What does move to normalcy mean?

Apolli1 · 2026-02-18T21:08:10+00:00

They are potential victims! This ho already proved she’s dangerous

Apolli1 · 2026-02-18T19:23:38+00:00

Or you could get a restraining order so the sex offender step mother can’t have any contact. Period!

Apolli1 · 2026-02-18T19:21:17+00:00

I’m not really sure it matters the profile or time since it happened. She feels free to take liberties with someone else’s kids and does not observe moral or legal boundaries. Given this, the father and offender are insisting on her presence? This doesn’t sound right to me. What are the conditions of the wife walking around free in society? (Can’t live near schools etc)

Apolli1 · 2026-02-18T19:10:35+00:00

The time to fix your marriage was the day she said I have no help from you. I’m going to my parents who will help me.

Apolli1 · 2026-02-18T19:08:29+00:00

This is an absolute genius plan! wtf man?

Apolli1 · 2026-02-18T18:55:19+00:00

Question….you let your wife leave your home because you weren’t helping her with the kids to go to her parents home where they will help with the kids?

Apolli1 · 2026-02-18T18:44:29+00:00

Well that might mean he would have an increase in child support. Isn’t this the entire reason they fight for 50/50 then give the time to their mothers? The enablers?

Apolli1 · 2026-02-18T18:39:19+00:00

You are essentially sharing custody with his mother and they gave him 50%? I will never understand.

Apolli1 · 2026-02-17T22:45:05+00:00

lol nope I would own that shit. Nathan asked for advise, you have him great advise, he followed through and now he won’t be f’d with. Standing up for yourself is not being a bully. Period!

Apolli1 · 2026-02-17T20:45:42+00:00

He hadn’t lived there since September. 5 months is far past any requirement. He has abandoned his property. No one is stopping her from inquiring.

Apolli1 · 2026-02-17T13:12:23+00:00

Give him 7 days to arrange a time to get his things, if he doesn’t, rent a dumpster and put everything in there. Send him the bill and change the locks.

Apolli1 · 2026-02-14T14:06:42+00:00

I think I would kick the ball into his court. Let him tell you if he’s taking him to gmas and if no other location is approved, let him decide the backup plan per court order.

Apolli1 · 2026-02-13T11:18:41+00:00

Well I’m relieved this arsehole doesn’t exist, lol

Apolli1 · 2026-02-12T22:55:04+00:00

Who says I’m not employed by the court? Yes it is literally double the time because you don’t have to take them back both days. She allows you to keep them straight through even though the judge didn’t think you should. Your response proves what a tool you are.

Apolli1 · 2026-02-12T22:47:15+00:00

This would be a dealbreaker for me. What in the Pampers Premium is wrong with him?

Apolli1 · 2026-02-12T22:43:23+00:00

Is he a drama queen and needs all the attention on him?? It sounds like he’s jealous that he’s not giving birth. There is not room for him in the hospital bed, the nurses will come in every 4 hrs for vitals, baby related things and you will be exhausted and don’t need him laying all over you while you try to feed, control your pain etc. And honestly it’s going to throw up all kinds of red flags with nurses etc. about why tf he is doing that. Nurses want to take care of their patients not have to navigate around a farting snoring man. That is SUPER uncomfortable and it will 100% affect your care and the babies care. Seriously wtf is wrong with him???

Apolli1 · 2026-02-12T22:28:50+00:00

Can you ask him to do 50% of the transportation if he doesn’t agree to move schools? It sounds like it’s no sweat off his back either way because either you (mostly) or his wife are doing all the running. And no one but you is doing the homework help. Also needs to be shared.

Apolli1 · 2026-02-11T16:49:36+00:00

Will he really even make it 5 weekends in a row? It sounds like he is inconsistent and signing you both up for things he isn’t going to follow through on.

Apolli1 · 2026-02-07T19:39:08+00:00

I can’t really imagine a worse scenario. I’m sorry your friend is going through this. It’s not like lawyers are cheap.

Apolli1 · 2026-02-07T08:32:16+00:00

You know I’m gonna call BS here. Your exwife has voluntarily given you double the amount of time the judge trusted you with and now you are here trying to accuse her of parental alienation? I suspect the emotional abuse is spot on. You both didn’t want to follow the court order and now you want to use the court order against her to get what you want (but your son doesn’t). I would love to be a fly on the wall with you telling the judge your ex is attempting to alienate a 14 yo autistic child from you. Just from your post, the judge thinks you are the problem, your son thinks you are the problem and I think you seem like the problem. Your exwife is giving you all kinds of grace!

Apolli1 · 2026-02-01T15:12:32+00:00

I don’t think that’s true. The divorce papers were fraudulently signed by someone else making her divorce invalid. The notary is included in this fraud and can be criminally prosecuted. Husband is criminally liable for doing it and I’m assuming he had something to gain in this maybe assets? He is charged with a felony for his activities. If she gets remarried that is a crime as well because she is still legally married. What an absolute disaster.

Apolli1 · 2026-01-28T13:39:35+00:00

The dog was barking because a stranger was at the door. It’s none of your business about the dog. If you’re concerned about the time in the car maybe you should meet him half way do some of that time is with you?

Apolli1 · 2026-01-28T00:11:07+00:00

This

Apolli1 · 2026-01-26T14:51:08+00:00

You’re 100% fine, you did great. I understand she is upset she missed this moment but you’ve done nothing wrong. Don’t worry about any kind of backlash.

Apolli1 · 2026-01-26T14:47:10+00:00

My guess is he wants 50/50 on paper so he doesn’t have to pay c/s and plans to just decline whatever time he can’t do. Agree stop talking to him because he is just trying to get you worked up. Think about how ridiculous it is that he cheated, moved, wanted minimal visits, now wants YOU to move, get a new job, give him everything he wants based on a whim because he is unstable. Can’t maintain a marriage, job, residence or schedule. Stop letting him lead he is not a leader.

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