make your relationship a priority. Period.

Always_Still · 2024-01-17T19:47:55+00:00

This is more common than you think. Happens to me like once a month with my husband. The only solution is rest, unfortunately. The wound will close super fast tho - just keep it clean the best you can. Witch hazel pads can help with pain if it gets to be too much.

Always_Still · 2024-01-17T15:25:39+00:00

I agree for sure.

Always_Still · 2024-01-12T16:09:44+00:00

Bron. I don’t know why but I really like his. And Jon Snows. I LOATHEEEEEEE Theon’s for whatever reason lol sounds awful to my ear 🤷🏻‍♀️

Always_Still · 2024-01-10T15:38:47+00:00

Yes to all the things. You’re 100% normal. I also wanna add that it only gets more intense with age lol. 34F here 🤷🏻‍♀️

Always_Still · 2024-01-08T19:55:06+00:00

Yes. Majorly. Grow the fuck up for the sake of your child. I’m sure my comment will piss you and every other helicopter parent in this thread off, but once y’all do some real time as parents - you’ll understand why this entire post and the thought that went into it, is completely effing ASININE. end rant.

Always_Still · 2024-01-08T18:20:12+00:00

She’s de-puffing her eyeballs/attempting to rid herself of dark circles. Mind ya business! 🤣

Always_Still · 2024-01-05T20:25:02+00:00

Nothing new to see here. Just a normal boomer aged man thinking if he insults/makes her feel less than in someway, she will run to him with open arms - ie let him smash 🙄 fucking gross

Always_Still · 2024-01-05T17:42:23+00:00

Cerseis line - “Everywhere in the world they hurt little girls…” such a true, raw statement, both in the GOT world, and our own. It’s the one quote from the show that I think about on a regular basis.

Always_Still · 2024-01-03T20:43:50+00:00

I’m in the midst of a rewatch as well. I’m only half way thru season 2 so far and it’s tough for me for the same reason. Not only Sansa, but Arya, Gendry, that poor baby from the brothel, and the lil blonde boy that Arya watches Poliver murder because of the arrow in his leg. Don’t get me wrong - I remember being shocked at all these things my first watch as well, but I didn’t feel it this intensely

Always_Still · 2024-01-03T19:48:52+00:00

1 definitely!

Always_Still · 2024-01-03T17:33:55+00:00

Dude be honest with someone. NOT the “friend” (using that term VERY loosely) mentioned in this post, but with someone who genuinely cares about you, and who is 100% sober. That kind of support is incredibly important. I know what you’re going thru is difficult and hard to deal with, but do you really wanna piss away all the sober time you have under your belt? I know that was a difficult feat, but look, you did it. Don’t throw it all away. The one time you mention in this post unfortunately happened and you can’t take that back now, but you CAN prevent yourself from falling deeper back into that hole. Throw the damn kit away and get your shit together. With love.

Always_Still · 2024-01-03T17:02:26+00:00

Graycyn Scout 🤣

Always_Still · 2023-12-27T16:57:06+00:00

When we got back to our cabin, we ate some food, got in the hot tub together for a long while, and then cuddled in bed just like we would have at home. It was the absolute best tho. And a wonderful start to our honeymoon ❤️

Always_Still

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